Blackpill HOW to have a normal life even? Any other fellow oldcels can give advice? YOUNGCEL FAGS BANNED FROM THIS THREAD

[Incline]

Like, even if I wanted to I dont even know how to have normal life. Like people going to restaurants together, going to events. Friends talking to eachother. Jfl this is so alien to me I never had anything like this my entire life so I dont even know how to be normal. Im in my late 20s and I dont know how to be a normal human even if I could.

In my spare time, I watch few youtube couples. Those types that go to countries and record what they do. Out of interest I like watching them and see how normal people act, jfl I dont understand its like another world to me. Like I would never be able to live in a life like that so I already know its over for me. I will never be normal like that, I cant talk normally, I cant even imagine going to restaurant with people or some shit like that which normies do. Jfl the normie behaviour is so foreign to me. I guess its part of being an autist but still.

Like I have no normal behavior patterns. I dont know how people make friends, how to talk to people. Everytime I tried to talk to someone they just hate me for no reason. I know now why. If not for this shit genes I could have learned how to have a normal life but now my life is reduced to being stuck in my tiny ass room and wagecuck for god knows what.

Every since I was a child I had nothing but negative reinforcements 24/7. Everywhere. My school, first job, first friends. The only few friends I keep touch with are all autist fucks or extremists. Jfl one of my friend is probably dead idk I think he converted to extreme islam havent heard from him he probably died in Syria or some shit.

When I tried having normal friend group they just made fun of me in the back, I was too bluepilled to see how they fucking treated me like shit jfl now I see. It was pretty funny jfl being so bluepilled.

Ngl though, I was most happy when I was bluepilled. At least I believed in something that it will get better with time jfl. Its so fucking funny being bluepilled I remember doing SO MUCH STUPID SHIT when I was bluepilled jfl omfg

I remember talking to women in clubs and they looked at me like I was subhuman jfl but I was too drunk to be embarrassed so I was talking to them anyway it was so funny when they threw me out of the club it was first time I became blackpilled and started my blackpill journey from there. I learned the truth through life experience. That is how I know blackpill is the truth, I have LIVED THE BLACKPILL.

Normies just dont fucking understand, that blackpill is not some philosophy or believes. WE ARE LIVING THE BLACKPILL. OUR LIFE IS THE FUCKING BLACKPILL. Normies dont fucking understand this because they never experience the full blackpill.

Idk, its so over. Even if I somehow try fix my life, I still have no idea how to live a normal life, go to places, make friends, talk to people, etc, etc, etc... I only know how to be miserable jfl

its over buddy boyos.

I had great plans but I realized im too fucking lazy and tired to do anything so its over. But I dont want to kill myself yet or die because I am still a virgin and I dont fucking wanna die a virgin at late 20s jfl. Idk what to do. Maybe I will go thailand, maybe iwth some other cels. Thats my dream anyway.

 

[EpsteinTruther41]

youngcel here (only to read)

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

Foids Always looked like I was some spastic monster kid ,I just play games and cope with anything

 

[Incline]

Foids Always looked like I was some spastic monster kid ,I just play games and cope with anything

Games stop being fun after a while. Idk how old you are, but in my 20s games stop being fun. I just play now to kill time not really having fun with anything.

 

[Incelius Savage]

How much do you make from wagecucking?

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

Games stop being fun after a while. Idk how old you are, but in my 20s games stop being fun. I just play now to kill time not really having fun with anything.

Yeah mostly it’s just like a chore ,it’s not that fun but it’s okay ,reduces the pain

 

[Incline]

How much do you make from wagecucking?

35k dollar

 

[Deleted member 40767]

you just dont have a normal life thats how it is

 

[Incline]

you just dont have a normal life thats how it is

 

[Subhuman Niceguy]

Save your money, stay out of trouble with the law, keep your resume updated, get a bachelor's degree, and don't get an ugly foid pregnant who you don't want to be the mother of your child (I watched my friends become loser parents).

 

[El Enemigo]

You expect me to read all that shit for me to give you an advice you will simply discard after reading?

 

[wei#3959]

mogs me you went to clubs before

 

[Ricordanza]

Be nt

 

[NagarNikkucel]

you just dont have a normal life thats how it is

 

[Incline]

You expect me to read all that shit for me to give you an advice you will simply discard after reading?

yes

 

[Izayacel]

We are living Lifes on scraps while Others have a full Cake, and even then some.

