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how to rid myself of the oneitis

coduxs

coduxs

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my beloved now lesbian oneitis is forever gone but i cant move on for some retarded reason, anyone got recs that will free me from the lesbianpill that raped my only chance at a love life
 
You’re addicted to the idea of her, not her.
 
You’re addicted to the idea of her, not her.
she removed me on everything but i saw her like two days ago on her friends story with her in a photobooth, i dont know if it was the idea of her or my cuck idealogy that has engraved her face in my head but my heart went like cold or sum shit idk something corny for normies

how to rid the idea of her, desperate.
 
Try to forget about her
 
Try to forget about her
i do not have the luxury unfortunately, she runs my mind
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Read my post on how to get over her.
 
It's difficult. I think the only thing you can do is therapymaxxing. Yes it's cucked but I don't think you can do much else.
 
In all honesty, I don't think I've ever heard of the term oneitis anywhere else before I joined this forum. I just don't care it's some really big BS propagated by popular media and literature, that there is the ONE perfect person for you, well I hate to break it to you but no human is perfect and that's just reality.
You’re addicted to the idea of her, not her.
Basically this^
It's all idealistic bullshit, glad I never had a oneitis ever.
 
Read my post on how to get over her.
I get the post but I dont see how this would help me get over her
Don’t succumb to what Rehab Room describes as “Lust induced cringemaxx syndrome”.
I've never masturbated to this girl for the sole purpose of her basically being a pristine piece of white cloth that i feel guilty dirtying, sometimes when im jerking to some other foid my brain will flash a picture of my oneitis and ill instantly like blink fastly to get it off my field of view, someone tell me if thats normal
 
It's difficult. I think the only thing you can do is therapymaxxing. Yes it's cucked but I don't think you can do much else.
I havent really tried real therapy but I was forced to go to a school counsellor for quite a while, it was always nothing tho just talking about some bullshit feelings and how its not healthy to be like this and how are we gonna solve it, retarded slop she thought probably helped me
 
I get the post but I dont see how this would help me get over her
The point is to stop you from doing something dangerous to her that could fuck up your life. You may not think you’re the type of person to do something violent, but when you’re so lonely and think you deserve someone that you’re obsessed with it can get very dangerous as I described in my post.
I've never masturbated to this girl for the sole purpose of her basically being a pristine piece of white cloth that i feel guilty dirtying, sometimes when im jerking to some other foid my brain will flash a picture of my oneitis and ill instantly like blink fastly to get it off my field of view, someone tell me if thats normal
That is normal, you don’t want to associate someone that you put on a pedestal with something sexual and corrupted.
 
my retarded stuggle i wish i was like you
mentalceldom is a struggle I know, people do get obsessive over random shit and anxious all the time. If you were like me you'd probably be in a worse position since it's mainly my physical features than mindset or personality.
 
mentalceldom is a struggle I know, people do get obsessive over random shit and anxious all the time. If you were like me you'd probably be in a worse position since it's mainly my physical features than mindset or personality.
i def agree , my facial aesthetics as a whole really fuck me up so theres no point in trying anyway, i really dont get how 90% of the chuddies on this forum havent roped since they seem to have the means to but i really dont know what holds them back
 
i def agree , my facial aesthetics as a whole really fuck me up so theres no point in trying anyway, i really dont get how 90% of the chuddies on this forum havent roped since they seem to have the means to but i really dont know what holds them back
Roping isn't exactly easy, it requires a good amount of mental will and strength to do, overcoming your basic desire to live subconsciously. There's also the fact most of us are probably mid-tier in terms of looks and height, looks are hard to tell but most of us are about 5'9 it's generally average in most places aside from western europe where it's slightly higher at 5'11.
 
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Roping isn't exactly easy, it requires a good amount of mental will and strength to do, overcoming your basic desire to live subconsciously. There's also the fact most of us are probably mid-tier in terms of looks and height, looks are hard to tell but most of us are about 5'9 it's generally average in most places aside from western europe where it's slightly higher at 5'11.
i just wish the heightpill was as prevalent as people make it out to be, i dont know if its my fucked up bone structure but not once in my life has height ever aided, i'd gladly trade 10 inches of my height for an average looking face
 
i just wish the heightpill was as prevalent as people make it out to be, i dont know if its my fucked up bone structure but not once in my life has height ever aided, i'd gladly trade 10 inches of my height for an average looking face
It's not about having one or the other you need to have both to make it work. You could get away with a bad face if you're like really tall like 6'3 or 6'4 but if you're slightly above average then it just won't.
 
i just wish the heightpill was as prevalent as people make it out to be, i dont know if its my fucked up bone structure but not once in my life has height ever aided, i'd gladly trade 10 inches of my height for an average looking face
Are you really 6’6?
 
You could get away with a bad face if you're like really tall like 6'3 or 6'4 but if you're average then it just won't.
eh idk about that, ive seen it first hand with people i know as well, for example i have a friend who is 6'5 but his face is about the same tier as mine; asymmetrical, crooked all together, acne ridden, etc. and hes fat and ethnic and not once have i heard or seen a girl attracted to him, the contrary really, girls have openly said they are scared of him because of the way he looks is too frightening and sometimes they vacate the area if he is there not to disturb him
 
Are you really 6’6?
i really dont want to mention it anymore because im not trying to humblebrag, im very lucky not to be short but not a day in my life has my height aided me because my God has cursed my living by breaking my face.
girls have openly said they are scared of him because of the way he looks is too frightening and sometimes they vacate the area if he is there not to disturb him
^ similar to me
 
eh idk about that, ive seen it first hand with people i know as well, for example i have a friend who is 6'5 but his face is about the same tier as mine; asymmetrical, crooked all together, acne ridden, etc. and hes fat and ethnic and not once have i heard or seen a girl attracted to him, the contrary really, girls have openly said they are scared of him because of the way he looks is too frightening and sometimes they vacate the area if he is there not to disturb him
It really depends, his face must be really bad if that's the case usually slightly below average face men can get away with it like if they're a 4 or maybe 3.
 
i really dont want to mention it anymore because im not trying to humblebrag, im very lucky not to be short but not a day in my life has my height aided me because my God has cursed my living by breaking my face.

^ similar to me
Are you ethnic? I’m a little bit shorter than you and my height has never helped me either. Height only helps if you’re white and can use JBW.
 
It really depends, his face must be really bad if that's the case usually slightly below average face men can get away with it like if they're a 4 or maybe 3.
def not slightly below average, we both fairly similar facially and physically except he loves his life and doesnt care and i hate it all
 
Are you ethnic? I’m a little bit shorter than you and my height has never helped me either. Height only helps if you’re white and can use JBW.
i am ethnic yes, i agree wholeheartedly. height is cope if you arent chad or white.

what ethnicity are you?
 

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