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How many here have learned helplessness and apathy?

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Losers typically have a low "locus of control", a term for not believing that your actions can improve your life. It is extremely hard to get past learned helplessness once you got it. Learned helplessness is a result of serious, repeated, inescapable trauma in youth.

For instance, I have become a millionaire recently due to crypto trading but I still LDAR on my bed all day long, feeling like degenerate trash and a loser. Getting plastic surgery, to me, sounds like an enormous hassle. Merely arranging a rendez-vous with a surgeon sounds like a tremendous effort. The same goes for trying to meet women. I've taken anti-depressants, they do lift my mood but I remain the same lazy asshole nonetheless; I just become a happy bum instead of a miserable bum.

This is the ultimate blackpill: if your teenage years are miserable, you risk developing learned helplessness and then it's likely over for you. You'll become the stereotypical loser character in novels. The only thing I managed to do is stay clear of alcohol, but the temptation to go "full bum" is sometimes hard to resist.
 
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I've had it in regards to some things since childhood, it later applied to socialization as well. It's monstrously difficult to muster up the will to try if you know you'll fail before you even start.
 
I have become a millionaire recently due to crypto trading
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Losers typically have a low "locus of control", a term for not believing that your actions can improve your life. It is extremely hard to get past learned helplessness once you got it. Learned helplessness is a result of serious, repeated, inescapable trauma in youth.

For instance, I have become a millionaire recently due to crypto trading but I still LDAR on my bed all day long, feeling like degenerate trash and a loser. Getting plastic surgery, to me, sounds like an enormous hassle. Merely arranging a rendez-vous with a surgeon sounds like a tremendous effort. The same goes for trying to meet women. I've taken anti-depressants, they do lift my mood but I remain the same lazy asshole nonetheless; I just become a happy bum instead of a miserable bum.

This is the ultimate blackpill: if your teenage years are miserable, you risk developing learned helplessness and then it's likely over for you. You'll become the stereotypical loser character in novels. The only thing I managed to do is stay clear of alcohol, but the temptation to go "full bum" is sometimes hard to resist.

If true, why not go to SEA and fuck whores all day long?

Rich incels could fuck teen asian pussy DAILY.
 
Learned helplessness is a result of serious, repeated, inescapable trauma in youth.

I have a theory concerning that, which is the human mind has a limit to stresses it can withstand without losing function. Even if you recover, it´s like you deplete a reserve that cannot be regenerated in an environment full of stressors such as the western world. Ideally, having become crypto millionaire, you should be able to create a protected niche where you will slowly recover. However, the recovery won´t be total. I´m not here to tell you lies.

I have become apathetic as result of humiliation inflicted by women but I exploited the blackpill anger to avoid falling in helplessness. Probably I was lucky, but I believe you could use blackpill anger to fight back.
 
It's actually true, I'm not LARPing... Any retard can make money in crypto. I probably won't manage to convince you though.
You can convince me by buying me dragon ball fighter z or blazblue crosstag battle on steam.
 
You are a millionaire? Reading that triggered me tbh
 
It's actually true, I'm not LARPing... Any retard can make money in crypto. I probably won't manage to convince you though.
I have no doubt that you are- I doubt the cryptomeme.
Also, being a "millionaire" is basically volcellism.
 
If true, why not go to SEA and fuck whores all day long?

Rich incels could fuck teen asian pussy DAILY.
1) I dislike everything about prostitution. You don't get validation, it's financially ruinous over time, you're sticking your penis in something that has already seen thousands, you risk STDs like AIDS, prostitutes are usually ugly (behind their makeup) and I'm not interested in pure sex.

2) One of the perks that come with learned helplessness is guilt. I feel like I don't deserve the money I earned and therefore don't deserve spending it. It's also linked to my fear that the Abrahamic God is real. Financial speculation and money are badly seen by the Bible. If you use the proceeds of financial speculation to commit fornication, then you'll surely burn in Hell for all eternity. Sometimes I wish I could become an oblivious atheist again. Pascal's Wager destroyed me.
 
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For instance, I have become a millionaire recently due to crypto trading
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Yes. From playing WoW and realizing that in the real world your hard work input does not equal the output.
 
Honestly after a certain age.i stopped giving a fuck. Helplessness just means that foids have won. Fuck foids, I'll never let them win. When saint Elliot dreamed of a peaceful world where incels are no longer deprived of sex, that gave me purpose.

Sexbots are the best escape. Fuck waiting, fuck larping, fuck self pity. It's time for incels to change the world.
 
You have gone into deep LDAR mode my friend. It's truly over for you. You are simply lifeless.
 
What is your solution then in getting past it?
 
1) I dislike everything about prostitution. You don't get validation, it's financially ruinous over time, you're sticking your penis in something that has already seen thousands, you risk STDs like AIDS, prostitutes are usually ugly (behind their makeup) and I'm not interested in pure sex.

