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I don't know if this is the best place to ask this problem, but if I ask on other sites, I'll get advice from normies who don't understand what I'm going through and will simply tell me to go to a psychologist and get on medication, and i don't like that.
Does anyone here know how to reduce social anxiety? It's the big reason why im still virgin, I also think I'm on the autism spectrum. So basically I'm an extreme Mentalcel. Because of that I have always been the outcast and the laughingstock of everyone in every place I have been.
My goal is not to become an extrovert or a normie, but reducing it might make my life easier.
The problem is that because of this social anxiety, I can't do anything at all, neither college, wageslave, even socializing with family is very uncomfortable. All of those are missed opportunities that I could be using to have sex... I don't even consider myself capable of paying a prostitute to lose my virginity, It would be an extremely awkward moment, so i'm totally fucked.

I can't cope anymore... I'm fooling myself. I don't want to masturbate anymore, I don't want sex dolls, I don't want anime girls... I want real sex.
Sex is my only goal, if I achieve that I could kill myself in peace, I don't need anything more.
 
If people are mocking you, it's probably not only because of your social anxiety problems.

Social anxiety is a result of how people have been treating you.
You're like this because people treated you like shit for your whole life. Why so? Your looks.

There's nothing to do.
 
Whatever I tell you will be cope and worthless. I yet a defeatist mindset but it sounds like you have been defeated and their is nothing you can do
 
xanax can help but thats it. Theres nothing you can do really it never ends.
 
If people are mocking you, it's probably not only because of your social anxiety problems.

Social anxiety is a result of how people have been treating you.
You're like this because people treated you like shit for your whole life. Why so? Your looks.

There's nothing to do.
 
I don't know if this is the best place to ask this problem, but if I ask on other sites, I'll get advice from normies who don't understand what I'm going through and will simply tell me to go to a psychologist and get on medication, and i don't like that.
Does anyone here know how to reduce social anxiety? It's the big reason why im still virgin, I also think I'm on the autism spectrum. So basically I'm an extreme Mentalcel. Because of that I have always been the outcast and the laughingstock of everyone in every place I have been.
My goal is not to become an extrovert or a normie, but reducing it might make my life easier.
The problem is that because of this social anxiety, I can't do anything at all, neither college, wageslave, even socializing with family is very uncomfortable. All of those are missed opportunities that I could be using to have sex... I don't even consider myself capable of paying a prostitute to lose my virginity, It would be an extremely awkward moment, so i'm totally fucked.

I can't cope anymore... I'm fooling myself. I don't want to masturbate anymore, I don't want sex dolls, I don't want anime girls... I want real sex.
Sex is my only goal, if I achieve that I could kill myself in peace, I don't need anything more.
Get better genes lol. Better luck next time
 
Two words: Give up
 
Being unattractive and having poor social skills is not mutually exclusive. I have never seen an attractive person with bad social skills, nor have I seen an unattractive person with above average social skills.

It's almost all about personality/upbringing, so if you are not very good with social skills now then you will most likely stay similar to your level now.

Give it a shot though, anything is possible ig
 

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