Serious How to increase monk mentality ?

[Eunuch]

I read this article about some Indian monk who lived to be 120. He was malnourished as a kid and only ended up being 5'2 insisted that his secret for living so long was doing yoga and not worrying about pussy. the story is more or less verified and of course corroborated by many other monk stories.

obviously people could argue that him being a poor little incel fried his mind to the point where he convinced himself that he was volcel as a cope. But still the story inspired me. I would love to be one of those monks who does yoga/Tai chi/chi gong and martial arts etc, but the urge fuck the shit out of every 20th percentile girl with a fat ass is still so strong. I would love to be rid of that urge but my monkey brain still convinces me that I would have a chance with one of those girls if I made money etcetera (which is unlikely given my blackpilling experience with online dating when I was still young enough that girls wouldn't have expected me to have money). Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated.

 

[DeliriousMerchant]

but the urge fuck the shit out of every 20th percentile girl with a fat ass is still so strong. I would love to be rid of that urge

why?

 

[Eunuch]

why?

Are you serious? Because it is an itch that cannot be scratched

 

[Lonly ghost]

I would love to be rid of that urge but my monkey brain still convinces me that I would have a chance with one of those girls if I made money etcetera (which is unlikely given my blackpilling experience with online dating when I was still young enough that girls wouldn't have expected me to have money). Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated.

Being aware of your thoughts and emotions.

Mind is like a sky and thoughts/feelings are like clouds. Thoughts and feelings come and go. They are not permanent. Sometimes we feel happy , sometimes sad , sometimes horny , etc.

If you recognise that your thoughts and emotions are just thoughts and emotions and not your identity, then it becomes easier to have a zen / monk mentally.

Basically, do not identify with thoughts and feelings. Thoughts and feelings are ever changing, they come and go. Your actual identity is eternal and non physical that cannot be seen.

When you have an urge , recognise that urge as a temporary feeling and not as a personal identity.

 

[kay']

Just be a monk theory

 

[MajorThomas666]

Get rid of all copes. Anything that works on dopamine should be thrown in the trash. No phone, computer or TV.

I did this for three months and lived outside, and I can honestly say I felt great. Not depressed, just derealized to the world.

I read this article about some Indian monk who lived to be 120. He was malnourished as a kid and only ended up being 5'2 insisted that his secret for living so long was doing yoga and not worrying about pussy. the story is more or less verified and of course corroborated by many other monk stories.

obviously people could argue that him being a poor little incel fried his mind to the point where he convinced himself that he was volcel as a cope. But still the story inspired me. I would love to be one of those monks who does yoga/Tai chi/chi gong and martial arts etc, but the urge fuck the shit out of every 20th percentile girl with a fat ass is still so strong. I would love to be rid of that urge but my monkey brain still convinces me that I would have a chance with one of those girls if I made money etcetera (which is unlikely given my blackpilling experience with online dating when I was still young enough that girls wouldn't have expected me to have money). Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated.

 

[Earl Turner]

why?

just knock a few out of the way and be done with it. I spend max 5 mins a day fapping and crack on with my day. Semen retention fucktards spend so much time and energy on it, relapse after 4 days then rinse and repeat lol

 

[IWWorkER]

Ask that question at your local temple/monaster

 

[INVERTER]

I read this article about some Indian monk who lived to be 120. He was malnourished as a kid and only ended up being 5'2 insisted that his secret for living so long was doing yoga and not worrying about pussy. the story is more or less verified and of course corroborated by many other monk stories.

obviously people could argue that him being a poor little incel fried his mind to the point where he convinced himself that he was volcel as a cope. But still the story inspired me. I would love to be one of those monks who does yoga/Tai chi/chi gong and martial arts etc, but the urge fuck the shit out of every 20th percentile girl with a fat ass is still so strong. I would love to be rid of that urge but my monkey brain still convinces me that I would have a chance with one of those girls if I made money etcetera (which is unlikely given my blackpilling experience with online dating when I was still young enough that girls wouldn't have expected me to have money). Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated.

How old are you?

I would have said the same thing in my early 20s. Now my sex drive has declined. Even looking at porn doesn't really do it for me anymore. I think I am just damaged goods to the point where monk mode is just natural and it's only going to get worse in my 30s

 

[DeliriousMerchant]

just knock a few out of the way and be done with it. I spend max 5 mins a day fapping and crack on with my day. Semen retention fucktards spend so much time and energy on it, relapse after 4 days then rinse and repeat lol

factual

 

[BlackPilledNormi]

Living apart from women in a monestary or alone in the nature

 

[andinocel]

I'm curious too, but its hard when you have a fucking sex drive. I can't see myself getting into a monk mentality until I'm in my 70s or 80s (if I get there)

 

[Eunuch]

How old are you?

I would have said the same thing in my early 20s. Now my sex drive has declined. Even looking at porn doesn't really do it for me anymore. I think I am just damaged goods to the point where monk mode is just natural and it's only going to get worse in my 30s

Im already at the point where my sex drive has declined a fair amount compared to early 20s, but simultaneously I doubt it's going to get that much lower until im like 50-60