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Any oldcels that have move past it?

I wish I could become just apathetic towards women and normies. But the mistreatments, even the smallest ones, are pushing me to my fucking edge.

You don't do anything to them and they just wanna hurt you.

Unfortunately, this rage cannot bring about justice, and only hurts the person who is angry. So, how can it be stopped?
 
Any oldcels that have move past it?

I wish I could become just apathetic towards women and normies. But the mistreatments, even the smallest ones, are pushing me to my fucking edge.

You don't do anything to them and they just wanna hurt you.

Unfortunately, this rage cannot bring about justice, and only hurts the person who is angry. So, how can it be stopped?
It can’t be stopped sadly
 
You don't. It's always there. You'll just feel better somedays than others because of brain chemistry. The only bandaid is meds but your brain will slowly grow numb and tolerant to it so you'll need new meds, stronger meds and the cycle repeats.
 
Any oldcels that have move past it?

I wish I could become just apathetic towards women and normies. But the mistreatments, even the smallest ones, are pushing me to my fucking edge.

You don't do anything to them and they just wanna hurt you.

Unfortunately, this rage cannot bring about justice, and only hurts the person who is angry. So, how can it be stopped?
having a trascendent purpose helps as it may serve as a reminder as to what you must lay your focus and attention on. for me, it's the INCEL REVOLUTION and whenever I feel bitter and angry at rage b8, agitprop content showcasing how women are the most brutal genocidal nazis, I always remind myself that it's much better to not allow that shit to live rent free in my head and that if I must fix this I should be spending all my energies into making the revolt a success.
 
You don't. It's always there. You'll just feel better somedays than others because of brain chemistry. The only bandaid is meds but your brain will slowly grow numb and tolerant to it so you'll need new meds, stronger meds and the cycle repeats.
Yes, I experience this as well. Though I believe my consistent lack of sleep during the past few days has made me more unhinged
 
having a trascendent purpose helps as it may serve as a reminder as to what you must lay your focus and attention on. for me, it's the INCEL REVOLUTION and whenever I feel bitter and angry at rage b8, agitprop content showcasing how women are the most brutal genocidal nazis, I always remind myself that it's much better to not allow that shit to live rent free in my head and that if I must fix this I should be spending all my energies into making the revolt a success.
I agree, working towards something you care about greatly helps.
 
Yes, I experience this as well. Though I believe my consistent lack of sleep during the past few days has made me more unhinged
Sleep deprivation literally drives you into psychosis and insanity. It 100% would make you more unhinged lol.
 
It's normie gaslighting to think anger is bad. Anger in the face of mistreatment and unfairness is absolutely natural.
 
It's normie gaslighting to think anger is bad. Anger in the face of mistreatment and unfairness is absolutely natural.
I understand that it's natural, only that in our current societies, most of us are not in a position to use our anger to get back at the people who wrong us. We don't have any power over any of them.
 
At some point would you just get tired and show pure apathy?
 
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While I wouldn't count myself as an oldcel (I am 28), I have achieved that and I also think it is an excellent question

For me personally, it was smoking hard drugs (heroin and meth specifically). I realized that by vaporizing a powder, I have the ability to artificially induce a state of mind similar to what Chad feels naturally. Now someone could argue that it is a delusional state, since it is not real, it is induced by and only lasts as long as a substance is in your body.

But does it really matter at the end of the day? Why should I spend my days being miserable about my manletism, having to deal with the reality that foids are repulsed by me while they thirst over my Chad friend's (that I used to have) etc etc? When all it takes is inhaling some vapor off a piece of foil, and instantly feeling like I am Pablo Escobar?

I highly recommend this option, but only to those who really understand what they are actually getting into and are willing to take the consequences.

I will probably die rather young, I doubt I will make it over 50. But, I am a gigamanlet incel, why would I want to live a long life anyway?
 