2) One of the perks that come with learned helplessness is guilt. I feel like I don't deserve the money I earned and therefore don't deserve spending it. It's also linked to my fear that the Abrahamic God is real. Financial speculation and money are badly seen by the Bible. If you use the proceeds of financial speculation to commit fornication, then you'll surely burn in Hell for all eternity. Sometimes I wish I could become an oblivious atheist again. Pascal's Wager destroyed me.

not really how it works.

you find a college student and give her a monthly allowance. in return she is your GF who fucks you often.
 
not really how it works.

you find a college student and give her a monthly allowance. in return she is your GF who fucks you often.
Lol at suggesting he becomes a beta cuck for a uni roastie
 
not really how it works.

you find a college student and give her a monthly allowance. in return she is your GF who fucks you often.
Delusions. Very few women are into sugaring, usually not the prettiest. Why destroy your reputation with the hot males of your age group by whoring. I'm also sure that there is government financial help for poor college girls in most countries.
 
Delusions. Very few women are into sugaring, usually not the prettiest. Why destroy your reputation with the hot males of your age group by whoring. I'm also sure that there is government financial help for poor college girls in most countries.
Roasties whoring in college is an epidemic. Don't be fooled by the pleasantries. Many women, especially Asian women, are whoring themselves out.
 
Roasties whoring in college is an epidemic. Don't be fooled by the pleasantries. Many women, especially Asian women, are whoring themselves out.
And how do you know? I'd be wary of media reports on this. Probably very isolated cases blown out of proportion.
 
And how do you know? I'd be wary of media reports on this. Probably very isolated cases blown out of proportion.
I've witnessed it first-hand. I have two very reliable sources. I go to my local golf club with a lot of affluent men. They tell me all the nasty shit including showing pictures. I knew many of the girls they were talking about from high schools.

My second source is the clinic I used to go to while in college. I seen a few girls from class who also happened to have Backpage profiles, and they were all lined up to get blood work bro. You're only getting blood work done for one reason when you're a hot 20-something foid. Trust me, foids selling pussy is an epidemic.
 
Why destroy your reputation with the hot males of your age group by whoring. I'm also sure that there is government financial help for poor college girls in most countries.

this is completely wrong
 
this is completely wrong
Put yourself in a girl's shoes. If your peers learn that you whore out with creepy foreign men, it's over.
Then what do you suggest to at least help alleviate it?
Physical exercise, drugs

Trying to maintain some semblance of order in your life through habits and routines (use an accountability phone app for this)
 
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It's actually true, I'm not LARPing... Any retard can make money in crypto. I probably won't manage to convince you though.
Kinda ironic that on a post about learned helplessness and locus of control you are under the delusion that trades can be predicted and you can always win, rather than you were just lucky in whichever direction you traded. Trading is a zero sum game and most traders lose money. (this is usually said about Forex trading but there is little reason to think it works differently in other markets). And yeah I was triggered by your announcement that you are a millionaire too kek.
 
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Money can maintain a relationship in which you get sex for sure. Can you help me with my crypto-currency because I'm clueless its called WaterDolar
 
Put yourself in a girl's shoes. If your peers learn that you whore out with creepy foreign men, it's over.

"girls don't fuck for money bro"

"girls care about reputation bro"

*goes on slut walk*
*all men are trash*
 
Kinda ironic that on a post about learned helplessness and locus of control you are under the delusion that trades can be predicted and you can always win, rather than you were just lucky in whichever direction you traded. Trading is a zero sum game and most traders lose money. (this is usually said about Forex trading but there is little reason to think it works differently in other markets). And yeah I was triggered by your announcement that you are a millionaire too kek.
If you operate on the basis that cryptocurrency will continue to grow long term, a very simple strategy is to buy after a major crash (-30% and more), wait a few months, and sell when you see elements of weakness (triple top, head and shoulders). Rinse and repeat. It merely asks discipline and a lot of patience. Impatience is what kills the 99% of traders who lose.
 
It's actually true, I'm not LARPing... Any retard can make money in crypto. I probably won't manage to convince you though.
Teach me my boyo please i need to leave this work :(
 
If you operate on the basis that cryptocurrency will continue to grow long term, a very simple strategy is to buy after a major crash (-30% and more), wait a few months, and sell when you see elements of weakness (triple top, head and shoulders). Rinse and repeat. It merely asks discipline and a lot of patience. Impatience is what kills the 99% of traders who lose.
It's not so much impatience as nerves that would get me. A crash could also be permanent if, say, a major flaw was found in the algorithm or if some way better new coin became the new hype or something. Black Swans can also always happen.
 
Teach me my boyo please i need to leave this work :(
See my post above. Buy after major crashes, sell when you see weakness in the charts (triple failure to overcome a certain level - aka triple top -, head and shoulders). Ofc, steer clear of altcoins, trade only coins with volume and prospects (five biggest markets). Trade as rarely as you can, always for a good reason. Never revenge trade or trade to make a quick buck. It'll take at least three years to make enough dough to quit your job.
 
