Blackpill How many here have actually tried approaching IRL?

[Redpill Robert]

Call me bluepilled, but tinder/POF/etc are not real life and I've known plenty of guys who are fairly good-looking and fairly successful with women who don't get shit from online dating. Maybe in the early days online dating had merit, but these days when the online market is oversaturated with desperate men willing to fuck anything, it creates overly entitled uggos and landwhales who won't even respond to anything below 8/10; online dating these days is seemingly much more work for a much smaller return; i.e. many more approaches for much uglier girls.

Just think of how many average looking or below normies you may know who date hot girls. Guys who likely wouldn't even get a single bite on POF. Most of them met IRL

 

[DoNotWant]

I tried it IRL a few times. It's way too nerve-wracking for me, watching them stare while I try to explain myself, and hearing their deadpan response is just crushing.

 

[Six]

Yes. I have.

 

[IronMike]

I have asked out girls in middle and high school, and asked out a coworker in college, all were disasters.

 

[SOCIALSUICIDE]

my irl story

I once had a faze not so long ago in uni where I decided to act like a HUGE autismo creep coping with the fact that if i acted all retarded they would reject me anyway that would not affect me because it was ironic. i still dont regret seeing their faces of disgust while I had my act on. that day was the day i decided to commit socialsuicide.

 

[Zaetheus]

How many times as this been posted for Christ sake?

 

[Deleted member 301]

Cold approach is autistic and 99.999999999999999% doomed to end in humiliation. I can maybe understand someone doing it if they were with a friend maybe, and at random (if a female caught your eye on way to somewhere etc..) and not just setting out on a mission to approach i.e @uninstall. If you approach on your own as a male you instantly look like a loser/creepy loner which will just end in abject failure.

 

[Robtical]

I've tried it before. Not all of them ended badly, but the many times they did made me not want to continue doing it unless I'm drunk or have a wingman.

 

[jet112]

never approached a girl but i sent a "love letter" to someone when i was 20, the reply i got was this:

"this is really sweet, but i don't really know you"

make of that what you will

 

[FrothySolutions]

Yes, and it's been my experience that random people on the street, no matter how attractive you are, aren't gonna drop everything and have sex with you. They're busy, they just don't have the time. But that's just my experience. My limited experience as an ugly old man with no personality or much of a life really.

 

[GoonCel]

Call me bluepilled, but tinder/POF/etc are not real life and I've known plenty of guys who are fairly good-looking and fairly successful with women who don't get shit from online dating. Maybe in the early days online dating had merit, but these days when the online market is oversaturated with desperate men willing to fuck anything, it creates overly entitled uggos and landwhales who won't even respond to anything below 8/10; online dating these days is seemingly much more work for a much smaller return; i.e. many more approaches for much uglier girls.

Just think of how many average looking or below normies you may know who date hot girls. Guys who likely wouldn't even get a single bite on POF. Most of them met IRL

i tried plenty of times one time it almost worked out but then i got crushed again and since then im not attempting anymore

 

[Reprobus]

I have it is sui fuel and really tells you how unappealing and ugly you are to these worthless creatures we call women

 

[Deleted member 12355]

never have, no. No point when you can see their utter repulsion as soon as they look at me

 

[Deleted member 1042]

Approach a foid you are attracted to who show zero to very subtle, obscure, imagined signs of interest. This either makes her feel validated and amazing, while rejecting you, or it will make her feel disgusted, and she'll reject you regardless. The final scenario is she'll agree to going out with you, which will not guarantee anything in and of itself as you are vulnerable to being ghosted. This is where you lose as a man and get called a coward if you don't approach - if that's the case, then women are nature's coward gender. You are suppose to play the numbers game, to tuck away your feelings and not feel "insecure," but oh wait it's 2018 and the fucking sjws tell me it's ok to feel bad and that all this tough love stuff is toxic masculinity! I fucking hate feminism so much. To any young blood reading this forum (gen Z), do not fall for any of the women empowerment memes. I have mostly seen only ugly to low tier males fall for this shit, they are just the other side of the coin to incels, which is why they hate incels so much. All the goodlooking guys are either indifferent and clueless or misogynistic as fuck.

