DoomThreeKoala
Autism is a cruel disease.
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View: https://www.reddit.com/r/introvert/comments/1r0vp0c/how_to_approach_quiet_guys_as_a_quiet_girl/
I’m in university (20F) and a boy who seems to have classes in most of the same buildings as me has caught my eye.
He is only ever with the same one or two friends and generally keeps closed body language, so I’ve gotten the impression that he’s quiet/introverted. I’m the same way.
My friends tell me I’m intimidating to guys because I’m serious-looking and my main priorities are being smart and doing well in school, but these qualities appear to belong to this one as well. He’s in a difficult program and dresses very well.
I’ve walked past him a couple of times and smiled but have no idea on how to continue running into him or getting past solely eye contact.
If we’re both quiet and have no mutual friends, what should I do?
Hands up if you think the guy in question is a Chad.





