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I realized it was over for me when I was very young. I’ve known I will never have a girlfriend since I was like 13 or 14 just based on how awful I was treated by foids in middle school and the beginning of high school. I hadn’t even learned about the word “incel” yet and I was one
 
Once I was 12/13 I knew I was done for but the feeling of doom was apparent even at 6-7
 
I began to understand how horrible my prospects were when I was about 15.
 
Probably at around 8-10 i realised I was a complete outcast and very different in many ways to most people , and knew that i would never have anything or anybody.
 
I realized it was over for me when I was very young. I’ve known I will never have a girlfriend since I was like 13 or 14 just based on how awful I was treated by foids in middle school and the beginning of high school. I hadn’t even learned about the word “incel” yet and I was one
Probably 9
 
Probably 12 when I got rejected by my high school crush
 
I realized it was over for me when I was very young. I’ve known I will never have a girlfriend since I was like 13 or 14 just based on how awful I was treated by foids in middle school and the beginning of high school. I hadn’t even learned about the word “incel” yet and I was one
Same. Discovered the word "incel" in high school when i used twitter
 
10 was giving me doubts 15 was making me lean into it and 18 made me truly realize it's definetly ovER
 
14 I remember riding home on my bike crying realizing I had never even kissed a girl and all my friends had pointed it out. Realized I was a subhuman freak
 
23 I still had hope for a white because being a lifelong trucel seemed impossible for a long while.
 
As soon as started middle school at age 12 I knew I was undesirable and no foid would ever see me in a romantic light
 
12/13. I realised there’s no way I could pull foids with my horrible social skills and that looks were my only shot. I still had a little hope until puberty recessed the shit out of my face
 
Are you KHHV? i feel like that is late to realize you're a freak
Just handholdless and virgin, spent most of my teens in my house playing videogames because my mom didnt want to me to spend time outside or better said, didnt want me to do what the others were doing (partying, drinking, talking, etc) ofc that affected my personality, there was a point that i didnt want to go out so at the age 19 (im 22 rn) i realized that i was fked, i barely hang with my friends (which Im starting to distance myself from because i barely have any memories of my teens with them other than the typical hangout, it boils my blood seeing the photos they had and all ive missed) and theres 0 women presence on my field.

That fucking whore ruined me hard, my grandma helped her by reaffirming her bias, just waiting for my grandma to die so i can block my mom from everywhere
 
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Just handholdless and virgin, spent most of my teens in my house playing videogames because my mom didnt want to me to spend time outside or better said, didnt want me to do what the others were doing (partying, drinking, talking, etc) ofc that affected my personality, there was a point that i didnt want to go out so at the age 19 (im 22 rn) i realized that i was fked, i barely hang with my friends (which Im starting to distance myself from because i barely have any memories of my teens with them other than the typical hangout, it boils my blood seeing the photos they had and all ive missed) and theres 0 women presence on my field.

That fucking whore ruined me hard, my grandma helped her by reaffirming her bias, just waiting for my grandma to die so i can block my mom from everywhere
Fucking retarded single moms are one of the main causes of inceldom they just leave the home and take the kids away from the father At a very young age. I dont hate my mother but god damn how stupid are you to traumatize your children like that, to completely isolate them from their fathers. like that is my dad, the closest relative in my life and you ripped him away from me at the age of 6 and expect me to be a normal functioning "person". Im 21 and pretty much am the same except I've never kissed a girl and have no friends.Moved in with my dad at the age of 15 (he lives in another state) and havent had a social life since. You should try to keep your friends maybe convince them to do some sort of crimes together because that will strengthen the bond but I know how retarded people are at this age so good luck
 
18. Once I went to college and I realized my life didn't change, I knew it was over.
 
16 was the really big age for realisation
 
Personally I was about 13 when I really realized I was fucked. I had been teased and picked for how I looked all the time before, but when I started entering HS was the time I realized I should have a foid, and constant pickage for my looks made me realize I was a true chud cursed to be truecel for life. : (
 
definitely somewhere in high school. I had my own black pill philosophy when it came to my shortcomings. Then when I found officially found the bp years later, as well as .is, the pieces came together
 
Just handholdless and virgin, spent most of my teens in my house playing videogames because my mom didnt want to me to spend time outside or better said, didnt want me to do what the others were doing (partying, drinking, talking, etc) ofc that affected my personality, there was a point that i didnt want to go out so at the age 19 (im 22 rn) i realized that i was fked, i barely hang with my friends (which Im starting to distance myself from because i barely have any memories of my teens with them other than the typical hangout, it boils my blood seeing the photos they had and all ive missed) and theres 0 women presence on my field.

That fucking whore ruined me hard, my grandma helped her by reaffirming her bias, just waiting for my grandma to die so i can block my mom from everywhere
So you have kissed and hugged a girl?
 
Truely over? Probably around 12

Always had a sense that something was wrong ever since I gained consciousness though
 
Whenever I got bullied in school for trying to fashioncel but my Chaddy homie who was dressing similarly got even more halo
 
At 15, I realized that my social anxiety hadn’t disappeared, so for me it was over.
 
By the time I reached 16 it was too obvious to ignore anymore.
 
You should try to keep your friends maybe convince them to do some sort of crimes together because that will strengthen the bond but I know how retarded people are at this age so good luck
Too late i guess, even though most of us live in the same city we barely see each other, the group of 7 is tearing apart also they started hanging out in smaller groups (2/3 people). Being honest i cannot even call them my friends, they are just drinking buddies i only have 1 person that i can call my friend and hes like 500km away

Also doesnt help that they stop talking when a woman pays attention to them even when that woman treats them like piece of shit, one of my friends got hook up with a bitch, that whore treated him like garbage even humiliated him in front of everyone (didnt say this but i live in a small city, information and news spreads like wildfire), in front of her sister, in front of her mom, three times three different scenarios and he forgave her just for the sake of getting laid

Same applies to another friend, this made me more hateful towards simps, how am i supposed to strenghten bonds with this kind of people? They literally disappear as soon as they meet a crazy woman and also one of the reasons ill stay forever alone probably. i dont like doing all that stuff for a women, sounds too corny
 
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I realized it was over for me when I was very young. I’ve known I will never have a girlfriend since I was like 13 or 14 just based on how awful I was treated by foids in middle school and the beginning of high school. I hadn’t even learned about the word “incel” yet and I was one
12 because people bullied me despite I behaved in a completely normal way.
 
By the time I was 10 I was clearly splitting off from the pack.
 
13-14, When I started to become interested in foids and just realized that I'd never be able to get them because of my appearance, since they only care about looks, status, money, and stuff. It's even worse here, because women usually only date criminals.
 
Very early teens
 
14, I showed my face on some discord server and everyone was laughing at me
 
I realized it was ovER after elementary, My fate was sealed as soon as I was born but that was when i realized
 
Despite taking 99% of blackpill I can't give up and sometimes looking for matrix exit wormholes

I know I'm delusional
 
around 14 and 15
 
the moment i came out the womb. it was over before it even began
 
I realized it was over for me when I was very young. I’ve known I will never have a girlfriend since I was like 13 or 14 just based on how awful I was treated by foids in middle school and the beginning of high school. I hadn’t even learned about the word “incel” yet and I was one
About 22.
 
Probably 18 after a couple months of normie maxxing.
 

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