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As a kid, I was bullied and actually, my circumstances were WORSE than they are now. YET, I was happy and I had the energy to just cope through it all.
I had the energy to play video games for 10+ hours a day. I actually was happy - I am not imagining things. I am fully aware that I had the energy to cope.
Now I am 26 and I feel... dead. I can't bother to play any video game that isn't super simple right off the bat, and the smallest problem gets me anxious, sad, and depressed.
I don't even have the energy to seek out novelty and stuff. I feel worn out, like I am 90 years old. HELL, my 88 years old father got more power in him than me.
I am just too sad, lethargic, and tired to do something about my situation.
Any advice? Thank you.
 
Think you're going through a depression episode or something. What I do to try to help a little bit is trying to set up things to look forward to. Doesn't have to be anything big, either. Could be small things like getting to eat something you like later or something like that. (or in my case waiting til the weekend to drink, though drinking isn't a good addiction to have). It won't fix things entirely, but it keeps me going a bit, at least to focus on these things sometimes.
 
As a kid, I was bullied and actually, my circumstances were WORSE than they are now. YET, I was happy and I had the energy to just cope through it all.
I had the energy to play video games for 10+ hours a day. I actually was happy - I am not imagining things. I am fully aware that I had the energy to cope.
Now I am 26 and I feel... dead. I can't bother to play any video game that isn't super simple right off the bat, and the smallest problem gets me anxious, sad, and depressed.
I don't even have the energy to seek out novelty and stuff. I feel worn out, like I am 90 years old. HELL, my 88 years old father got more power in him than me.
I am just too sad, lethargic, and tired to do something about my situation.
Any advice? Thank you.
I feel the same way, man, it's exhausting.
 
I'm dealing with the same lack of energy as you.

The only thing I've found that works is practicing no-fap and if you always play the same videogames, find a new one you've never played before, even if it's difficult at first.

It happens to me until I try new games, and for a couple of days I feel more motivated to play and finish them.

The problem is that nothing seems new or exciting to us anymore; we're mentally old.
 
As a kid, I was bullied and actually, my circumstances were WORSE than they are now. YET, I was happy and I had the energy to just cope through it all.
I had the energy to play video games for 10+ hours a day. I actually was happy - I am not imagining things. I am fully aware that I had the energy to cope.
Now I am 26 and I feel... dead. I can't bother to play any video game that isn't super simple right off the bat, and the smallest problem gets me anxious, sad, and depressed.
I don't even have the energy to seek out novelty and stuff. I feel worn out, like I am 90 years old. HELL, my 88 years old father got more power in him than me.
I am just too sad, lethargic, and tired to do something about my situation.
Any advice? Thank you.
wait? you are 26 and your father is 88 years old? thats quite brutal
 
I've heard good things about green kratom. I was gonna give that a try for energy and motivation. Ofc there are risks
 
remember and process all your traumas. make sure you don't have sleep apnea.
 
Feel the same way man, even starting a new video game or watching something feels exhausting. I'm just sleeping all day and wake up tired and miserable, everyday blends into the next and even getting up from bed feels painful.
 
i feel the same no actual advice to give but hope it gets better brocel
 
wait? you are 26 and your father is 88 years old? thats quite brutal
Yeah OP got screwed over by his father even before he was born. While men generally can create healthy children far older than women, having a kid in your 60's is just amoral.
 
As a kid, I was bullied and actually, my circumstances were WORSE than they are now. YET, I was happy and I had the energy to just cope through it all.
I had the energy to play video games for 10+ hours a day. I actually was happy - I am not imagining things. I am fully aware that I had the energy to cope.
Now I am 26 and I feel... dead. I can't bother to play any video game that isn't super simple right off the bat, and the smallest problem gets me anxious, sad, and depressed.
I don't even have the energy to seek out novelty and stuff. I feel worn out, like I am 90 years old. HELL, my 88 years old father got more power in him than me.
I am just too sad, lethargic, and tired to do something about my situation.
Any advice? Thank you.
comatose. sleep for 19hrs for a week, and your cells will recover
 
Try regular exercise
 
fuck prostitutes.
 
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