I have three approaches in real life, all failed.
Haven't tried online yet, maybe I should.
Haven't tried online yet, maybe I should.
I haven't gone out and hit on every women that moves. I'm not sure I have an exact count.
After a few times you quickly learn to read the room a bit, you can tell she's going to say "no thanks" within seconds, sometimes even from across the room. I do sometimes look back at a few women I've walked past and invent scenarios where, against all odds, I was successful, but there's no reason to believe such fantasies.
Online? Bots, women looking for green cards thousands of miles away, OF shills, scammers, single moms... Like the one match I got stood me up.
I'm tired.
After a few times you quickly learn to read the room a bit, you can tell she's going to say "no thanks" within seconds, sometimes even from across the room. I do sometimes look back at a few women I've walked past and invent scenarios where, against all odds, I was successful, but there's no reason to believe such fantasies.
Online? Bots, women looking for green cards thousands of miles away, OF shills, scammers, single moms... Like the one match I got stood me up.
I'm tired.
There are no women worth approaching these days.
None, being a manlet i already know whats gonna happen so i dont even bother.
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Dont know. But I assure you the same number of times I tryied is the same number of fails.
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Asked out at least 11 foids irl and tried it with hundreds of foids on the internet
Pretty similar here. Tried a couple of approaches but haven't tried online yet.
what is the point in trying?
i will not engage in the humiliation ritual
i will not engage in the humiliation ritual
I have tried approaching several times before, they either told me they have a boyfriend, gave me a wide eyed glare like i just killed their family, and a few said that they're lesbians.
It's good to do a few times so you know for sure, and then never again.
It's good to do a few times so you know for sure, and then never again.
irl approaching is just a humiliation ritual
Countless attempts
My experience through dating apps has confirmed every single pill
Apart from dickpill since I've never gone that far. :feelskek: So yes, I did manage to get a few matches. Whatever, I made stats and here's the outcome. Note that I specified being seeking LTR.
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5'7, balding, missing teeth, overweight, wears glasses why would I even think about trying.
6 times iirc
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you have more courage than me
I tried in clubs, spain party islands, in-person, social clubs at university, work
all failed.
Also I did this all while being giga highinhib so it was even harder for me
all failed.
Also I did this all while being giga highinhib so it was even harder for me
400+, I counted them on an excel spreadsheet, all from irl, online dont count. I wanted to reach 1000 in order to convince myself that it is truly over, but I am losing motivation
That's actually brutal
I know, but I am glad I did it, this way I don't feel like I am missing out or that I didn't try.That's actually brutal
8-9, after seeing my face or meeting (3 times) irl I was immediately blocked
Wow dude. Honestly, 400 approaches in real life? Did you vary it up as far as type of women approached, manner of approach, etc.?
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ONLY WORKS IN 5TH GRADE
HARD TO SWALLOW WARNING.
HARD TO SWALLOW WARNING.
Wow, that's insane. Mine is 28 approches but i feel defeated already
Any tips or tricks to do approches, things to do or not do. Like how to get rejected properly or run away when she calls the cops
Probably 200 cold approaches
A little under 100 average attempts
Maybe 30 serious attempts
Had a dozen women flake me irl, sitting alone in public waiting for nobody.
Had a dozen women ghost me online
About 40 matches on tinder over 2 years, nothing to show for it
Only been on 2 dates, one horrible, one good but she wasted 3 months of my time after without meeting up again because she needed to “find herself” and always had a reason why she couldn’t see me but swore it wasn’t because she didn’t like me yeah ok.
Women are fucking horrible to be around.
A little under 100 average attempts
Maybe 30 serious attempts
Had a dozen women flake me irl, sitting alone in public waiting for nobody.
Had a dozen women ghost me online
About 40 matches on tinder over 2 years, nothing to show for it
Only been on 2 dates, one horrible, one good but she wasted 3 months of my time after without meeting up again because she needed to “find herself” and always had a reason why she couldn’t see me but swore it wasn’t because she didn’t like me
yeah ok.Women are fucking horrible to be around.
I've tried atleast 9 times, all them done in high school, except the last one were i tried to start a convo with this girl on the bus and she pretended that I didn't even exist.
Once IRL with a cute girl one year older than me at my first job, rejected.
7 times (yes, actually 7) online with e-girls without any relationship experience that were all into my hobbies (video games, vns, animanga) and told me they wanted love and I was attractive when I sent a face pic. We talked for hours daily for weeks. Ghosted all times.