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

I tried 2 or 3 times but when when you're a fumbling autist that cant even make small talk with a cashier the suffering is real and genuine. Like Watamote IRL but disgusting incel not cute smelly girl

 

[Spite]

Approaching is not a thing.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

I've done multiple warm approaches in real life. All of them were god-tier cringe (even with low inhib) and rejection. And btw this was polled a few times, almost half this forum has never made a single approach. https://incels.is/threads/how-many-approaches-have-you-made.47398/

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

I'm gonna try going to a club alone again or with one of my good looking cousins in a few months once I'm buffer. Done lots of cold approach but it requires massive numbers of approaches to get any positive outcomes if you're uglier. My cousin gets 1/3 # close from girls for example because he's 6+/10, white looking, and buff. In that case it's worth it.

 

[Redpill Robert]

How many times as this been posted for Christ sake?View attachment 49092

I've not seen it. And fuck Eminem.

 

[Life Wasted]

Way too high inhib to be approaching. With my appearance I will come across as a creep.

I dont buy the whole "tinder is not real life" because tinder and dating apps are a good reflection of what to expect. In fact it's one of the only ways gauge where you stand on the sexual market. I tried my luck on there and got nothing but the absolute dregs (single moms, landwhales, trannies, bots etc). After that I realized there is no point in trying real life approaches since I'll likely fail there too.

 

[Zaetheus]

I've not seen it. And fuck Eminem.

You’ve been here for a min , you should notice that the same threads are being recycled over and over.I’ve seen this posted a few times. I don’t care for Eminem either but this gif is excatly how I feel when I see the same shit every time .

 

[TheSlippwrySeal]

It's over for approachcels

 

[NormieKiller]

Cold approach is autistic and 99.999999999999999% doomed to end in humiliation. I can maybe understand someone doing it if they were with a friend maybe, and at random (if a female caught your eye on way to somewhere etc..) and not just setting out on a mission to approach i.e @uninstall. If you approach on your own as a male you instantly look like a loser/creepy loner which will just end in abject failure.

If you are an ugly nigga then yeah cold-approaching is doomed

 

[bakadesu]

“Tinder is not real life“. What about uninstall?

 

[Masterkief9]

Honesty I’ve tried only a handful of times because each time has been a brutal blow to my confidence. I can only take so man looks of disgust before I never want to see another person again

 

[itsmemario]

Regularly

 

[Deleted member 1227]

i have cold approached 123 females. I have no motivation to do that ever again. I have been traumatized permanently from those rejections

 

[IsolationHurts]

i have cold approached 123 females. I have no motivation to do that ever again. I have been traumatized permanently from those rejections

Same. Tried to date +100 foids, most of them 2-4/10´s, and allways got rejected, and now i will never know how self steem feels like.

You’ve been here for a min , you should notice that the same threads are being recycled over and over.

What do you think is this forum about?

 

[Zaetheus]

Same. Tried to date +100 foids, most of them 2-4/10´s, and allways got rejected, and now i will never know how self steem feels like.


What do you think is this forum about?

Don’t repeat threads word for word

 

[LilFatty]

Manlets dont need to approach anyone to know that they have been rejected.

 

[Lord Byron]

When I was about twenty and at UNI for the first time, I picked some random 6/10 shy anime liking chick and just decided she was going to be my girlfriend. Cold approached, did all the normal things. It kind of helps that back then I wasn’t such a weirdo.

It worked. We dated for about six months. There was almost no physical contact, a bit of hand holding. It’s like she wanted all the benefits of a boyfriend, but didn’t find me attractive. It came to my attention that I was putting a lot more effort into the relationship than she was. I need affection. I’m a dog person. I wither and die without it.

She was going on holiday to another state with her parents for two weeks. Before she left I begged her to send me a postcard. Call me while she was away. To do anything to show she missed me.

She didn’t, so I dumped her when she got back. She seeemed confused as to why. Then she never spoke to me again.

That was the only girlfriend I ever had. Defined by a woman who was willing to identify as my girlfriend.

 

[ShadowMonk]

Yes. I always get rejected when I approach.

