Thats why I want a religious ceremony and not a civil one.
I don't know which country you're in, but in most of the world it doesn't matter the ceremony type. If you're married, the foid owns you.
Also how am I supposed to have kids and raise a family?
Hire a surrogate. Travel abroad to some country in order to find a foid that is adequate to generate kids with. Raise your kids by yourself, with hired help, and help from your own family.
Foids in 2022 don't really help raising kids anymore. In 2022 foids contributions to parenting are:
-- don't breastfeed the kids so they get fed on soy formula and become stunted.
-- throw the kids in kindergarten before age 2 in order to traumatize them.
-- don't cook nutritious meals in order for the whole family to be nutrient-deficient.
-- waste money that should be spent on the kids (group activities, toys, trips, outings, inheritance, college etc.) with makeup, purses, clothes and other foidish frivolities.
-- damage kids brain development (e.g. attachment issues) by disrespecting the father in front of them.
-- create a hostile and contemptuous atmosphere at home by nagging all the time.
-- stay all day every day in a bad-temper to destroy the development of the kids' personalities (become shy, avoidant, introverted, afraid of the hostility of the mother).
-- criticize everything the husband does or doesn't do, so the kids grow up with daddy issues.
etc.
Kids don't need a foid to raise them.
Single dads do as well as the best families.
Single moms' kids are almost always fucked-up in the head because foidish behavior is a massive fuck-up, especially if the foids are not disciplined --- and in 2022 it's impossible to discipline a foid unless you both grew up in a cult or community in the middle of nowhere, otherwise the foid will learn from the internet, media, friends etc. how to misbehave in the most destructive ways.
Just buy your way into the life you want.
Getting a dead-bedroom relationship and getting divorce-raped is the only possible outcome of marriage for non-Chad males in 2022.
Remember: every cent you spend on a foid, is one less cent you're spending with your kids.
When a foid divorce-rapes a man, the kids' inheritance is halved, because the foid usually blow every last penny on bullshit.