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At the gym I see people taking selfies or videos of themselves both guys and foids, how much of a red flag is it when a guy doesn't have any online presence?
 
I think it's just unthinkable for normies to not have social media.
Imo they don't even see it as a red flag, they just can't imagine it.
 
If he is normie its a big one, but if its chad its okay
 
staying of the Internet isn't a problem since its all about respecting your own privacy, I think people only see it as a red flag if you're boasting about it or thinking you're better if you don't use social media. I asked my old friend once why he wasn't on social media once and he started saying he was better than everyone else because he didn't fall for zuccs manipulation schemes and went into conspiracy theories and stuff. I stopped talking to him after that.
 
Many normalfags and foids will consider it a huge red flag.
 
At the gym I see people taking selfies or videos of themselves both guys and foids, how much of a red flag is it when a guy doesn't have any online presence?
Imagine being good looking enough to look at yourself without wanting to rope. :feelsrope:
 
I think it's just unthinkable for normies to not have social media.
Imo they don't even see it as a red flag, they just can't imagine it.
 
At the gym I see people taking selfies or videos of themselves both guys and foids, how much of a red flag is it when a guy doesn't have any online presence?
women like when chad doesn't have social media.

if it's a normie or below big red flag. women use social media for vetting. they'll think you're a weirdo or you have nothing interesting going on
 
Many normalfags and foids will consider it a huge red flag.

women like when chad doesn't have social media.

if it's a normie or below big red flag. women use social media for vetting. they'll think you're a weirdo or you have nothing interesting going on
Tbh. Normies and foids have certain expectations for you to even be considered a normie. Being on social media is probably one. Other "red flags" are if youre a virgin past a cetain age or if you dont have any friends. :lasereyes:
 
they'll think you're a weirdo or you have nothing interesting going on
Yeah. Not having an instagram is probably a signal to them that you're a boring depressed non-nt nerd.
They're right of course - I'm not good enough at anything or do anything interesting enough to show off, which is why I don't have one.
 
CHADs and normies spend like half of their time in social media platforms and take pics that they upload daily. I personally think that every single person has social media account to stalk their classmates or coworkers but people like me (truecels) don't take and upload pictures of themselves.
 
incel media > soycial media
 
Women prefer social butterflies so if you don't have social media it makes you seem like a loser creep
 
To normies, it's like an ISIS/Al Qaeda flag. Of course, good-looking men are an exception.
 
At the gym I see people taking selfies or videos of themselves both guys and foids, how much of a red flag is it when a guy doesn't have any online presence?
One of the most important things. Women will scroll through your followers/following and comments under your post to see if others are interested in you (preselectionpill).

I had a foid ask me my Instagram. I don’t have one so I just said I disabled it and forgot my password and am too lazy to create a new one
 
social media is fucking stupid. the internet - forums and the like - are cool.

i can't wait to quit instagram facebook and twitter for good but i need it for news and porn.
 
your looks are your social media
 
If anything it is a green flag. But foids are fucking color blind when they look at guys that aren't Chad.
 
It's amazing how 2 decades ago or even a bit over a decade ago before the blackberry phone came out only losers would do online dating or even require the Internet to socialize, now things have reversed & no online presence is seen as weird.

Made by nerds, co-opted by those that bullied or laughed at said ppl in high-school.

I feel like many advancements or inventions are made by losers/autistics & the norms swarm all over it but hate the ppl behind these things; stop building things for assholes
 
Yes it's a massive red flag. People thought I was a complete weirdo for not having any social media accounts.
 
Zuckerbased fucking up Facebook was great for me. Now when I tell people I don't use jewbook they nod and think its understandable, instead of thinking I'm a loser psycho. And since I'm not a zoomer I'm not expected to post selfies of myself on instagram like a faggot for good boy like points.
 
