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RyderYe

RyderYe

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i have agoraphobia and paranoia and social anxiety .
my uncle is coming here soon this piece of shit will try to bother me and me father will support him
 
you grow a pair
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i have agoraphobia and paranoia and social anxiety .
my uncle is coming here soon this piece of shit will try to bother me and me father will support him
bare minimum interactions, tell him your busy with school or something. if u actually have school u can stay in the library for longer.
 
I don't have the objectively 100% correct advice for you + don't know your situation in depth but for me with these NT niggerfaggots I self isolate as much as I can
 
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The best thing you can is against narcies is to not give them attention and keep interactions to a minimim. Arguing with them is the fuel they need
 
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bare minimum interactions, tell him your busy with school or something. if u actually have school u can stay in the library for longer.
i quit school in 2019 because mental health condition i haven't left home since 2023/2/5
 
i quit school in 2019 because mental health condition i haven't left home since 2023/2/5
are u getting treated and are u on medication?
 
I don't have the objectively 100% correct advice for you + don't know your situation in depth but for me with these NT niggerfaggots I self isolate as much as I can
me to the problem they came and knock my door
 
i was on meds but my faggots broke family couldn't buy me meds anymore
that's a big problem. im a mentalcel too and i'd be finished without my meds.
 
are u getting treated and are u on medication?
no i never seen anyone like psycatrc or something i use escitaloparm 20 mg because someone on internet told me to and it feels good when i use it
 
that's a big problem. im a mentalcel too and i'd be finished without my meds.
fuck family I'm done my paranoia is driving me crazy day by day one day something well snap in my head and i will just run away and be crazy in the streets
 
fuck family I'm done my paranoia is driving me crazy day by day one day something well snap in my head and i will just run away and be crazy in the streets
are ur meds expensive?
 
no around 6 usd for 30 pill but family is broke
negotiate with ur bum father. if u get better u can work then he wont need to house a cripple anymore.
 
negotiate with ur bum father. if u get better u can work then he wont need to house a cripple anymore.
he won't expect he is muzlimtard he believes I'm like this because i don't pray to allah this nigga will get crazy when he knows that I'm an atheist
 
The best thing you can is against narcies is to not give them attention anf keep interactions to a minimim. Arguing with them is the fuel they need
 
he won't expect he is muzlimtard he believes I'm like this because i don't pray to allah this nigga will get crazy when he knows that I'm an atheist
brutal AF u need to secure some level of income in anyway. are u capable of a walmart overnight stocking job? can u down a bunch of energy drinks and power through the job interview?
 
brutal AF u need to secure some level of income in anyway. are u capable of a walmart overnight stocking job? can u down a bunch of energy drinks and power through the job interview?
my nigga im not in the us im in my shithole of a country yemen . if you were lucky you get 60-100$ ber month
my only shot is to get an online job
 
my nigga im not in the us im in my shithole of a country yemen . if you were lucky you get 60-100$ ber month
my only shot is to get an online job
over
 
The best thing you can is against narcies is to not give them attention anf keep interactions to a minimim. Arguing with them is the fuel they need
 
you grow a pair
the best advice is always the simplest :feelsYall:

You can’t keep hiding forever man, you will need to deal with your social anxiety at some point. Just go and greet your uncle and make some small talk. And FYI, i used to have really bad social anxiety too, i couldn’t even go to the mini market because of it. What helped me was going outside and interacting with people, when you start doing that you will realise that nobody really gives a shit about you and that they’re just trying to go on about their day just like you. Nobody is out to get you.
 
i know this it's just when he came i lost my mind
the best advice is always the simplest :feelsYall:

You can’t keep hiding forever man, you will need to deal with your social anxiety at some point. Just go and greet your uncle and make some small talk. And FYI, i used to have really bad social anxiety too, i couldn’t even go to the mini market because of it. What helped me was going outside and interacting with people, when you start doing that you will realise that nobody really gives a shit about you and that they’re just trying to go on about their day just like you. Nobody is out to get you.
 
