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Serious How to have a more attractive personality to women according to science: *Become More Narcissistic, Manipulative, and Psychopathic*

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This study assessed the personality traits women find most attractive:
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886913012245

They found women were highly attracted to the dark triad: Narcissism, Manipulativeness, and Psychopathy (insensitivity to others).

The full article is here:
https://www.researchgate.net/public..._personality_Attractiveness_to_women/download

To summarize their findings:
"In conclusion, the results of our study demonstrate that the Dark Triad male personality is attractive to women and this effect is not mediated by these men’s greater perceived Extraversion or Neuroticism."

They suggest the "Dirty Dozen" as a tool for quickly taking inventory of how much you fit the Dark Triad:
  1. I tend to manipulate others to get my way.
  2. I tend to lack remorse.
  3. I tend to want others to admire me.
  4. I tend to be unconcerned with the morality of my actions.
  5. I have used deceit or lied to get my way.
  6. I tend to be callous or insensitive.
  7. I have used flattery to get my way.
  8. I tend to seek prestige or status.
  9. I tend to be cynical.
  10. I tend to exploit others toward my own end.
  11. I tend to expect special favors from others.
  12. I want others to pay attention to me.

So quite sincerely, it appears if you actually want to maximize your personality for sexual success, you should work on maximizing those attributes. Those are what science say women respond to. That is a "good personality" to women for sexual mating.

Do you fit that currently at all? I don't. Do you think it's something a person can practice at or should practice at? I wonder if it's worth getting women if I must become what I would otherwise consider a terrible person in order to do so. Is it?
 
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who fucking cares about personality a woman would fuck a good looking pshychopath and she would fuck a good looking beta nice guy it doesnt matter
 
How will bluepilled reconcile this with their world view? “Just be toxically masculine bro! Just have violent despicable tendencies bro!”

Water is wet. Girls don’t just like bad boys, they like the BAD GUYS. NEGATIVE personality traits are considered POSTIVES in the sexual market. The sexual market completely goes against all of society. Society will go to shit if the sexual market is not regulated and legislated.
 
wont work for us

nice guy chad>>>>dark triad sub5
 
who fucking cares about personality a woman would fuck a good looking pshychopath and she would fuck a good looking beta nice guy it doesnt matter

It does matter though. In that study, the dark personality personalities were significantly more attractive than the control ones with 99.9% statistical certainty. It was a major effect.

Hybristophilia proves this as well.

It's not that women don't find certain types of personalities attractive or that personality doesn't matter. It's that the personalities they actually find attractive aren't the ones they admit to.

As usual we need science to go behind the lies and reveal their truth.

Just like how women are the highest consumers of rape and violently abusive porn towards women:
https://www.vice.com/en_au/article/bm9w7v/why-are-so-many-women-searching-for-ultra-violent-porn

This is not all a coincidence. Science shows this is what turns them on.

In principle, it's possibly easier to change your personality than your height/race/face. So if you want to maximize your chances, is this the first place one should start?
 
That's the reason why women attracted to serial killers,murderers. I don't deny looks are important but it is proven behaviors have effect on females so treating them narcisstic and manipulative is a plus for men.

They want to being pushed around,they don't want you treat them like so sensitive creatures they are. That's the reason most women don't want to divorce with their abusing,violent partners. Look at this,almost all women who divorce,their husbands are mostly betas who treat women nicely.
 
Water is wet. Girls don’t just like bad boys, they like the BAD GUYS.
stop it with this nonsence they dont like bad boys nor bad guys they like GOOD LOOKING BAD GUYS try being a bad guy as an incel and in 10 minutes you will be arrested
 
Do you fit that currently at all? I don't. Do you think it's something a person can practice at or should practice at? I wonder if it's worth getting women if I must become what I would otherwise consider a terrible person in order to do so. Is it?
This is worth even more for medium-sized chadlites and especially for blacks who can make a thugmaxx a hit.
 
Of course they would. Disgusting and manipulating is compatible with their personalities because that is what they are.
 
I don't want to be like that though. Another thing is, if I were actually psychopathic, lets just say that I suspect that I wouldn't be posting here.

Women quite honestly disgust me. They're unoriginal, vain, and usually negative IQ.
Disgusting and manipulating is compatible with their personalities because that is what they are.
 
