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This is more for lurkers who might not be 100% sure they are incel. If you're definitely an incel you can DNR this.

Firstly, a pretest:
Were you bullied badly in school? (By badly, I mean insulted over your appearance frequently, or beaten up at random)
Did people infantilise you? (e.g. speak to you like you were a kid or a dog?)
Are you short? (5'8 or less)
Are you ethnic/mixed?
Are you ND? (Autistic, ADHD, OCD, or a mental disorder, or similar. Including suspected.)
Are you balding?
Do people seem off-put by your presence?
Do you have zero friends?
Is your IQ low? (90 or less)

There's many more I could ask. The more of these you answered "yes" to, you are more likely to be an incel.
To confirm this, read on:

In short: Follow normgroid advice. If it doesn't work you're an incel.

What you need to do at first is work under the assumption that the bluepill is true (it's not, but, just assume it is). This means (and more):
- Dress nicely (even minor things like matching belt/shoe colour)
- Shave, haircut etc.
- Showering and general hygiene.
- Get hobbies.
- Gymcel.
- Socialise.
- etc, etc. Basically what the normies spoonfeed us daily.

Now, try approaching women. Got rejected? I want you to be rejected at least TEN times.
And also do this with UGLIER women. After all, if you're an incel, they should be your looksmatch.

Done? Good.

If, despite doing ALL of that, you haven't ascended, you're officially an incel. The register button is in the top right corner. Welcome to the team.
 
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Still khhdv after 15? I got some news for you brotha
 
Does IQ also count?

I mean having abysmally low one?

Because I've seen some users here claim to be sub90/80. I mean it doesn't matter if you're good looking and tall, but when you're ugly and short, low IQ on top of it is basically a final nail in the coffin.
 
Does IQ also count?

I mean having abysmally low one?

Because I've seen some users here claim to be sub90/80. I mean it doesn't matter if you're good looking and tall, but when you're ugly and short, low IQ on top of its basically a final nail in the coffin.
IQ matters, but like almost anything, it can be somewhat compensated. Then again, I think foids would rather choose a 120 IQ guy over an 80, assuming they are looksmatched.
 
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Were you bullied badly in school? Yes
Did people infantilise you? Idk, never really interacted with people that much
Are you short? (5'8 or less) 5'10, I'm tall as fuck you short mfs
Are you ethnic/mixed? Yes
Are you ND? (Autistic, ADHD, OCD, or a mental disorder, or similar. Including suspected.) Never got formally tested but I know my brain is fucked
Are you balding? No
Do people seem off-put by your presence? Yes
Do you have zero friends? Yes
Is your IQ low? (90 or less) No



Now, try approaching women. Got rejected? I want you to be rejected at least TEN times.
And also do this with UGLIER women. After all, if you're an incel, they should be your looksmatch.

Hell no I am never approaching a woman, I would rather risk my life in a combat zone than talk to a woman
 
Bullied - Yes insulted and made fun of constantly, not beaten up thankfully
Infantilised- No
Short - No 5’9 but i have been made fun of for my height before
Ethnic - Yes
Nd - probably
Balding - No
Put off by my presence- Yes
Zero friends - Yes

Dress nicely- Done
Shave, haircut - Done
Showering - Done
Hobbies - Done

Still KHHV after trying to be social and using dating apps.

I havent tried cold approaching though. I may try i have nothing to lose. However only with my looksmatch and above (probably 3/10 and above). I will NOT boost the egos of 0/10s by faking interest or approach landwhales since im pretty lean myself.
 
This is more for lurkers who might not be 100% sure they are incel. If you're definitely an incel you can DNR this.

Firstly, a pretest:
Were you bullied badly in school? (By badly, I mean insulted over your appearance frequently, or beaten up at random)
Did people infantilise you? (e.g. speak to you like you were a kid or a dog?)
Are you short? (5'8 or less)
Are you ethnic/mixed?
Are you ND? (Autistic, ADHD, OCD, or a mental disorder, or similar. Including suspected.)
Are you balding?
Do people seem off-put by your presence?
Do you have zero friends?
Is your IQ low? (90 or less)

There's many more I could ask. The more of these you answered "yes" to, you are more likely to be an incel.
To confirm this, read on:

In short: Follow normgroid advice. If it doesn't work you're an incel.

What you need to do at first is work under the assumption that the bluepill is true (it's not, but, just assume it is). This means (and more):
- Dress nicely (even minor things like matching belt/shoe colour)
- Shave, haircut etc.
- Showering and general hygiene.
- Get hobbies.
- etc, etc. Basically what the normies spoonfeed us daily.

Now, try approaching women. Got rejected? I want you to be rejected at least TEN times.
And also do this with UGLIER women. After all, if you're an incel, they should be your looksmatch.

Done? Good.

