[Whitepill] How to answer the question "Why don't you have a girlfriend yet?"

[DoomThreeKoala]

"Why don't you have a girlfriend yet?"

It's likely at some point a normie in your life has asked you this question. If they haven't and you're here, they will soon.

The way I'd answer it is "I don't have what it takes for one.". The reason why I answer it this way is multifold:
- It's straight to the point, no BS.
- It's open to interpretation. bluepillers/RP/BP will say different things. The advice that is given to you will reflect their dating philosophy.
- I have some amount of social skills and can keep conversations going. For those saying "autism fucks up your social skills", yes it does, but it's possible to overcome it.

Some potential follow up questions would be "Why is that the case?" or similar.
For this you could say "Even if I could, things wouldn't work out. We would break up very quickly.". That very much sums everything up. The truth is, for a number of reasons, an LTR is not feasible for us. I feel it's not only looks, but some bluepill/RP stuff also comes in. Things would get heated, and she will leave.

Now, you may be asking "DoomThreeShotgunner, why did you tag this with whitepill?"
So, here's your whitepill: I've learned it's OK to be a KHHV. It isn't healthy, but it's OK. I'm not suitable for a relationship. Yes it's cope, but it keeps me alive. Plus I don't have to deal with normie/sexhaver problems. You don't either. Remember that.

 

[plastic chewer]

Nobody has or will ever ask me this question

 

[Deportedcel]

just tell them to fuck off

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

just tell them to fuck off

That's if you're low inhib. If you're medium inhib like I am it's better to be polite.

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

Nobody has or will ever ask me this question

Brutal. In some way I think it's because they already know the answer to this question.
Truecel trait: People don't ask you if you've had a gf

 

[Vector2800]

If your face is ugly enough, people will know why you don’t have a girlfriend and won’t bother asking you. The only reason people ask sub-5 men if they have a girlfriend is to mock them.

 

[Dr. Autismo]

I don't have a girlfriend because foids hate that I'm ugly and white, modern white foids hate white men, and want to kill us

 

[sub5ricemale]

Nobody has or will ever ask me this question

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

I usually avoid answering that question.

 

[sub5ricemale]

I don't have a girlfriend because foids hate that I'm ugly and white, modern white foids hate white men

I thought foids prefered white men?

 

[poorenglishcel]

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

I thought foids prefered white men?

JBW theory only works in some cases. You need to be at least LTN. Plus it's usually SEA girls where you get this bonus.

 

[DarkSneezer]

I tell them "I don't look for one because I'm too busy with studying." When I finish studying I'll start to say "I don't need a girlfriend that's why."

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

If your face is ugly enough, people will know why you don’t have a girlfriend and won’t bother asking you. The only reason people ask sub-5 men if they have a girlfriend is to mock them.

Basically the answer I gave to @plastic chewer.

I usually avoid answering that question.

Fair enough. That's what you can do if you are high inhib.

 

[sub5ricemale]

JBW theory only works in some cases. You need to be at least LTN. Plus it's usually SEA girls where you get this bonus.

Being white still does help in western countries.

But jbw is exponentially improved in sea.

jbw works in sea if ur rich only

 

[Dr. Autismo]

I thought foids prefered white men?

They do, but they don't.

They've spent so many years being brainwashed by Jewish media to hate whites every day of their lives, and foids love Jews and whatever new normals they spout, like white hate

 

[The Wolf]

Nobody has or will ever ask me this question

Not even my parents jfl who were always involved in my life a lot.

 

[SociallyStunted]

I say one of two things “why do you care” or im blunt about it saying “no i dont know why I dont have a girlfriend”

 

[leafblown]

I don't go outside

 

[TooSomething]

I have not been asked that question in forever.
They know why they won't ask anymore and now I know ot too.

 

[PersonalityChad]

I just tell them that I'm not interested. They all subconsciously know I'm incel anyway

 

[Bulbasaur]

You can always go with the good 'ol: "Because your mother refuses to date me."

But I prefer to say "No woman wants me because I'm ugly" and just stare them down. If it's a woman inquiring, then ask point blank: "Why don't YOU date me?" If she answers that she's not single (even if she is), ask about any of her single friends. If you do this, they will fuck off.

 

[SilverBullet]

Don't answer it. The bp is incomprehensible to normtards. Either lie and say you're not interested. or if they're not aware that you don't have one, say you previously had a gf

 

[pauseforever]

Relatives don't ask me this question. If a stranger asks me this question, I'd politely indicate to him I don't want to discuss this topic

 

[ArthurSchopenhauer]

I answer that I focus on my work and career currently

 

[AutismHaver]

"because they're not worth begging for"

 

[Balding Subhuman]

Depends on who asks, but I've said to family members that I'm ugly, that's why.

 

[KhatcodaiA3]

Fakecel if you get asked this, honestly. They don't have to ask, it is answered automatically just by taking a look

 

[Rapistcel]

"Why don't you have a girlfriend yet?"

It's likely at some point a normie in your life has asked you this question. If they haven't and you're here, they will soon.

The way I'd answer it is "I don't have what it takes for one.". The reason why I answer it this way is multifold:
- It's straight to the point, no BS.
- It's open to interpretation. bluepillers/RP/BP will say different things. The advice that is given to you will reflect their dating philosophy.
- I have some amount of social skills and can keep conversations going. For those saying "autism fucks up your social skills", yes it does, but it's possible to overcome it.