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stop it with this nonsence they dont like bad boys nor bad guys they like GOOD LOOKING BAD GUYS try being a bad guy as an incel and in 10 minutes you will be arrested
Ok can we just agree that being a violent psychopathic murderer does not negatively affect one’s SMV?
 
yes we know, women are scum
 
Ok can we just agree that being a violent psychopathic murderer does not negatively affect one’s SMV?
of course its a positive trait on the smv but without the looks its worthless all im trying to say
 
This harkens back to the idea that women love the idea of changing or “taming” a man. Of course it never works, but they get wet over the idea of taking that bad boy and making him a obedient little lapdog. Ask how that idea turned out for countless women killed by dangerous bad boys.
 
of course its a positive trait on the smv but without the looks its worthless all im trying to say
Yeah ofc u need to pass the looks threshold first.
 
stop it with this nonsence they dont like bad boys nor bad guys they like GOOD LOOKING BAD GUYS try being a bad guy as an incel and in 10 minutes you will be arrested

Only if it is deformed and incel is not synonymous with deformation .. I know several middle thugmax guys who succeed, are far from chad.
 
This harkens back to the idea that women love the idea of changing or “taming” a man. Of course it never works, but they get wet over the idea of taking that bad boy and making him a obedient little lapdog. Ask how that idea turned out for countless women killed by dangerous bad boys.

I personally believe that they don't actually want to change these men. I believe they just CLAIM to want to change these men because then they can pretend it's socially acceptable to chase them.

As soon as these men change, they lose interest completely. So clearly they don't want them to change.

Claiming they want the horrible men they chase to "change" is just a female cope for their own horrible natures that drive them to chase these guys in the first place.

The fact that they vilify "nice guys" in the media more than they vilify guys who actually are Dark Triad should say it all. Being "nice" is an insult for a man coming from women. Science agrees - women are not turned on by "nice." They are aroused by the exact opposite.

At a minimum, one can probably conclude from all this - If you're trying to sexually attract a woman, don't hesitate to let her see you act in any of the ways consistent with the Dirty Dozen above. Don't feel bad if she sees you manipulate people, or be selfish, or catches you in a lie, or sees you acting cruelly to others. If anything, she will likely only be more attracted to you because of it.

Women fuck bullies. They don't fuck the guys that get bullied.
 
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I personally believe that they don't actually want to change these men. I believe they just CLAIM to want to change these men because then they can pretend it's socially acceptable to chase them.

As soon as these men change, they lose interest completely. So clearly they don't want them to change.

Claiming they want the horrible men they chase to "change" is just a female cope for their own horrible natures that drive them to chase these guys in the first place.

The fact that they vilify "nice guys" in the media more than they vilify guys who actually are Dark Triad should say it all. Being "nice" is an insult for a man coming from women.
Probably right
 
Why not go MGTOW?
Because I'm not in denial. I'm a rejected virgin, I was sent my own way and I resent them for it. Even turning into Chad tomorrow wouldn't completely resolve my problems at this point.
 
some of those characteristics are not achievable if ur ugly.
like numer 1,10 or 12.
 
Lifefuel for psychocels.
 
I personally believe that they don't actually want to change these men. I believe they just CLAIM to want to change these men because then they can pretend it's socially acceptable to chase them.

As soon as these men change, they lose interest completely. So clearly they don't want them to change.

Claiming they want the horrible men they chase to "change" is just a female cope for their own horrible natures that drive them to chase these guys in the first place.

The fact that they vilify "nice guys" in the media more than they vilify guys who actually are Dark Triad should say it all. Being "nice" is an insult for a man coming from women. Science agrees - women are not turned on by "nice." They are aroused by the exact opposite.

At a minimum, one can probably conclude from all this - If you're trying to sexually attract a woman, don't hesitate to let her see you act in any of the ways consistent with the Dirty Dozen above. Don't feel bad if she sees you manipulate people, or be selfish, or catches you in a lie, or sees you acting cruelly to others. If anything, she will likely only be more attracted to you because of it.

Women fuck bullies. They don't fuck the guys that get bullied.
fucking hell not even a pshychopathic chad is safe a blackpill tag would be more fitting in this thread imo



t. it is over
 
At least Science will never betray us, unlike the whores of today.
 
This sounds like a typical normie dating strategy to me. Chad is instantly attractive. Normies has to use sneaky strategies and alcohol to have any chance.
 
This study assessed the personality traits women find most attractive:
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886913012245

They found women were highly attracted to the dark triad: Narcissism, Manipulativeness, and Psychopathy (insensitivity to others).

The full article is here:
https://www.researchgate.net/public..._personality_Attractiveness_to_women/download

To summarize their findings:
"In conclusion, the results of our study demonstrate that the Dark Triad male personality is attractive to women and this effect is not mediated by these men’s greater perceived Extraversion or Neuroticism."

