NT pill destroyed again
Serious How many of you have normie friends and social circle irl
I only have the latter
@UglyDumbass meanwhile even the rejects didnt wanted us
This is what my friend group was like during school but some of those friends I had changed and became more normie but I'm still friends with them. Haven't made any new friends in years so I'd be fucked without them.
Only acquaintances
Same boat as me I see. Its tough being left behind but its inevitable sadly.
Brutal. Not having proper social circles is another thing most of us lack in addition to not having a gf.
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Had friends when I was studying, now I had periods where I didn't talk with anyone except job (about job!) for years.
99,9999999999999999999999999999% of the time I go out for a walk alone.
I'm enjoying it a lot, despite having lonely moments from time to time.
Sometimes I walk around thinking "People have this fancy cars and stuff, need to put so much energy in this finding time between family and work - I'm glad I'm alone!".
But sometimes it goes like "Yeeeaahh, my brain chemicals are hitting me again for being alone! They are trying to say that I'm a social creature, lol! I forgot about this, but now I have this lonely feeling and gonna need to socialize somehow!".
I usually do some hobbies, but I also glad I found this forum. I like to read it from time to time.
If we go for a walk with some guy that I knew from the past - it's usually because I asked or found them first, lol.
But still - if I'm sitting alone and be like "Man, I want to go out an have some live conversation right now!", than I would reach somebody and be like "Hey, wanna go out?" - and here we go!
If they really hated me, they would find all excuses not to go - and here we can have conversation and laughs from time to time. It happens once a 3 months in the best case. I'm fine with it, doesn't bother me that much.
99,9999999999999999999999999999% of the time I go out for a walk alone.
I'm enjoying it a lot, despite having lonely moments from time to time.
Sometimes I walk around thinking "People have this fancy cars and stuff, need to put so much energy in this finding time between family and work - I'm glad I'm alone!".
But sometimes it goes like "Yeeeaahh, my brain chemicals are hitting me again for being alone! They are trying to say that I'm a social creature, lol! I forgot about this, but now I have this lonely feeling and gonna need to socialize somehow!".
I usually do some hobbies, but I also glad I found this forum. I like to read it from time to time.
If we go for a walk with some guy that I knew from the past - it's usually because I asked or found them first, lol.
But still - if I'm sitting alone and be like "Man, I want to go out an have some live conversation right now!", than I would reach somebody and be like "Hey, wanna go out?" - and here we go!
If they really hated me, they would find all excuses not to go - and here we can have conversation and laughs from time to time. It happens once a 3 months in the best case. I'm fine with it, doesn't bother me that much.
What makes it even more brutal is that most here are oldcels
Even old normies lose their friends over time because theyre busy spending time with family
Meanwhile I'm only fucking 20 and already alone
Idk about most here being oldcels, as the userbase seems similar to our age for the most part. There are a lot of oldcels though.
And yeah, most normies don’t need friends as much because they have a wife and kids. Meanwhile I have no gf, very little social life, and barely any family left. If my mother dies, I’m screwed, since she is the only really close person in my life. I’m 19, and gonna be 20 soon. Lonely af
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We are here with you! If that makes it better or worse, lol!
But situation isn't that different, seems like 90% of Incel IRL mostly have few super old friends from waaaaaay back then seeing each other rarely - and that's all social success.
That's my case too.
How I see this - our brain system is wired to have talks and be social back from caveman days. It's a constant drive to search for others and try to find a way to be with each other and make it somehow work.
Even if we have negative communcations ending with something like "NEVER AGAIN!", it still would urge us to find something later. Even in the way of writing on forum. If we not doing something, it punishes us with gnawing sense of "loneliness" and desire to escape it. All our emotions are wired and tied to brain chemicals.
And understanding of all this thing wouldn't make it easier, the only way is to escape it is to do something social, or change the focus of mind on some activity.
But we should keep attention, this stuff could make a person overly desperate and ready to go into any stupid communications. People can bring different awful people in their lifes trying somehow to fit there, just because they don't want to be alone.
So, there is many stuff going on out there.
Did you have any pals from back then? Write to some of them on social media, and talk about something.
So, even if you have no IRL communications - your brain would still make you wanting to find at least something.
This is how we all ended up on this forum, lol.
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The only people I talk to are at my job. On my days off I don't speak to anyone.
My family lives an entire ocean and continent away (im rice), they see me like stranger atp, because i never got a chance to get close to them because my parents took me to this shithole country against my will
No one really wants anything to do with me, no one gives a fuck
i will rot and suffer brutally, tens and thousands of km away from motherland, wondering why, why me?
But remember, it can always get worse, and in my experience, it always does.
Fuck, that’s brutal. Are your parents at least nearby and good to you? Luckily, my parents were usually good to me
Makes sense. Appreciate you sharing your wisdom here.
We all try something man, cant just rot away you know, even if its in vain.
They are abusive helicopter parents.
When i was a kid i was pressured by them into the corner
When I first became adult, I became stronger and they stopped trying to control me.
However, recently, because i was fucked by illness, I became super dependent and weak again, and now they are helicopter parents again
Damn. At least my parents just weren’t super controlling. They just let me do whatever I wanted. Rice parents seem to be very bad in this regard
Between the second and third options. I have about one actual friend who I've ruthlessly clung onto since middle school because I already then knew that my chances of finding another one were hopeless
. The other guys we sometimes hang out with are much more his friends than mine, more like my acquiatances really, and I "get invited" to stuff in the sense that I usually go when they want to hang out, but sometimes only smaller groups of them meet up, and the people in my uni usually just let all of us know whenever they want to meet up outside of it in our group chat, meaning that anyone can come there.
. The other guys we sometimes hang out with are much more his friends than mine, more like my acquiatances really, and I "get invited" to stuff in the sense that I usually go when they want to hang out, but sometimes only smaller groups of them meet up, and the people in my uni usually just let all of us know whenever they want to meet up outside of it in our group chat, meaning that anyone can come there.
Thats a very long paragraph to say "the normies accept me despite me crying about being non-nt on here for sympathy points, too bad for you"Between the second and third options. I have about one actual friend who I've ruthlessly clung onto since middle school because I already then knew that my chances of finding another one were hopeless
At this point i might think i might not have it
I'm just an extremely low-trust sperg because the users that claim to be NT on here are somehow the loneliest
Meanwhile people like you who have autism and write very long obsessive over it turn out to have an established social circle
They are dissolving within my own eyes. I do all I can to prevent this cause I know it will be over for me if I fail
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Said the same for me, tried like 4 tests, they are cope tho we all are autistic me included due to bad development
If youre high functioning,
You couldve easily been NT
Its mostly due to poor development due to being judged and ostracized or other forms of shitty abusive environment
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Yea that, i still pass as nt tho as recently(was mega mentally ill before) and for the most part am normal just short and a bit ugly, way below average smv tho taking these all into account
I'm very nonnt to others,
I dont even attempt to mask
I just gave up
Its all so tiring
One of my normie "friends" talked shit about me to a group of foids to get their approval while we hung out in public today.
Happened to me in high school,
I dont have "friends" anymore though so maybe youre a kidcel
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