If, despite doing ALL of that, you haven't ascended, you're officially an incel. The register button is in the top right corner. Welcome to the team.
Let me answer all of these:

1) I was bullied in the following forms: random beatings, stranglings.. people stealing my stuff for fun and threatening to kill me for no reason.. being picked last in gym class.. etc
2) People do talk to me like a child even as a grown man sometimes
3) I am 5'8
4) I've never been diagnosed but I strongly suspect ADHD and/or Autism
5) I am not balding
6) People do seem off put by my presence which is why I avoid eye contact which reinforces it
7) I have zero friends that live near me. I do have a friend I message from time to time still but the rest abandoned me after college
8) Never took an IQ test but I made it through High school and college and got an EE degree

Personally I never understood the "dress nicely" advice. It's pretty much common sense to wear clothes that fit you properly. Showering is pretty obvious too. I would also add to this section: go to the gym for at least a year and build a decent body. Join at least one or two nonwork social groups (billiards group, jiu jitsu gym, take a class, whatever)

I would also add this to your prompts:
-Are you the butt of jokes in a social group? This a huge indicator that you're a truecel
 
Were you bullied badly in school? (By badly, I mean insulted over your appearance frequently, or beaten up at random) - no

Did people infantilise you? (e.g. speak to you like you were a kid or a dog?) - no

Are you short? (5'8 or less) - no
Are you ethnic/mixed? - no
Are you ND? (Autistic, ADHD, OCD, or a mental disorder, or similar. Including suspected.) - no
Are you balding? - no
Do people seem off-put by your presence? - no
Do you have zero friends? - no
Is your IQ low? (90 or less) - no
 
Were you bullied badly in school? (By badly, I mean insulted over your appearance frequently, or beaten up at random)
Did people infantilise you? (e.g. speak to you like you were a kid or a dog?)
Are you short? (5'8 or less)
Are you ethnic/mixed?
Are you ND? (Autistic, ADHD, OCD, or a mental disorder, or similar. Including suspected.)
Are you balding?
Do people seem off-put by your presence?
Do you have zero friends?
Is your IQ low? (90 or less)
Yes I was called a "school shooter" and mocked for my chin/jaw
Yes I was constantly "little bro-ed"
No
Yes
No
Yes I get dirty/disgusted looks
Yes, absolutely zero
No
 
This is more for lurkers who might not be 100% sure they are incel. If you're definitely an incel you can DNR this.

Firstly, a pretest:
Were you bullied badly in school? (By badly, I mean insulted over your appearance frequently, or beaten up at random)
Did people infantilise you? (e.g. speak to you like you were a kid or a dog?)
Are you short? (5'8 or less)
Are you ethnic/mixed?
Are you ND? (Autistic, ADHD, OCD, or a mental disorder, or similar. Including suspected.)
Are you balding?
Do people seem off-put by your presence?
Do you have zero friends?
Is your IQ low? (90 or less)

There's many more I could ask. The more of these you answered "yes" to, you are more likely to be an incel.
To confirm this, read on:

In short: Follow normgroid advice. If it doesn't work you're an incel.

What you need to do at first is work under the assumption that the bluepill is true (it's not, but, just assume it is). This means (and more):
- Dress nicely (even minor things like matching belt/shoe colour)
- Shave, haircut etc.
- Showering and general hygiene.
- Get hobbies.
- etc, etc. Basically what the normies spoonfeed us daily.

Now, try approaching women. Got rejected? I want you to be rejected at least TEN times.
And also do this with UGLIER women. After all, if you're an incel, they should be your looksmatch.

Done? Good.

If, despite doing ALL of that, you haven't ascended, you're officially an incel. The register button is in the top right corner. Welcome to the team.
It is not that hard to tell prople tbh
I told a lot of people that I am Incel directly and explained to them in a simple way what is the inceldom
 
There was a 13 year old applying here the other day, he said something about never having had a gf
 
Were you bullied badly in school? (By badly, I mean insulted over your appearance frequently, or beaten up at random) - no

Did people infantilise you? (e.g. speak to you like you were a kid or a dog?) - no

Are you short? (5'8 or less) - no
Are you ethnic/mixed? - no
Are you ND? (Autistic, ADHD, OCD, or a mental disorder, or similar. Including suspected.) - no
Are you balding? - no
Do people seem off-put by your presence? - no
Do you have zero friends? - no
Is your IQ low? (90 or less) - no
:chad:
 
Lol. Fuck cold approaching as an incel, just read this thread :lul:
 
If you're a virgin but not by choice then you're incel, it's quite simple.
 