They suggest the "Dirty Dozen" as a tool for quickly taking inventory of how much you fit the Dark Triad:
  1. I tend to manipulate others to get my way.
  2. I tend to lack remorse.
  3. I tend to want others to admire me.
  4. I tend to be unconcerned with the morality of my actions.
  5. I have used deceit or lied to get my way.
  6. I tend to be callous or insensitive.
  7. I have used flattery to get my way.
  8. I tend to seek prestige or status.
  9. I tend to be cynical.
  10. I tend to exploit others toward my own end.
  11. I tend to expect special favors from others.
  12. I want others to pay attention to me.

So quite sincerely, it appears if you actually want to maximize your personality for sexual success, you should work on maximizing those attributes. Those are what science say women respond to. That is a "good personality" to women for sexual mating.

Do you fit that currently at all? I don't. Do you think it's something a person can practice at or should practice at? I wonder if it's worth getting women if I must become what I would otherwise consider a terrible person in order to do so. Is it?

Shouldn't this have a :blackpill: tag instead of a serious tag?
 
I fit 6 and 9, but this will never do me any good anyway
 
worthless info if you're ugly. GL men can maximize their already considerable chances by going dark triad. it relies on the halo effect to work.
 
  1. I tend to manipulate others to get my way.
  2. I tend to lack remorse.
  3. I tend to want others to admire me.
  4. I tend to be unconcerned with the morality of my actions.
  5. I have used deceit or lied to get my way.
  6. I tend to be callous or insensitive.
  7. I have used flattery to get my way.
  8. I tend to seek prestige or status.
  9. I tend to be cynical.
  10. I tend to exploit others toward my own end.
  11. I tend to expect special favors from others.
  12. I want others to pay attention to me
Just another day on med school tbh
I remember the chad of my anatomy class at 2nd year would play shamelessly with some corpses testicles and the braindead foids would just laugh with him, and we were seen as disgusting creeps by them when we stopped him
 
This study assessed the personality traits women find most attractive:
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886913012245

They found women were highly attracted to the dark triad: Narcissism, Manipulativeness, and Psychopathy (insensitivity to others).

The full article is here:
https://www.researchgate.net/public..._personality_Attractiveness_to_women/download

To summarize their findings:
"In conclusion, the results of our study demonstrate that the Dark Triad male personality is attractive to women and this effect is not mediated by these men’s greater perceived Extraversion or Neuroticism."

They suggest the "Dirty Dozen" as a tool for quickly taking inventory of how much you fit the Dark Triad:
  1. I tend to manipulate others to get my way.
  2. I tend to lack remorse.
  3. I tend to want others to admire me.
  4. I tend to be unconcerned with the morality of my actions.
  5. I have used deceit or lied to get my way.
  6. I tend to be callous or insensitive.
  7. I have used flattery to get my way.
  8. I tend to seek prestige or status.
  9. I tend to be cynical.
  10. I tend to exploit others toward my own end.
  11. I tend to expect special favors from others.
  12. I want others to pay attention to me.

So quite sincerely, it appears if you actually want to maximize your personality for sexual success, you should work on maximizing those attributes. Those are what science say women respond to. That is a "good personality" to women for sexual mating.

Do you fit that currently at all? I don't. Do you think it's something a person can practice at or should practice at? I wonder if it's worth getting women if I must become what I would otherwise consider a terrible person in order to do so. Is it?
No I have literally nothing from psychoticism or extraversion but managed to max out everything on neuroticism. Even if foids were out of the question neuroticism would destroy your life all by itself while these other two offer great advantages, to no suprise foids always act according to the matthew principle so ofc they would love guys with psychoticism and despise neurotics:feelsree:

It's also determined by genetics and early childhood development, so while you can try to build up psychotic personality you will probably always feel out of character. I'm trying to be bad, selfish, risk taking, as much as I can to suppress my neurotic side.
Personality
 
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JFL, I tick most of these, I'm kinda psychotic and had to develop imaginary friends and personalities as a kid.

Except the egotic ones. I literally have 0 ego and don't care at all about how normies perceive me.
 
I personally believe that they don't actually want to change these men. I believe they just CLAIM to want to change these men because then they can pretend it's socially acceptable to chase them.

Foids would much rather domesticate a Bad Boy than settle for a Beta Billy, which is why so many of them fantasize about "changing" Bad Boys. We both know that they regularly complain about not getting to lock down high-SMV men, who just pump and dump them, and Bad Boys are the perfect example of this.