the best advice is always the simplest :feelsYall:

You can’t keep hiding forever man, you will need to deal with your social anxiety at some point. Just go and greet your uncle and make some small talk. And FYI, i used to have really bad social anxiety too, i couldn’t even go to the mini market because of it. What helped me was going outside and interacting with people, when you start doing that you will realise that nobody really gives a shit about you and that they’re just trying to go on about their day just like you. Nobody is out to get you.
That "best advice" is just RP levels of gaslighting, especially for aspies. Thats like telling a 5"3ft balding ethnic dude to "just be confident".
 
the best advice is always the simplest :feelsYall:

You can’t keep hiding forever man, you will need to deal with your social anxiety at some point. Just go and greet your uncle and make some small talk. And FYI, i used to have really bad social anxiety too, i couldn’t even go to the mini market because of it. What helped me was going outside and interacting with people, when you start doing that you will realise that nobody really gives a shit about you and that they’re just trying to go on about their day just like you. Nobody is out to get you.
Also the guy you agree with is notorious for getting banned multiple timed for spewing bluepilled bs
 
That "best advice" is just RP levels of gaslighting, especially for aspies.
where’s the gaslighting ? It’s a proven fact that the more we do something the more comfortable we become with doing that thing. The more he tries to socialise, the more comfortable he will become with doing it in the future until he reaches a point where he doesn’t feel social anxiety anymore. I have autism, almost everyone in this forum does, that doesn’t stop a good amount of us from socialising. He can’t stay locked up forever, avoiding his uncle is a temporary solution to a long term problem.
Thats like telling a 5"3ft balding ethnic dude to "just be confident
not the same
 
You don’t deal with it

You leave the fucking house
 
Also the guy you agree with is notorious for getting banned multiple timed for spewing bluepilled bs
i don’t care and honestly i haven’t seen those blue pill things he said. You guys called him blue pilled for saying that the average man doesn’t struggle with dating (which is true with no evidence to suggest otherwise). Everything that deviates from the ‘norm’ in this forum is considered blue pilled.
 
The best thing you can is against narcies is to not give them attention and keep interactions to a minimim. Arguing with them is the fuel they need
100% they need someone to tolerate their bullshit and drama. Don't engage in unnecessary argument as it's just ways to baiting you back into narcissistic supply.
 
where’s the gaslighting ? It’s a proven fact that the more we do something the more comfortable we become with doing that thing. The more he tries to socialise, the more comfortable he will become with doing it in the future until he reaches a point where he doesn’t feel social anxiety anymore.
Not really, never heard of negative reinforcement cycle ? People will always remind you of your place if you dont act according to your looks/social status

I have autism, almost everyone in this forum does, that doesn’t stop a good amount of us from socialisin
Where is that good amount ? The average user here has either 0 or maybe 1 or 2 friends and are total shut ins, thats not socialising

not the same
Its the same analogy
 
You don’t deal with it

You leave the fucking house
the only way to deal with narcissistic people is to leave them where they stand. There is no winning with these people
 
i don’t care and honestly i haven’t seen those blue pill things he said. You guys called him blue pilled for saying that the average man doesn’t struggle with dating (which is true with no evidence to suggest otherwise). Everything that deviates from the ‘norm’ in this forum is considered blue pilled.
He is very aggressive and behaves like a typical normie. Or do you wanna tell me that all the mods conspired against him ? The only reason he isnt hardbanned yet is his join date
 
100% they need someone to tolerate their bullshit and drama. Don't engage in unnecessary argument as it's just ways to baiting you back into narcissistic supply.
 
the only way to deal with narcissistic people is to leave them where they stand. There is no winning with these people
i have no money to get my own place
 