B-b-b-but I have an online presence... right here :feelsaww:
 
I think it's just unthinkable for normies to not have social media.
Imo they don't even see it as a red flag, they just can't imagine it.
Yeah, it's just so ubiquitous nowadays that even old people are on there. Young people who aren't ugly probably spend 50% of their time glued to social media. Maybe that's what people mean when they say you're boring, you don't have anything online for them to look at and judge you.
If he is normie its a big one, but if its chad its okay
Do some Chad's not use it either?
staying of the Internet isn't a problem since its all about respecting your own privacy, I think people only see it as a red flag if you're boasting about it or thinking you're better if you don't use social media. I asked my old friend once why he wasn't on social media once and he started saying he was better than everyone else because he didn't fall for zuccs manipulation schemes and went into conspiracy theories and stuff. I stopped talking to him after that.
Oh definitely not going down the route IRL, I had facebook up until the mid 2010's and nobody gave a shit when I posted stuff so what was the point. Actually it was one of the reasons I stopped it, not having an audience to like my shit. Meanwhile Chad or any foid posts a pic of their faces and get hundreds of likes and reactions.
Many normalfags and foids will consider it a huge red flag.
What's worse, a guy with no social media or a guy with social media who doesn't get any likes and has few friends most of them his family?
Imagine being good looking enough to look at yourself without wanting to rope. :feelsrope:
:yes: All my selfies make me look even worse than mirrors.
women like when chad doesn't have social media.

if it's a normie or below big red flag. women use social media for vetting. they'll think you're a weirdo or you have nothing interesting going on
I wish it had never been invented, fuck Mark Jewberg.
Other "red flags" are if youre a virgin past a cetain age or if you dont have any friends. :lasereyes:
What age is that these days, 18?
Yeah. Not having an instagram is probably a signal to them that you're a boring depressed non-nt nerd.
They're right of course - I'm not good enough at anything or do anything interesting enough to show off, which is why I don't have one.
Yep, and even if you did post stuff, who would like it anyway? Mum? :feelshaha:
I personally think that every single person has social media account to stalk their classmates or coworkers but people like me (truecels) don't take and upload pictures of themselves.
I've got one but it's not my real name, it's because most social media doesn't let you look at things without sign up prompts and nagging. It's like a form of self harm looking up people from school and college and seeing them with girls or starting families.
incel media > soycial media
:yes:
Women prefer social butterflies so if you don't have social media it makes you seem like a loser creep
Unless you're a dark triad Chad, "omg he's so mysterious" :foidSoy:
To normies, it's like an ISIS/Al Qaeda flag. Of course, good-looking men are an exception.
Double standards if you're attractive.
One of the most important things. Women will scroll through your followers/following and comments under your post to see if others are interested in you (preselectionpill).
What if you made it all private? Would they judge you on privacy too?

i can't wait to quit instagram facebook and twitter for good but i need it for news and porn.
Bro, the news on these places are most likely fake news or ads.
your looks are your social media
:yes:
If anything it is a green flag. But foids are fucking color blind when they look at guys that aren't Chad.
A foid who isn't glued to her phone 24/7 would be highly sort after, a man who's like that has something to hide.
It's amazing how 2 decades ago or even a bit over a decade ago before the blackberry phone came out only losers would do online dating or even require the Internet to socialize, now things have reversed & no online presence is seen as weird.

Made by nerds, co-opted by those that bullied or laughed at said ppl in high-school.

I feel like many advancements or inventions are made by losers/autistics & the norms swarm all over it but hate the ppl behind these things; stop building things for assholes
A few smart nerdy guys threw everyone-else like them under the bus to get where they are today by inventing all these nasty networks and apps. How do we even begin to compete.
Yes it's a massive red flag. People thought I was a complete weirdo for not having any social media accounts.
Was this recently or a few years back now?
Zuckerbased fucking up Facebook was great for me. Now when I tell people I don't use jewbook they nod and think its understandable, instead of thinking I'm a loser psycho. And since I'm not a zoomer I'm not expected to post selfies of myself on instagram like a faggot for good boy like points.
But even millennials seem to use things like instagram and others these days now that facebook is seen as an old persons platform, can't fully escape it.
B-b-b-but I have an online presence... right here :feelsaww:
"OMG he has a .is profile that's so hot!" :foidSoy:
 
Yeah, it's just so ubiquitous nowadays that even old people are on there. Young people who aren't ugly probably spend 50% of their time glued to social media. Maybe that's what people mean when they say you're boring, you don't have anything online for them to look at and judge you.

Do some Chad's not use it either?