While I wouldn't count myself as an oldcel (I am 28), I have achieved that and I also think it is an excellent question

For me personally, it was smoking hard drugs (heroin and meth specifically). I realized that by vaporizing a powder, I have the ability to artificially induce a state of mind similar to what Chad feels naturally. Now someone could argue that it is a delusional state, since it is not real, it is induced by and only lasts as long as a substance is in your body.

But does it really matter at the end of the day? Why should I spend my days being miserable about my manletism, having to deal with the reality that foids are repulsed by me while they thirst over my Chad friend's (that I used to have) etc etc? When all it takes is inhaling some vapor off a piece of foil, and instantly feeling like I am Pablo Escobar?

I highly recommend this option, but only to those who really understand what they are actually getting into and are willing to take the consequences.

I will probably die rather young, I doubt I will make it over 50. But, I am a gigamanlet incel, why would I want to live a long life anyway?
That's very interesting. I have like, one other goal in life (besides with women, which I've given up on) and the issue is that drugs would most likely get in the way of that goal. Though we never know. One thing I know for sure is that feeling angry towards women doesn't hurt them, it only hurts me. I need to find peace somehow.
 
Don't move past, remember everything. I had moved past the rage, had forgiven my piece of shit brother and gave him a load of money to help him with his life - only to crash my own life and get nothing in return.

Be smart, remember the paid and the rage and the betrayal.
 
Don't move past, remember everything. I had moved past the rage, had forgiven my piece of shit brother and gave him a load of money to help him with his life - only to crash my own life and get nothing in return.

Be smart, remember the paid and the rage and the betrayal.
I don't mean forget, just controlling it. Some days it's hard to do anything because I go psychotic
 
That's very interesting. I have like, one other goal in life (besides with women, which I've given up on) and the issue is that drugs would most likely get in the way of that goal. Though we never know. One thing I know for sure is that feeling angry towards women doesn't hurt them, it only hurts me. I need to find peace somehow.
Brother, if that goal is really important to you, and you think you can actually make it there without external support (ie drugs cause no human ever really supports an incel) then by all means, please give it your best and I wish you all the luck in the world. If drugs will prevent you from reaching it, please stay away

For me, when I am sober I can't do anything. Only when I am high and feel like a chad can I actually chase my goals. That's why I recommend this sort of lifestyle (to those who know fr what they are getting into)

Idk how old are you, but I am inclined to believe the older we get, the less angry we become. Men become more and more stoic as time passes. But as you said yourself, anger hurts only you, foids couldn't give any less of a fuck of some lonely incel is angry

Take care and wish you all the best, may you reach that goal of yours
 
Brother, if that goal is really important to you, and you think you can actually make it there without external support (ie drugs cause no human ever really supports an incel) then by all means, please give it your best and I wish you all the luck in the world. If drugs will prevent you from reaching it, please stay away

For me, when I am sober I can't do anything. Only when I am high and feel like a chad can I actually chase my goals. That's why I recommend this sort of lifestyle (to those who know fr what they are getting into)

Idk how old are you, but I am inclined to believe the older we get, the less angry we become. Men become more and more stoic as time passes. But as you said yourself, anger hurts only you, foids couldn't give any less of a fuck of some lonely incel is angry

Take care and wish you all the best, may you reach that goal of yours
Thanks man, really thanks, I wish you the best as well. I'm in my early 20s and nearing the end of college. What awaits us outside of it, for guys like me specially, seems grim. But there are some opportunities. I would be content honestly if I could reach a point financially where I'm can be semi comfortable. The job market where I live is harsh currently, and I'll most likely move to another country.
My cousin smokes Marijuana and says that it helps calm him, though I've feared doing drugs because of the side effects. Plus he has the discipline to do it in moderation, I'm afraid I might get really addicted.

It's crazy though that guys like us get way more support and understanding from other fellow incels who we've never met than anything we get in real life.
I really hope we all find peace.
 