Not really, never heard of negative reinforcement cycle ? People will always remind you of your place if you dont act according to your looks/social status
it’s true that if he keeps getting negative feedback his social anxiety won’t get better but he would have to be giga subhuman for everyone to treat him like shit. if you’re at least a 4 you’re good.
Where is that good amount ? The average user here has either 0 or maybe 1 or 2 friends and are total shut ins, thats not socialising
i’m talking about being able to hold down a job and do basic day to day activities. I would consider that the bare basics. A good amount of the forum can probably do this much.
He is very aggressive and behaves like a typical normie. Or do you wanna tell me that all the mods conspired against him ? The only reason he isnt hardbanned yet is his join date
Almost the whole forum is filled with agressive apes, idk why he’s getting singled out for it. This is not me defending his behaviour of being agressive, imo almost everyone here should learn to have a civil conversation without insults. I don’t believe he needs to be hard banned, by the definition in the incel wiki someone who’s blue pilled is someone who believes that looks don’t play a role when it comes to dating and that all you need is personality and confidence. Someone who spouts that crap needs to be banned but i have never seen him doing that. The only time he needed a ban was when he basically called dark star a loser and i think he got one.
 
Lock yourself in your room. Fake sickness, fake sleeping, fake anything.

Or just endure their crap until he leaves. You have to deal with it one way or the other since he is invading your space.
 
it’s true that if he keeps getting negative feedback his social anxiety won’t get better but he would have to be giga subhuman for everyone to treat him like shit. if you’re at least a 4 you’re good.
I just gave up at this point, this constant negative reinforcement made me develop schizophrenia, im always under the assumption im about to get attacked or made fun of
i’m talking about being able to hold down a job and do basic day to day activities. I would consider that the bare basics. A good amount of the forum can probably do this much.
Many users here are NEETs
blue pilled is someone who believes that looks don’t play a role when it comes to dating and that all you need is personality and confidence. Someone who spouts that crap needs to be banned but i have never seen him doing that.
I and other European users here such as @KillNiggers can attest that most normies nowadays dont get shit. Maybe dating culture in JewSA or whereever nice_try is from isnt as brutal, but here most normies i knew never had a relationship and if they did, they very likely didnt have high quality sex. The male loneliness epidemic keeps growing, why else do you think guys like Andrew Tate are so popular nowadays ? Reality can only be ignored for so long
 
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Lock yourself in your room. Fake sickness, fake sleeping, fake anything.

Or just endure their crap until he leaves. You have to deal with it one way or the other since he is invading your space.
i will pretend to be a sleep
 
Jesus, your situation is pretty grim. But yeah generally you just do not have a conversation with narcissists. Idk.... try to work though your mental problems if you can, do whatever makes you feel better and try to find a job. Getting out of your parents house is a must, otherwise you will always be miserable. Your parents make your mental illness worse, that is at least my experience.
 
Jesus, your situation is pretty grim. But yeah generally you just do not have a conversation with narcissists. Idk.... try to work though your mental problems if you can, do whatever makes you feel better and try to find a job. Getting out of your parents house is a must, otherwise you will always be miserable. Your parents make your mental illness worse, that is at least my experience.
i agree on everything . I'll try my best
thank you brocel
 
i have no money to get my own place
rough story and I totally understand how you feel because my family is also narcissistic but you have to find a way out of there or just do what
Lock yourself in your room. Fake sickness, fake sleeping, fake anything.

Or just endure their crap until he leaves. You have to deal with it one way or the other since he is invading your space.
This is what I do, I pretend to sleep all day so my family leaves me alone which works, I made myself a ghost in my own home so I can have peace but I am going to move out eventually because this isn't the right way to live in your own space. try this method out but I would strongly suggest moving out
 
Yeah my dad can be a bit toxic too.

I dunno what the solution is really. For me the solution was to get a bit of distance.

Maybe go to the cinema, lol
 
You ought to invite them in and give them some tea.
 
rough story and I totally understand how you feel because my family is also narcissistic but you have to find a way out of there or just do what

This is what I do, I pretend to sleep all day so my family leaves me alone which works, I made myself a ghost in my own home so I can have peace but I am going to move out eventually because this isn't the right way to live in your own space. try this method out but I would strongly suggest moving out
i dream of getting the fuck out of here
it's just the financial situation
 

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