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Escapism is the practice of immersing into a made up fantasy world to “escape” reality.

For some individuals escapism can take over someone’s life, so much so that they want to spent all their time in it despite knowing it’s a fake world they are living in.

Personally I’ve realized how severely i’m affected by escapism after brainstorming and realizing a behavior of mine.

As usual on a Friday night, I was playing Minecraft. After setting up my base, I started to decorate it with the nicest materials I could find, I thought really hard about what to improve and how to structure everything so it looks great.


The irony here is that i haven’t cleaned my room for several weeks, to the point where there’s a mountain of trash right next to my bed.

I’m spending hours decorating a fake home for a fake character in a fake world, yet the real me is drowning in plastic packaging and smelly laundry.

Another example is games like gta,Arc Raiders, WWM etc. basically games where you can customize your own characters.

I always make sure that my character is the best looking with the nicest clothes, I even have different fits for them to wear so it won’t get boring.

However I don’t take care of myself IRL at all, I’m wearing the same 3 fits every week for years now and I could buy new clothes but I don’t feel the need to do so and always decide to spend my money on food and games.

I look and smell like a hobo and I don’t care because all I think about all day is my video games, I literally have no life outside of it.

I would probably get a mental breakdown if someone came and took all my electronics because without them I am nothing, I am just an empty shell.
 
A large portion of it.
 
98% of the day is spent pondering about how good things could be or how good things were.
 
I never tried or wanted to escape, but I was forced to, in my lonely and meaningless teen years. I mostly played videogames.
 
It has been a large portion of my life but has slowly started to recess
 
I feel for you, it's sad our real lives are so empty we can't bear to be in them
 
Its a good cope.
 
Can relate, I'm in my mind a whole lot
 
I don't know if it's the same thing, but I engage in maladaptive daydreaming very frequently, it's a pretty core part of my day. I don't really do it because I'm 'depressed' or anything, though—I just do it because I have nothing really better to do and it's still fun to imagine being in a different, fantastical world.
 
pretty much absorbed every second of the day into the cope. its honestly why i am a stickler for immersion, a game or a piece of media that cant fully immerse you imo, isnt worth your time. i just want to forget this "life" i have
 
Most of the time. I try to ignore the crushing reality of my existence as often as I can and just focus on "positive" feelings
 
It's controlled or bereft escapism.
 
As a schizo, escapism is all I have from having a complete psychotic episode. Listening, watching, and reading things. I honestly cannot function like a normal human being without that. Being schizo and a sub5 is an agonizing existence
 
I spend most of my day on it tbh
 
These days not much at all. I just don't have the mental energy for it anymore.

While I'm at work i'm focused on my job and trying not to mess up and get fired. Outside of work I'm either doing chores, running errands or dreading the next work day. Been quite a while since I watched anime and I'll play a video game maybe a few times a month.

Outside of that, I think about more real world stuff. Things like economics, sociological trends, health, and AI.

I'm basically just a boring old NPC now.
 
I have to have youtube videos in the background all my waking time because I can't be alone with my thoughts.
 
A lot. I see no reason to waste my time on normies.
 
Escapism is the practice of immersing into a made up fantasy world to “escape” reality.

For some individuals escapism can take over someone’s life, so much so that they want to spent all their time in it despite knowing it’s a fake world they are living in.

Personally I’ve realized how severely i’m affected by escapism after brainstorming and realizing a behavior of mine.

As usual on a Friday night, I was playing Minecraft. After setting up my base, I started to decorate it with the nicest materials I could find, I thought really hard about what to improve and how to structure everything so it looks great.


The irony here is that i haven’t cleaned my room for several weeks, to the point where there’s a mountain of trash right next to my bed.

I’m spending hours decorating a fake home for a fake character in a fake world, yet the real me is drowning in plastic packaging and smelly laundry.

Another example is games like gta,Arc Raiders, WWM etc. basically games where you can customize your own characters.

I always make sure that my character is the best looking with the nicest clothes, I even have different fits for them to wear so it won’t get boring.

However I don’t take care of myself IRL at all, I’m wearing the same 3 fits every week for years now and I could buy new clothes but I don’t feel the need to do so and always decide to spend my money on food and games.

I look and smell like a hobo and I don’t care because all I think about all day is my video games, I literally have no life outside of it.

I would probably get a mental breakdown if someone came and took all my electronics because without them I am nothing, I am just an empty shell.
Cost me my entire ecademic opportunities i had when i was young teenage
 
Escapism is the practice of immersing into a made up fantasy world to “escape” reality.

For some individuals escapism can take over someone’s life, so much so that they want to spent all their time in it despite knowing it’s a fake world they are living in.

Personally I’ve realized how severely i’m affected by escapism after brainstorming and realizing a behavior of mine.

As usual on a Friday night, I was playing Minecraft. After setting up my base, I started to decorate it with the nicest materials I could find, I thought really hard about what to improve and how to structure everything so it looks great.


The irony here is that i haven’t cleaned my room for several weeks, to the point where there’s a mountain of trash right next to my bed.

I’m spending hours decorating a fake home for a fake character in a fake world, yet the real me is drowning in plastic packaging and smelly laundry.

Another example is games like gta,Arc Raiders, WWM etc. basically games where you can customize your own characters.

I always make sure that my character is the best looking with the nicest clothes, I even have different fits for them to wear so it won’t get boring.

However I don’t take care of myself IRL at all, I’m wearing the same 3 fits every week for years now and I could buy new clothes but I don’t feel the need to do so and always decide to spend my money on food and games.

I look and smell like a hobo and I don’t care because all I think about all day is my video games, I literally have no life outside of it.

I would probably get a mental breakdown if someone came and took all my electronics because without them I am nothing, I am just an empty shell.
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You seem like the exact same type of gamer as me.
 
Like 95% of my life is escapism if not more
 

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