Oh definitely not going down the route IRL, I had facebook up until the mid 2010's and nobody gave a shit when I posted stuff so what was the point. Actually it was one of the reasons I stopped it, not having an audience to like my shit. Meanwhile Chad or any foid posts a pic of their faces and get hundreds of likes and reactions.

What's worse, a guy with no social media or a guy with social media who doesn't get any likes and has few friends most of them his family?

:yes: All my selfies make me look even worse than mirrors.

I wish it had never been invented, fuck Mark Jewberg.

What age is that these days, 18?

Yep, and even if you did post stuff, who would like it anyway? Mum? :feelshaha:

I've got one but it's not my real name, it's because most social media doesn't let you look at things without sign up prompts and nagging. It's like a form of self harm looking up people from school and college and seeing them with girls or starting families.

:yes:

Unless you're a dark triad Chad, "omg he's so mysterious" :foidSoy:

Double standards if you're attractive.

What if you made it all private? Would they judge you on privacy too?


Bro, the news on these places are most likely fake news or ads.

:yes:

A foid who isn't glued to her phone 24/7 would be highly sort after, a man who's like that has something to hide.

A few smart nerdy guys threw everyone-else like them under the bus to get where they are today by inventing all these nasty networks and apps. How do we even begin to compete.

Was this recently or a few years back now?

But even millennials seem to use things like instagram and others these days now that facebook is seen as an old persons platform, can't fully escape it.

"OMG he has a .is profile that's so hot!" :foidSoy:
Few years back
 
Thankfully i instagrammaxxed in the past few months to a decent number of followers. I only have the profile pic and 1 single post from 2021. I don't even know if i should post something at all.

Normies see it as a massive red flag. If you're an average to below average guy and have 0 social media presence, then you must be a serial killer. Obviously if you're chad, you would get the "oh he's so mysterious. And he stays away from toxic social media. Green flag" - :foidSoy:

Oh and "just play the numbers game brooo" doesn't work, i tried it. 99% don't even reply and the ones that do just want a simp.
 
You gotta be doing something wrong bro. You're probably not exuding enough confidence. But don't worry for I have a course that'll teach you how to attract all the roasties lurking here. For only $1000 I'm practically giving it away for free! :feelsYall: :redpill:
OK I'll stop this stupid skit now
 
As red as the blood of normies
 
As long as you have female followers it doesn't matter
How to get female followers?
Thankfully i instagrammaxxed in the past few months to a decent number of followers. I only have the profile pic and 1 single post from 2021. I don't even know if i should post something at all.

Normies see it as a massive red flag. If you're an average to below average guy and have 0 social media presence, then you must be a serial killer. Obviously if you're chad, you would get the "oh he's so mysterious. And he stays away from toxic social media. Green flag" - :foidSoy:

Oh and "just play the numbers game brooo" doesn't work, i tried it. 99% don't even reply and the ones that do just want a simp.
How did you manage to get lots of followers? Did you use a fake profile pic?
You gotta be doing something wrong bro. You're probably not exuding enough confidence. But don't worry for I have a course that'll teach you how to attract all the roasties lurking here. For only $1000 I'm practically giving it away for free! :feelsYall: :redpill:
OK I'll stop this stupid skit now
Take my money, show me the ways of the :redpill: game bro.
As red as the blood of normies
:fuk:
What about internet friends you meet here. :feelscomfy:
That's true, but I doubt anyone could use their .is clout to get IRL friends and pussy, maybe sneir tried it at some point who knows.
 
I hate social media and don't use any of it. Normies suck! I effectively cut off every single person i ever knew because I hate all of them. I really hate normies and they really hate me.

They were never going to help me anyway

I took the extreme route because i just got so sick of it. It was like getting bullied 24/7.

If you want to use social media then just avoid interacting with the normies, just use DMs

I don't think social media is that bad since people rely on it to communicate, so it has some logic to it. But damn i got so pissed with the normies that i just cut it all off
 
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As with everything else. If you're a chad then it's ok if not then it's over
 
How to get female followers?
From people you know at school, college, work etc. Alternatively you could follow random females and unfollow those who don't follow you back. There's an app which let's you know which of your following isn't following you back
 
Id say you need to spend some money to buy followers on IG to show foids youre not a total recluse
 
Huge. Probably hiding something. You need to plaster your entire life online.
 