What we often forget in this age of whoredom is that women are supposed to be monogamous by nature, whereas men are supposed to be polygamous. In the context of the 80/20 rule, however, this translates to 80% of women wanting commitment from 20% of men. Foids deeply want to be monogamous with Chad, whereas Chad prefers to be polygamous with foids. The unfulfilled lust of those foids who can't retain Chad eats away at them, fueling this fetish.
 
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I've become all these things. Stunningly, all females hate me.

Because I'm ugly.
 
Just be highly toxic in masculinity, bro


Actually good looking people just tend to be assholes
 
who fucking cares about personality a woman would fuck a good looking pshychopath and she would fuck a good looking beta nice guy it doesnt matter
Personality is virtually irrelevant, because if you're good-looking, your personality is going to seem positive whether you're a nice guy or a douche bag. It's because of the halo effect.
 
Well, that's unsurprising.

Think about it, the men who were cold, violent, and full of themselves were more likely to survive in our prehistoric past. In those days, men would raid other tribes for food and women, in order to increase their chances of survival, and the ones who had no remorse reproduced. Een in the animal kingdom this applies (just look up Baboons).
 
So that's why normies meant when we need to get good personality. Aka literally telling us to become some gangster or serial killer.

I'm calling it - the female brain needs to be rewired. It's far too primitive and drives civilizations back from advancement. Genetic modifying when
 
I feel like this is mostly bullshit. Every time an ugly guy acts like a psychopath he's ridiculed. When a good looking man acts kind, he's loved. At the end of the day, personality doesn't matter much.
 
Just be highly toxic in masculinity, bro


Actually good looking people just tend to be assholes
It's true that psychopathy and narcissism are typically correlates of being good-looking, but they do raise SMV by themselves.

Consider the case of Elliot Rodger. He was a nice guy with zero SMV, but his ensuant narcissism led to an explosion of rage which posthumously raised his SMV. He had fangirls obsessing over his corpse, which is more than any of us can boast about.

The Fragile-X Goblin, Nikolas Cruz, has received mountains of love letters in prison. Even the truecel David Berkowitz, the Son of Sam, received his share of love letters after serial killing women. And his quotes could've come out of Elliot Rodger's manifesto:

"I must slay women for revenge purposes to get back at them for all the suffering they have caused me."
"The tension, the desire to kill a woman had built up in such explosive proportions that when I finally pulled the trigger, all the pressures, all the tensions, all the hatred, had just vanished, dissipated, but only for a short time."

The personalitypill is real, and the trick for an incel is to leverage his "bad personality" in such a way that he can enjoy its fruits.
 
If you want to personalitymaxx you need to looksmaxx my friend.
 
Just wanted to post an update. Since making this thread I have been solely masturbating to rape porn.

I felt kind of gross at first about it. But it's becoming more normal to me now. Feminists should be happy with me. Now we masturbate to the same videos. I'm starting to see sex as more an act of domination and women more as sexual objects.

I intend to continue the experiment as long term as possible. I don't intend to rape a woman for the record. I'm just trying to foster the type of personality women are actually attracted to and understand the way they see sex, given that studies show this is the type of porn so many of them prefer.
 
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Just wanted to post an update. Since making this thread I have been solely masturbating to rape porn.

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I'm just trying to foster the type of personality women are actually attracted to and understand the way they see sex, given that studies show this is the type of porn so many of them prefer.

Several years ago, a new "soft and sensual" form of porn was released which was supposed to appeal to women. It featured sentimental sex with plenty of caressing and kissing.

At the time I was surprised to find many men enjoying it, but now it makes total sense: men have increasingly become the romantic gender due to their dearth of sexual experiences (which causes them to idealize sex), whereas women have increasingly become dulled to anything but the most extreme sexual displays (because they've seen it all and done it all).

An exception to this is male pornography addicts who find vanilla porn to be boring after years of masturbating to much more extreme content; but in my opinion, no pornography I've viewed can compare to the pleasure I'd receive from merely being touched by a woman. Mere affection is my deepest fantasy.

I personally believe that they don't actually want to change these men. I believe they just CLAIM to want to change these men because then they can pretend it's socially acceptable to chase them.
I've done more thinking on this point, and one thing you fail to consider here is the inherent social conformity of women. Paradoxically, this applies to hybristophilia!

When women fall in love with Bad Boys, including criminals, they actually consider them to be high-status individuals, not social outcasts. They genuinely believe that they're good people (or have the potential to be) as a result of the Halo Effect.
 
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