Thanks man, really thanks, I wish you the best as well. I'm in my early 20s and nearing the end of college. What awaits us outside of it, for guys like me specially, seems grim. But there are some opportunities. I would be content honestly if I could reach a point financially where I'm can be semi comfortable. The job market where I live is harsh currently, and I'll most likely move to another country.
My cousin smokes Marijuana and says that it helps calm him, though I've feared doing drugs because of the side effects. Plus he has the discipline to do it in moderation, I'm afraid I might get really addicted.

It's crazy though that guys like us get way more support and understanding from other fellow incels who we've never met than anything we get in real life.
I really hope we all find peace.
First of all congratulations for actually finishing college! Despite suffering from inceldom. When I was in university, all I could think about is how other guys had sex with the girls in class while I spent my days alone. It takes balls to be able to go through this and actually finish your study. So very well done to you brother.

Marijuana is what I was smoking during college. I would smoke 5g of very strong Dutch marijuana (I went to university in NL).

You are very correct in assuming you will get addicted. As an incel, you won't use drugs for the pleasure of using drugs, you will use drugs to escape the cruel reality of inceldom, so by definition you will end up a drug addict. Doesn't matter if it is marijuana or meth or fentanyl even. The question is whether you are willing to pay the price.

Now whether you can live a comfortable life, a college degree certainly helps man. Idk what you study and where you live, but as someone who never got his uni degree and spent his life slaving as a fast food worker of warehouse worker, I guarantee you a college degree increases your chances for a comfortable life.

The reason we understand each other even though we never met is because us incels go through the same shit, and we actually have the balls to face the reality. We don't gaslight ourselves like most normies do.

And we won't ever find peace, sorry to be the one to break it to you. As Tommy Shelby (peaky blinders) said "there is no rest in this life" (let alone for us incels). Idk if it manletism you suffer from or facial subhumanity, the result is the same. You won't ever be desired by a woman, at best you can be a betabuxx who at least gets to reproduce (if thats what you want), that's as much as we can hope for.

But shekelmaxxing, having money to do what you enjoy, whether that is narcotics, bungee jumping or traveling the world, certainly improves your life quality. Good luck brother and please don't give up on college!
 
I understand that it's natural, only that in our current societies, most of us are not in a position to use our anger to get back at the people who wrong us. We don't have any power over any of them.
That's not the point. The point is that if you try to surpress your anger, which is a rightful anger, you are damaging yourself.

I have found that staying away from anything connected to soyciety and normies gives me more inner peace. But i would never actively deny my anger because i know it's one of the few things protecting me and keeping me sane.
 
I have found that staying away from anything connected to soyciety and normies gives me more inner peace.
I agree.
Society see us as a punching bags, i try to avoid society as much as possibile.
 
While I wouldn't count myself as an oldcel (I am 28), I have achieved that and I also think it is an excellent question

For me personally, it was smoking hard drugs (heroin and meth specifically). I realized that by vaporizing a powder, I have the ability to artificially induce a state of mind similar to what Chad feels naturally. Now someone could argue that it is a delusional state, since it is not real, it is induced by and only lasts as long as a substance is in your body.

But does it really matter at the end of the day? Why should I spend my days being miserable about my manletism, having to deal with the reality that foids are repulsed by me while they thirst over my Chad friend's (that I used to have) etc etc? When all it takes is inhaling some vapor off a piece of foil, and instantly feeling like I am Pablo Escobar?

I highly recommend this option, but only to those who really understand what they are actually getting into and are willing to take the consequences.

I will probably die rather young, I doubt I will make it over 50. But, I am a gigamanlet incel, why would I want to live a long life anyway?
Damn, you drug mog me man.
I never did heroin.
 
for me the rage has just been replaced by an infinite sadness. i also take long breaks from this board cus too much blackpill at once can be lethal.
 
You might become numb with aging when your t levels tank but for the most part you never get over it.
Having sex would probably help also
 

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