For me It feels normal Not being NT , i cant bother Putting Up a facade . I rather kill the gaslighter / Shitters that think they know whats best for Someone before that .

What is best for someone Like me IS an fucking Nice Appartment , Money so i can indulge in copes and food , and GENUINE non bs Sex

May i find absolute haven and Bliss in My next Life.

@Incline

 

[Incline]

We are living Lifes on scraps while Others have a full Cake, and even then some.

For me It feels normal Not being NT , i cant bother Putting Up a facade . I rather kill the gaslighter / Shitters that think they know whats best for Someone before that .

What is best for someone Like me IS an fucking Nice Appartment , Money so i can indulge in copes and food , and GENUINE non bs Sex

May i find absolute haven and Bliss in My next Life.

@Incline

I hope you do brother we dont deserve this life

 

[Izayacel]

I hope you do brother we dont deserve this life

I Hope you find salvation , fullfillment aswell , If Not Here then in your next Life

 

[Lux]

Some plan a visit to thailand if they have enough money to afford it (even the escorts from thailand are very submissive compared to western escorts), but the best course of action is unknown, cryptic. Rampage results in nothing, things to entertain yourself gets tiring and dull and boring, urges get stronger, you want advice. So what to do? It is suspenseful, you get anxious overthinking it rightfully because indeed you are getting older and having a life wasted, you want answers, you look for a hidden wisdom somewhere, a way of uncovering a future that you wish you had since your youth, a deep and intense blue sky filled with friends and, most important, a girl that really likes you, but where? Reborn? It is hard to uncover the truth.

 

[Deleted member 41988]

you just dont have a normal life thats how it is

 

[Defetivecuckachu]

Well I'm 40 so maybe the following will be of some help.

Big picture, one of two things is going to happen: either you'll ascend and have everything, or you won't.

That is going to be controversial and will attract some haters on here. But it is true. My circle at high school were the geeks, and my friend circle at university were the utter reject mentalcels. Both groups contained guys who I expected to be lifelong mentalcels, but later they ascended and now have enduring relationships. Let's not dwell on that too long, because I don't want to be the one who gives you false hope that sets you back years on your journey to enlightenment. But suffice to say, I have seen hope work out for mentalcels and spergs more than once, so I don't believe it's ridiculous to keep your door just slightly cracked open to possibilities... provided you don't allow it to turn into expectation false hope. Have realistic expectations grounded in the , but remain open to the possibility that opportunities can exist.

^^^ there will be some REEEEEing over that statement, I don't care, fuck em, they are wrong.

If your experience is like mine, that opportunity never materializes, and you remain single and incel. How does a man cope with that? IMHO:

Start using that word "man" in thinking about yourself and your actions. Its semantics but it's a bit more than that. You're not a dumb wounded teenager any more. You're a grown man and there are certain things in your life that you CAN control. So make those things happen. Stay in school. Get a STEM degree. Get job that takes you well above min wage within a few years. Get a savings plan and turn that $100 every weekend that you DON'T spend drinking and spading for women with normie friends, and turn that into a deposit on a property.
Again haters are going to REEEE and scream "wagecuck" but if you don't do that, your rent is going to build up Chad and Stacy's portfolio of rental properties and create their trust fund for their daughter to whore around with in 20 year's time. Fuck that. Build up your own equity not somebody else's.
Within a few years, you will find that making your payments gets easier and easier, because your income tends to go up not down over time, if you've picked a real profession and stuck with it

And while you're doing all that, you may find that something good happens. You start to realize you've built a kind of life, and there's more to it than just no woman and no sex.

You might start finding some job satisfaction. Maybe a genuine compliment from a tough boss. Maybe you find you're actually quite good at running projects and leading a team. Maybe you find you're a natural teacher and the young grads ask you for help or even advice.

You might start to find you can afford copes you never expected you would, like travel, or a project car, or climbing a mountain or sailing a boat. You might find that after years of playing in the amateur orchestra or the social hockey team, you're actually a much stronger player than you ever were as a kid and the team legit respects that. You might find that getting back into those kinds of naive copes that you used to have as a teenager, but gave away when you studied and life became hard, feels like coming home.

