How to deal with brutal realization that I'm a loser?

[NorthernWind]

I'm burning inside from shame. Imagine for example that your relative dies and I don't even know how to organize funeral.
There would be men with their wives and some with children. And I'm an ugly loser in my 30s without wife or children and I would need to say something. I will obviously look giga awkward.
Also when I visited funerals, I remember that organizers usually carried guests at home on their cars.
While I don't even have a driver's license.
It would be a huge embarrassment.

 

[PLA1092]

Tbh, I think the same often too. I'll need to go back to my home country as well. No idea how to deal with that shit.

 

[nice_try]

Here's something you can say at the funeral:

"Everybody has to die eventually, so why make a huge deal out of it? It doesn't make sense, fuck that shit I'm outta here."
Then you leave.

 

[norwegianfreak]

Be sick that day

 

[RicaGames]

Just accept it. When I made it I felt a relief tbh. Nobody can destroy your ego when you simply don't have one.

 

[Asgard]

Get some TNT and blow your house up with you inside.

 

[Asgard]

Jokes aside, you have to cope or you'll lose your mind. I will never lose my mind; I was made for a greater purpose, I'll lead humankind to revolt against the Machines in 2100.

 

[TheAttackHelicopter]

I'm burning inside from shame. Imagine for example that your relative dies and I don't even know how to organize funeral.
There would be men with their wives and some with children. And I'm an ugly loser in my 30s without wife or children and I would need to say something. I will obviously look giga awkward.
Also when I visited funerals, I remember that organizers usually carried guests at home on their cars.
While I don't even have a driver's license.
It would be a huge embarrassment.

Dress up like a literal agent Smith from Matrix and write a crazy speech about fighting on every front on something and never surrendering.

 

[norwegianfreak]

Tbf, it's probably a "good" day for you, cause your friends/family will feel sympathy for you.

 

[Med Anime]

I'm burning inside from shame. Imagine for example that your relative dies and I don't even know how to organize funeral.

do you really have to organize a funreal, just let the other relatives do it and be present in the funreal with a black suit. maybe make some crocodile tears to appeal as more caring

Also when I visited funerals, I remember that organizers usually carried guests at home on their cars.

that happens even where i live, the organizers are the one who transport visiters to the location of the funreal, what a pain in the head

 

[Robb97]

I didn't even attend my own grandfather's funeral because of my ugliness. Just seeing everyone from my family and having to interact with them is too much of a pain in the ass at this point. I wish I had better genes and it wouldn't be like that.

 

[Bedford Stye]

I'm burning inside from shame. Imagine for example that your relative dies and I don't even know how to organize funeral.
There would be men with their wives and some with children. And I'm an ugly loser in my 30s without wife or children and I would need to say something. I will obviously look giga awkward.
Also when I visited funerals, I remember that organizers usually carried guests at home on their cars.
While I don't even have a driver's license.
It would be a huge embarrassment.

You're not a loser.

You were dealt a difficult hand.

 

[TouhouMathcel]

COPE
O
P
E

 

[Lonelyus]

Were all gonna make it!

 

[Raider919]

you're only a looser if you stop resisting the social engineers. you can always come back

 

[Puppeter]

If you arent 6'2 just rope at this point

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

If you arent 6'2 just rope at this point

Bo, I assume.

 

[Puppeter]

Bo, I assume.

You assume too much

 

[NorthernWind]

Get some TNT and blow your house up with you inside.

 

[NorthernWind]

do you really have to organize a funreal, just let the other relatives do it and be present in the funreal with a black suit. maybe make some crocodile tears to appeal as more caring

For example, when my mother dies, I should be the one who organizes it all.

 

[NorthernWind]

I didn't even attend my own grandfather's funeral because of my ugliness. Just seeing everyone from my family and having to interact with them is too much of a pain in the ass at this point. I wish I had better genes and it wouldn't be like that.

I noticed that following social customs is very important even if you don't like it. Otherwise people around you can get very angry and you will lose all credibility.

 

[depressedblackcel]

COPE
O
P
E

 

[ControlledInsanity]

Settlers used to just hold a service inside their own homes and then bury on a small hill at basically no cost.

 

[Martes]

How do I organize a funeral tho

 

[autisticmanchild]

your family probably already knows it and has picked someone else to take care of all that shit, not that I would go if you were.