How did you manage to get lots of followers? Did you use a fake profile pic?
I followed the guide on looksmaxx.org. My profile pic is normie like, not Patrick Bateman or some shit. If you have a decent enough hairline you can take a pic infront of a mirror covering half your head, that's what my profile pic.

As for gaining followers if you don't have any at all, follow family, colleagues, classmates or people you know if in general. They will probably follow you back. Also there's a chrome extension to see who isn't following you so you can unfollow them. This is important to keep the ratio followers/following bigger than 1 (having more followers than people you are following).
After that take a look at the followers list of people who follow you and look for people that don't have that ratio i spoke of. Try to follow mostly these kind of people, spam for 15-30 minutes a day. I pretty much expanded my follower count 3x times in 4 months what i usually had. Suffice to say, this strategy works. Btw i have 550 now, so i can upload posts that maybe reach 100 likes, but i'm too lazy to pester someone to take pics of me. And i don't have any idea how to make them look good i.e. hide my flaws.
 
Take my money, show me the ways of the :redpill: game bro.
You know what? I'm feeling generous today, so I'll tell you for the low low price of gratis. Just keep on hustling. Keep on grinding. Never get give up. Last, but certainly not least, feel generous once in a while. Good karma will come around bro. Just keep on hustling and grinding in the meantime :feelsokman:
I followed the guide on looksmaxx.org. My profile pic is normie like, not Patrick Bateman or some shit. If you have a decent enough hairline you can take a pic infront of a mirror covering half your head, that's what my profile pic.

As for gaining followers if you don't have any at all, follow family, colleagues, classmates or people you know if in general. They will probably follow you back. Also there's a chrome extension to see who isn't following you so you can unfollow them. This is important to keep the ratio followers/following bigger than 1 (having more followers than people you are following).
After that take a look at the followers list of people who follow you and look for people that don't have that ratio i spoke of. Try to follow mostly these kind of people, spam for 15-30 minutes a day. I pretty much expanded my follower count 3x times in 4 months what i usually had. Suffice to say, this strategy works. Btw i have 550 now, so i can upload posts that maybe reach 100 likes, but i'm too lazy to pester someone to take pics of me. And i don't have any idea how to make them look good i.e. hide my flaws.
Did any of this pay off in any real way? It sounds like a lot of wasted effort if it didn't.
 
Did any of this pay off in any real way? It sounds like a lot of wasted effort if it didn't.
Well it didn't give me any bitches, so i'm still an incel :feelsbadman:

Tbh not feeling weird, akward and overly self-conscious if/when someone asks for your social media is more than enough for me. It's not like i was just scrolling and spamming, i was usually watching some tv show while doing it so it doesn't feel like i wasted much of anything.
 
At the gym I see people taking selfies or videos of themselves both guys and foids, how much of a red flag is it when a guy doesn't have any online presence?
Only normies, faggots and degenerate use social media
 
staying of the Internet isn't a problem since its all about respecting your own privacy, I think people only see it as a red flag if you're boasting about it or thinking you're better if you don't use social media. I asked my old friend once why he wasn't on social media once and he started saying he was better than everyone else because he didn't fall for zuccs manipulation schemes and went into conspiracy theories and stuff. I stopped talking to him after that.
I think your friend is quite based
 
I don't care about this anymore, I will never use it. What am I supposed to use it for? I never take pics.

I deeply hate social medis for killing the internet
 
Well it didn't give me any bitches, so i'm still an incel :feelsbadman:
Otherwise you shouldn't be here after all :feelsbadman:
Tbh not feeling weird, akward and overly self-conscious if/when someone asks for your social media is more than enough for me. It's not like i was just scrolling and spamming, i was usually watching some tv show while doing it so it doesn't feel like i wasted much of anything.
Mogs me at having people ask for your social media. I can't recall anyone ever asking for mine. Not that I'd have any trouble telling them I don't have any. Anyhoo, it's probably for the best you didn't spend a lotta dedicated time on social media.
 
people like me (truecels) don't take and upload pictures of themselves.
Truecel trait:- Trucels like us never take pics of us and upload on social media
 

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