You might fuck escorts and in that way learn what sex feels like, and also learn what post-sex perspective feels like. And learn that you never truly had "virgin" tattooed on your forehead.

You might find that as your brothers and sisters have children of their own, instead of being crushed by comparing their success to your failure, you actually start to enjoy being uncle to their kids and having a role (even just a small role) in something truly beautiful. And you realize that by being part of their lives you can feel part of something good, and you can leave a kind of positive legacy in the world.

Basically, time spent coping, is time that will help build up an identity around you, that is more than just ADULT MALE VIRGIN. More than just THE GUY REJECTED FOR SEX. And with that, I have found that the grief and the self pity wanes, it doesn’t grow. It goes from being a constant overwhelming sadness that ruins everything, to a general mood that occasionally flares up when you're faced with couples making out or foids with their tits out for Chad, to eventually just a background fact of life like the colour of your wallpaper. OK maybe not as trivial as that! But definitely not a debilitating grief that never leaves you in peace and makes suicide seem attractive.

Maybe sex drive reduces slightly with age? Maybe I'm somewhat low-t? I know I'm fairly beta and not much of a leader. Perhaps those are actually good traits if you're here for the long run? It must be hard if you have innate alpha traits, to swallow the pill that nobody wants to fuck you and you have failed at something you really wanted.

I found it hard reading that post recently about the 41yo school teacher in Pennsylvania who killed himself because he got oneitis feelings over one of his teenaged students and it got him fired and struck off. She smiled at him and he went full delusional in an instant, like a fool. Reading his utter grief in his own words was hard, because it took me straight back to how I felt when I was 19 or 20. And I thank fuck that I'm no longer that guy. And in the last Maybe 5 years, I honestly think I've reached a place where I'm pretty confident I won't be that guy.

So that's my take on how to be an oldcel. Basically, harden the fuck up, see yourself as a MAN not a GUY or a DUDE or AN INCEL, work on the things you can change, and build up as much of a life as you possibly can. It is worth the struggle and it does make you happier.

I hope this is of some help! I'm sure young bloods will be here to scream CUCK and TLDR and bring the flame any minute now

 

[Theinvoluntarycelib]

Well I'm 40 so maybe the following will be of some help.

Big picture, one of two things is going to happen: either you'll ascend and have everything, or you won't.

That is going to be controversial and will attract some haters on here. But it is true. My circle at high school were the geeks, and my friend circle at university were the utter reject mentalcels. Both groups contained guys who I expected to be lifelong mentalcels, but later they ascended and now have enduring relationships. Let's not dwell on that too long, because I don't want to be the one who gives you false hope that sets you back years on your journey to enlightenment. But suffice to say, I have seen hope work out for mentalcels and spergs more than once, so I don't believe it's ridiculous to keep your door just slightly cracked open to possibilities... provided you don't allow it to turn into expectation false hope. Have realistic expectations grounded in the , but remain open to the possibility that opportunities can exist.

^^^ there will be some REEEEEing over that statement, I don't care, fuck em, they are wrong.

If your experience is like mine, that opportunity never materializes, and you remain single and incel. How does a man cope with that? IMHO:

Start using that word "man" in thinking about yourself and your actions. Its semantics but it's a bit more than that. You're not a dumb wounded teenager any more. You're a grown man and there are certain things in your life that you CAN control. So make those things happen. Stay in school. Get a STEM degree. Get job that takes you well above min wage within a few years. Get a savings plan and turn that $100 every weekend that you DON'T spend drinking and spading for women with normie friends, and turn that into a deposit on a property.
Again haters are going to REEEE and scream "wagecuck" but if you don't do that, your rent is going to build up Chad and Stacy's portfolio of rental properties and create their trust fund for their daughter to whore around with in 20 year's time. Fuck that. Build up your own equity not somebody else's.
Within a few years, you will find that making your payments gets easier and easier, because your income tends to go up not down over time, if you've picked a real profession and stuck with it

And while you're doing all that, you may find that something good happens. You start to realize you've built a kind of life, and there's more to it than just no woman and no sex.

You might start finding some job satisfaction. Maybe a genuine compliment from a tough boss. Maybe you find you're actually quite good at running projects and leading a team. Maybe you find you're a natural teacher and the young grads ask you for help or even advice.