7 times (yes, actually 7) online with e-girls without any relationship experience that were all into my hobbies (video games, vns, animanga) and told me they wanted love and I was attractive when I sent a face pic. We talked for hours daily for weeks. Ghosted all times.
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my score is around 0/40 or 0/50
Brutal, men. These women will be whores for chads or rich, but will give us nothing.
And it's not like they are that great, either. They are just physically attractive. I bet you every one of the women we approach, are just normal people, not celebrities, not rich like they desire.
And it's not like they are that great, either. They are just physically attractive. I bet you every one of the women we approach, are just normal people, not celebrities, not rich like they desire.
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They are chadsexuals. Female rights is the downfall of relationships
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Went on match.com and got a premium subscription for 6 months and messaged every female on my feeds. Regardless of attractiveness level. Only date I got was with sub 3 femcel tier black girl. Still rejected by her.
So how many rejections was that?
So how many rejections was that?
Like once or twice, but the main reason I became incel is because I went through the most soul-crushing experiences regarding my little sister and the sheer mockery and vitriol I received from her and others all of the time because of a trait of mine I could never change (5'3). I would get laughed at by the kids on her school bus when I just went over to make sure she walked back home safely since I cared for her/
It got to the point where she was so tired of me, she asked me to hide behind a tree so that she wouldn't be seen with me whenever I went to pick her up.
It got to the point where she was so tired of me, she asked me to hide behind a tree so that she wouldn't be seen with me whenever I went to pick her up.
Oh my God, I could not handle that if that happened to me. I think I would genuinely grab her neck and then twist her head off.
Yes, it includes nightclubs and day, some of them very drunk, so the numbers are probably higher, only criteria I had was no fat or black girls (I'm white)
The hardest part is the aproach anxiety, overcoming rejection, specially negative rejections is the second hardest part. The trick is to be persistent, go out try to aproach, you will get so mad at yourself for not aproaching, that eventually you do it, keep doing this. The worst rejections I got was girls telling me to fuck off, or telling me to not talk to them, just ignore and move to the next. Literally had 0 real world consequences for it. Eventually you get bolder and become persistent, i.e, dont give up just because she pulled the boyfriend card, as well as finding what openers work and which don't search the internet for ideas.Wow, that's insane. Mine is 28 approches but i feel defeated already
Any tips or tricks to do approches, things to do or not do. Like how to get rejected properly or run away when she calls the cops
I didn't manage to get as much as a date, max I got were some ig conversations that led nowhere. But if you are at least normie tier and not autistic you will get results.
Oh man...
I don't keep exact count because it happens so damn often.
But in my life, ive most definitely had over 25 rejections for sure. Even more and more ghosting done on dating apps, whenever I got matches. (Rare)
"go over there and talk to her bro!!" And other shit like that is what my friends would tell me.
i never knew what to say, I always was just too kind and they ended up being friends with me.
it's truly a horrible feeling when every girl "likes" you, but nobody loves you.
The most brutal rejection was when I matched with someone on bumble, she was very nice and we had similar interests! I was so happy until she stopped talking to me out of nowhere a few days later. I then decided to check her Instagram, not only did she have a boyfriend, but i found her liking non ironic posts about how women shouldn't date black men.
That shit crushed my spirit. I've never really felt confident in myself since then. It was awful knowing that I'll forever be this color and therefore won't be desirable by most women.
"I tried so hard, and got so far, but in the end it doesn't even matter"
I don't keep exact count because it happens so damn often.
But in my life, ive most definitely had over 25 rejections for sure. Even more and more ghosting done on dating apps, whenever I got matches. (Rare)
"go over there and talk to her bro!!" And other shit like that is what my friends would tell me.
i never knew what to say, I always was just too kind and they ended up being friends with me.
it's truly a horrible feeling when every girl "likes" you, but nobody loves you.
The most brutal rejection was when I matched with someone on bumble, she was very nice and we had similar interests! I was so happy until she stopped talking to me out of nowhere a few days later. I then decided to check her Instagram, not only did she have a boyfriend, but i found her liking non ironic posts about how women shouldn't date black men.
That shit crushed my spirit. I've never really felt confident in myself since then. It was awful knowing that I'll forever be this color and therefore won't be desirable by most women.
"I tried so hard, and got so far, but in the end it doesn't even matter"
A lot so many times just the other day messed up at the gas station cant count change for shit and thought i was getting ripped off when I payed for cash and I kind of argued with this curry nigger he did give me the right amount i payed. I just forgot the receipt for what i payed im retarded
At least a dozen irl. I'm too old for that now and I have no hope that online dating would be any better (apps weren't a thing when I was in school)
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