Were you bullied badly in school? (By badly, I mean insulted over your appearance frequently, or beaten up at random)
ya
Did people infantilise you? (e.g. speak to you like you were a kid or a dog?)
kinda
Are you short? (5'8 or less)
5‘11 but that’s almost a manlet height for zoomers in my country
Are you ethnic/mixed?
mixed mutt
Are you ND? (Autistic, ADHD, OCD, or a mental disorder, or similar. Including suspected.)
ya
Are you balding?
nah
Do people seem off-put by your presence?
ya
Do you have zero friends?
ya
Is your IQ low? (90 or less)
possibly

damn man :fuk:
 
Were you bullied badly in school? (By badly, I mean insulted over your appearance frequently, or beaten up at random)
:yes:

Did people infantilise you? (e.g. speak to you like you were a kid or a dog?)
:yes:

Are you short? (5'8 or less)
:no:

Are you ethnic/mixed?
:no:

Are you ND? (Autistic, ADHD, OCD, or a mental disorder, or similar. Including suspected.)
:yes:

Are you balding?
:no:

Do people seem off-put by your presence?
:yes:

Do you have zero friends?
:no:

Is your IQ low? (90 or less)
:no:
 
If you're a virgin but not by choice then you're incel, it's quite simple.
Basically yes.

But I needed to show what "by choice" means to its fullest extent.
 
Yes to all and way more. Friendless permacel millenial LOL.
 
all and more. minus the low iq. mine is higher which makes the perception of the brutality of this life far worse and more intricate.... .
 
5/7 tried everything else so yeah I’d say so (22) KHV I’m counting having to hold a Woman up a step as part of my job
 
This is more for lurkers who might not be 100% sure they are incel. If you're definitely an incel you can DNR this.

Firstly, a pretest:
Were you bullied badly in school? (By badly, I mean insulted over your appearance frequently, or beaten up at random)
Did people infantilise you? (e.g. speak to you like you were a kid or a dog?)
Are you short? (5'8 or less)
Are you ethnic/mixed?
Are you ND? (Autistic, ADHD, OCD, or a mental disorder, or similar. Including suspected.)
Are you balding?
Do people seem off-put by your presence?
Do you have zero friends?
Is your IQ low? (90 or less)

There's many more I could ask. The more of these you answered "yes" to, you are more likely to be an incel.
To confirm this, read on:

In short: Follow normgroid advice. If it doesn't work you're an incel.

What you need to do at first is work under the assumption that the bluepill is true (it's not, but, just assume it is). This means (and more):
- Dress nicely (even minor things like matching belt/shoe colour)
- Shave, haircut etc.
- Showering and general hygiene.
- Get hobbies.
- Gymcel.
- Socialise.
- etc, etc. Basically what the normies spoonfeed us daily.

Now, try approaching women. Got rejected? I want you to be rejected at least TEN times.
And also do this with UGLIER women. After all, if you're an incel, they should be your looksmatch.

Done? Good.

If, despite doing ALL of that, you haven't ascended, you're officially an incel. The register button is in the top right corner. Welcome to the team.
-Always been bullied at school
-People always infanrilize me cause I'm ND
-5'9
-Slavic
-I have autism, ADHD and dyspraxia. Also suspected of bipolar disorder.
-Not balding but I'm just 21 yo
-Normies and foids always off-put of my presence
-Zero friends even online
-IQ lower than average. Always had terrible results at school and can't handle even retail shitjob
 
Try run-of-the-mill blue pill stuff is actually sound advice.
 
Also, being very low IQ is underrated. It's not that women are attracted to IQ (they are not), but having IQ helps you detect and fix problems, were they fixable.

Like, if you're really fucking stupid, you can't even comprehend some of the stuff written in the Must-Read section.
 
This is more for lurkers who might not be 100% sure they are incel. If you're definitely an incel you can DNR this.

Firstly, a pretest:
Were you bullied badly in school? (By badly, I mean insulted over your appearance frequently, or beaten up at random)
Did people infantilise you? (e.g. speak to you like you were a kid or a dog?)
Are you short? (5'8 or less)
Are you ethnic/mixed?
Are you ND? (Autistic, ADHD, OCD, or a mental disorder, or similar. Including suspected.)
Are you balding?
Do people seem off-put by your presence?
Do you have zero friends?
Is your IQ low? (90 or less)

There's many more I could ask. The more of these you answered "yes" to, you are more likely to be an incel.
To confirm this, read on:

In short: Follow normgroid advice. If it doesn't work you're an incel.

What you need to do at first is work under the assumption that the bluepill is true (it's not, but, just assume it is). This means (and more):
- Dress nicely (even minor things like matching belt/shoe colour)
- Shave, haircut etc.
- Showering and general hygiene.
- Get hobbies.
- Gymcel.
- Socialise.
- etc, etc. Basically what the normies spoonfeed us daily.

Now, try approaching women. Got rejected? I want you to be rejected at least TEN times.
And also do this with UGLIER women. After all, if you're an incel, they should be your looksmatch.

Done? Good.

If, despite doing ALL of that, you haven't ascended, you're officially an incel. The register button is in the top right corner. Welcome to the team.
Basically 90 percent of IT users will pass this test
 

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