You might start to find you can afford copes you never expected you would, like travel, or a project car, or climbing a mountain or sailing a boat. You might find that after years of playing in the amateur orchestra or the social hockey team, you're actually a much stronger player than you ever were as a kid and the team legit respects that. You might find that getting back into those kinds of naive copes that you used to have as a teenager, but gave away when you studied and life became hard, feels like coming home.

You might fuck escorts and in that way learn what sex feels like, and also learn what post-sex perspective feels like. And learn that you never truly had "virgin" tattooed on your forehead.

You might find that as your brothers and sisters have children of their own, instead of being crushed by comparing their success to your failure, you actually start to enjoy being uncle to their kids and having a role (even just a small role) in something truly beautiful. And you realize that by being part of their lives you can feel part of something good, and you can leave a kind of positive legacy in the world.

Basically, time spent coping, is time that will help build up an identity around you, that is more than just ADULT MALE VIRGIN. More than just THE GUY REJECTED FOR SEX. And with that, I have found that the grief and the self pity wanes, it doesn’t grow. It goes from being a constant overwhelming sadness that ruins everything, to a general mood that occasionally flares up when you're faced with couples making out or foids with their tits out for Chad, to eventually just a background fact of life like the colour of your wallpaper. OK maybe not as trivial as that! But definitely not a debilitating grief that never leaves you in peace and makes suicide seem attractive.

Maybe sex drive reduces slightly with age? Maybe I'm somewhat low-t? I know I'm fairly beta and not much of a leader. Perhaps those are actually good traits if you're here for the long run? It must be hard if you have innate alpha traits, to swallow the pill that nobody wants to fuck you and you have failed at something you really wanted.

I found it hard reading that post recently about the 41yo school teacher in Pennsylvania who killed himself because he got oneitis feelings over one of his teenaged students and it got him fired and struck off. She smiled at him and he went full delusional in an instant, like a fool. Reading his utter grief in his own words was hard, because it took me straight back to how I felt when I was 19 or 20. And I thank fuck that I'm no longer that guy. And in the last Maybe 5 years, I honestly think I've reached a place where I'm pretty confident I won't be that guy.

So that's my take on how to be an oldcel. Basically, harden the fuck up, see yourself as a MAN not a GUY or a DUDE or AN INCEL, work on the things you can change, and build up as much of a life as you possibly can. It is worth the struggle and it does make you happier.

I hope this is of some help! I'm sure young bloods will be here to scream CUCK and TLDR and bring the flame any minute now

Incredible post. Giga experience + Giga IQ. Everyone should read this. It does get easier with age as testosterone tends to decrease, and you start to realise that sex and women are not life, but a part of it.

Imo what your bluepilled mentalcel friends from university did was cucked. Foids do not deserve to be wifed up. But that is my opinion. If there are indeed cels on this forum who really want to ascend like this, and want to take the chance even with no-fault divorce and alimony rules, go right ahead. Do not let our beliefs change what you are. It is truly bliss to be bluepilled, however, once you have swallowed the blackpill, there's really no going back.

I agree with giving yourself more self-respect. There's only so much of our life left, we'd better make the most of it. Glad to see that you turned it around (somewhat) and are doing well now. Being good at something is the ultimate cope, because you get exactly what you wanted from everyone: validation. Even if it doesn't mean anything, you know and I know, this is one of the biggest underlying reasons why people get into relationships. Be good at something. I'm trying.

Acceptance does bring peace, but it takes a certain maturity to reach that stage. Many incels on this forum have their blood boiling, simply because they haven't accepted the fact yet. Not to hijack your post, kind sir, but this is what I have been saying all along: reduce the pain. Acceptance is the key. And this is how you make the best out of your relatively disadvantaged life, which is the point. Which has always been the point. Incels do not like to accept that relationships are actually a massive cope that normies indulge in to live a better life, and then (most of the time) spectacularly fail at.

I admire that you could be a good uncle to the kids of your brothers and sisters. I am not very comfortable with kids, so personally I refrain from getting too close to them (children don't really like my presence, maybe I give off bad vibes, whatever that means).

Thank you for your comment. I believe there is a function to save comments on this forum? If so, I will save this comment. Cheers, and have a good weekend!