See my post above. Buy after major crashes, sell when you see weakness in the charts (triple failure to overcome a certain level - aka triple top -, head and shoulders). Ofc, steer clear of altcoins, trade only coins with volume and prospects (five biggest markets). Trade as rarely as you can, always for a good reason. Never revenge trade or trade to make a quick buck. It'll take at least three years to make enough dough to quit your job.
I see, but would you recommend me a web for learn about wallet security and all the shits around the cryptotrade. Ty
 
It's not so much impatience as nerves that would get me. A crash could also be permanent if, say, a major flaw was found in the algorithm or if some way better new coin became the new hype or something. Black Swans can also always happen.
A permanent crash in BTC or ETH is exceedingly unlikely at this stage due to the network effects
 
A permanent crash in BTC or ETH is exceedingly unlikely at this stage due to the network effects
Nobody can be 100% sure about anything. I myself lost money on the stock exchange. I caught the proverbial falling knife hoping it would be a buy opportunity. I lost money buying too high after following trends too. I'm always unlucky, JFL @ my life.
 
Put yourself in a girl's shoes. If your peers learn that you whore out with creepy foreign men, it's over.
A lot of women hide these men as mentors or family friends. Just trust me on this.
 
I have become apathetic as result of humiliation inflicted by women but I exploited the blackpill anger to avoid falling in helplessness. Probably I was lucky, but I believe you could use blackpill anger to fight back.

This right here. The anger is an adaptation. It feels better to raise your head and pump your fist in anger than to hang your head in shame.
 
Nobody can be 100% sure about anything. I myself lost money on the stock exchange. I caught the proverbial falling knife hoping it would be a buy opportunity. I lost money buying too high after following trends too. I'm always unlucky, JFL @ my life.
Never follow the trend, this is for absolute suckers. Nothing has changed since Jp Morgan said to buy when there's blood in the streets. Still the best strategy. You need to buy when everybody is demoralized. Of course for this to work, the intrinsic product must be good. Crypto is intrinsically good. Penny stocks, rarely, hence the treacherous dead cat bounces. The stock market is way more dangerous than the crypto market.
 
Never follow the trend, this is for absolute suckers. Nothing has changed since Jp Morgan said to buy when there's blood in the streets. Still the best strategy. You need to buy when everybody is demoralized. Of course for this to work, the intrinsic product must be good. Crypto is intrinsically good. Penny stocks, rarely, hence the treacherous dead cat bounces. The stock market is way more dangerous than the crypto market.
idk it's still gambling. If I ever buy BTC after a crash THAT will be the day it crashes forever because of my legendary bad luck.
 
idk it's still gambling. If I ever buy BTC after a crash THAT will be the day it crashes forever because of my legendary bad luck.
Yeah there's a small chance. But crypto trading beats the probabilities at the casino or the lottery by a big margin.
 
Yeah there's a small chance. But it beats the probabilities at the casino or the lottery by a big margin.
BTW, it's been a bit flat since the last crash in Feb:
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There's a triple bottom incoming (in two weeks or less), if we don't go under, then it's a buy signal. Otherwise just wait for an even deeper crash.
Then again, risking $1000 to buy at $7000 and cross my fingers that it'll ever go back up to $20,000 won't turn this into millions either, even if lucky. Seems like you really need a lot of compounding lucky trades before that $1000 makes millions. Be honest, you made your millions mostly from being lucky to buy BTCs sometime in 2013 or so and held it till it exploded, isn't it?
 
Then again, risking $1000 to buy at $7000 and cross my fingers that it'll ever go back up to $20,000 won't turn this into millions either, even if lucky. Seems like you really need a lot of compounding lucky trades before that $1000 makes millions. Be honest, you made your millions mostly from being lucky to buy BTCs sometime in 2013 or so and held it till it exploded, isn't it?
I came on the market in 2016 actually, with $4000 invested. So I did ride a lot of the recent immense upward movement. Now it's not too late, but yeah it will take either more time or more starting capital than $1000.
 
I came on the market in 2016 actually, with $4000 invested. So I did ride a lot of the recent immense upward movement. Now it's not too late, but yeah it will take either more time or more starting capital than $1000.
Then it's over for me kek, well I do have more but I don't want to risk losing even that.
 
Then it's over for me kek, well I do have more but I don't want to risk losing even that.
I'm not encouraging people to trade crypto tbh, not worth the hassle and stress in most cases. I'm still incel so...(admittedly out of mental illness and guilt, but that proves the point).
 
I'm not encouraging people to trade crypto tbh, not worth the hassle and stress in most cases. I'm still incel so...(admittedly out of mental illness and guilt, but that proves the point).
You could just slay in the Philippines now.
 
Crypto has been in a bear market for a while, so how did you get to millions recently? Sorry if it sounds fishy, grats if you really did pull it off.
 

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