Some potential follow up questions would be "Why is that the case?" or similar.
For this you could say "Even if I could, things wouldn't work out. We would break up very quickly.". That very much sums everything up. The truth is, for a number of reasons, an LTR is not feasible for us. I feel it's not only looks, but some bluepill/RP stuff also comes in. Things would get heated, and she will leave.

Now, you may be asking "DoomThreeShotgunner, why did you tag this with whitepill?"
So, here's your whitepill: I've learned it's OK to be a KHHV. It isn't healthy, but it's OK. I'm not suitable for a relationship. Yes it's cope, but it keeps me alive. Plus I don't have to deal with normie/sexhaver problems. You don't either. Remember that.

I just say no one has ever been interested in me

 

[TheNextElliotRodger]

Only family members have ever asked me that, nobody else, ostensibly because they knew why and also because you have to be on relatively good terms to ask such a personal question.

 

[Cuckoja]

I just shrug and say i dont know. Normies can see through lies and i dont feel like debating blackpills with someone who cant comprehend it.

 

[Emba]

I'm fucking yours, I don't need my own

 

[grandmasterwizard]

Really mostly guys and grannies ask me that, I've never got asked this question by girl my age.
My godfather to me was like "Are you gay? I would accept it if you are gay!"
For them concept "Unable to get a girl" doesn't exist.

So I faced a lot of times being asked if I don't be gay at this point.
The funny thing, it's probably also because I try to "improve"

 

[deucegigalo]

I let my Mother make dating apps profiles for me to blackpill her so far all chats are from AI lol at least back in my day it was some 3rd world hoe in a call centre cube talking to me now its fucking AI .

 

[Axanael]

I get asked that question frequently from older relatives, and all i can do is jokingly say "there are no girls in my city, the only things you see outside are criminals". My relatives don't understand the concept of looks and character at all, they got married in an age where even the ugliest of the ugliest and the dumber of the dumbest would easily find a wife.

 

[gymletethnicel]

If your face is ugly enough, people will know why you don’t have a girlfriend and won’t bother asking you. The only reason people ask sub-5 men if they have a girlfriend is to mock them.

 

[Dead End]

Have you actually been asked this question?

 

[Punished Watcher]

The way I'd answer it is "I don't have what it takes for one."

High IQ. I'll be using this on Thanksgiving. Thanks, brocel.

"Even if I could, things wouldn't work out. We would break up very quickly."

This one I've used before. But you're right, it works better as a follow-up.

 

[Punished Watcher]

So, here's your whitepill: I've learned it's OK to be a KHHV. It isn't healthy, but it's OK. I'm not suitable for a relationship. Yes it's cope, but it keeps me alive. Plus I don't have to deal with normie/sexhaver problems. You don't either. Remember that.

And thanks for the whitepill.

 

[WastedPotential]

I always answer that I like to play singleplayer.
Which is partially true, as much as I'd liked to have a girlfriend some point in my life. It's not realistic and I can imagine there are some positives about being/living alone over having a partner. Still though I think having a partner especially long term is much better for a lot of outcomes. But alas, I CAN'T BREED.

 

[SrutalBeggs]

"Take a good look at my face and tell me if I have one"

 

[elltom]

If your face is ugly enough, people will know why you don’t have a girlfriend and won’t bother asking you. The only reason people ask sub-5 men if they have a girlfriend is to mock them.

 

[Demonintheflesh666]

"Why don't you have a girlfriend yet?"

It's likely at some point a normie in your life has asked you this question. If they haven't and you're here, they will soon.

The way I'd answer it is "I don't have what it takes for one.". The reason why I answer it this way is multifold:
- It's straight to the point, no BS.
- It's open to interpretation. bluepillers/RP/BP will say different things. The advice that is given to you will reflect their dating philosophy.
- I have some amount of social skills and can keep conversations going. For those saying "autism fucks up your social skills", yes it does, but it's possible to overcome it.

Some potential follow up questions would be "Why is that the case?" or similar.
For this you could say "Even if I could, things wouldn't work out. We would break up very quickly.". That very much sums everything up. The truth is, for a number of reasons, an LTR is not feasible for us. I feel it's not only looks, but some bluepill/RP stuff also comes in. Things would get heated, and she will leave.

Now, you may be asking "DoomThreeShotgunner, why did you tag this with whitepill?"
So, here's your whitepill: I've learned it's OK to be a KHHV. It isn't healthy, but it's OK. I'm not suitable for a relationship. Yes it's cope, but it keeps me alive. Plus I don't have to deal with normie/sexhaver problems. You don't either. Remember that.

nice post

 

[Sub5failure]

Nobody has or will ever ask me this question

My height already answers everything

 

[SpookySpook]

I'm working on myself ( bullshit )

 

[TheNextElliotRodger]

I just say that I just haven't found the one. But they can probably figure out at some point or another why in reality.

 

[Freetard]

The only people who ask me that are boomers since they don't realize how bad things are. I'm just honest with them and say that girls don't show me any signs that they're interested.

 

[andrej]

Even if somehow I was to magically get a LTB, she would cheat on me with a MTN or at least look at them without me ever knowing, so I decide to not pursue any foids, even the obese ones who are at the bottom since they also get play and also cheat. I've become a combination of an incel and a volcel, I don't want to fuck foids, but even if I wanted to I simply couldn't do it without getting cucked.