 

[Hozo]

Call me bluepilled, but tinder/POF/etc are not real life and I've known plenty of guys who are fairly good-looking and fairly successful with women who don't get shit from online dating. Maybe in the early days online dating had merit, but these days when the online market is oversaturated with desperate men willing to fuck anything, it creates overly entitled uggos and landwhales who won't even respond to anything below 8/10; online dating these days is seemingly much more work for a much smaller return; i.e. many more approaches for much uglier girls.

Just think of how many average looking or below normies you may know who date hot girls. Guys who likely wouldn't even get a single bite on POF. Most of them met IRL

i said something just like this? doing stuff online bad its when girls are at there pickyest in a ways judging all your pictures

 

[averageblokecel]

For all I know, I have approached in different manners and ocassion between 25 and 30 women, will probably be more as I am looksmaxing in the hopes of getting puss

 

[Hozo]

Same. Tried to date +100 foids, most of them 2-4/10´s, and allways got rejected, and now i will never know how self steem feels like.


What do you think is this forum about?

try your luck
try 100 more move to another country in the us and

 

[Angus13]

yeah plenty in my younger years, got lots of rejections over and over again...

 

[IsolationHurts]

try your luck
try 100 more move to another country in the us and

What?
Anyway, im poor, i cant move. The moment i leave my parents house i become a homeless person.

 

[autism kills]

I've gotten BTFO by girls multiple times way before social media, I'd get absolutely obliterated today. There's no point in putting myself through that abuse again until I'm looksmaxxed. Chad doesn't have approach anxiety, because girls always made it easy for him. Approach anxiety is an incel trait.

 

[rudolfhess]

Never have. Never will

 

[Villain]

I've gotten BTFO by girls multiple times way before social media, I'd get absolutely obliterated today. There's no point in putting myself through that abuse again until I'm looksmaxxed. Chad doesn't have approach anxiety, because girls always made it easy for him. Approach anxiety is an incel trait.

if we did that , its either jail or another reddit posts about creepy men hehehe good life

 

[Bronzehawkattack]

I have around 7 approaches IRL and got not a single date, and that was just me asking out foids I was acquainted with and whom I thought I had the best chances with, cold appraoching would be just as dismal.

 

[TheOnlyWei]

I ha e tried talking to a plenty of women. They either not interested, friend zone me or think I am gay.

 

[Autizmooos]

i can't talk to foids irl

 

[NocturnalDecay]

I approached one time. We went on a date and then when I tried to kiss her in the afternoon after a movie I was rejected. Never again.

 

[Deleted member 301]

I approached one time. We went on a date and then when I tried to kiss her in the afternoon after a movie I was rejected. Never again.

 

[Chileancel]

If you have to approach, it's over.

 

[Haircutbro]

I have had more sucessful approaches or being approached than i have tinder matches
I have fucking 3 tinder matches, and i have my account for at least half a year now
Im not even that ugly but there are thousands of guys that look better than me
Either way
Approaching in reallife is the way to go
I dont understand why all of you go through that hell that is online dating

Let me give you a tip on how to approach ( im a mentalcel, but trust me this shit works for sure )
First off, you have to relax, you have to see the woman like you do when you are at home and watch porn
You need to have that perverted, sexual vibe in you, that lust
Now if you are somewhere, where lot of girls are, just pick one, that you think is cute
Now you have to look at her ( good eyes are a huge plus for this )
And just play that little game
You look at her, she sees you looking at her, and will look at you, of course she will look away
But she recognized you, then what you have to do is, she will look back to you in about 2-4 seconds ( anything over 6 seconds, its probably over, abort mission then and search for other girl )
Then you lock eyes again, and then you look away
If you pull this smoothly, there is a high chance, that you have her
Look back, and she will smile at you, if she doesnt, keep looking as sexual as you can for 2 seconds, and give her a smile, and look away
Look back one more time, if she is still looking at you, then you can see what will happen or what she wants
If she looks inviting go up to her, or signal to her, that you want her to come
This is the natural way of picking up girls, i mean, the journey starts there honestly, because the next thing is the talk
Which is a subject for itself, but trust me, try this, and you will get better
And you dont have to be scared or nervous, because you dont have to do shit, you are just looking
You can be free with that and relaxed
Try it, and you will get results

IF you dont do this, you will never have a girl approach you like never
My approach rate for not doing anything with my eyes is 1 in 300
While doing my looking technique its 1 in 2
And the huge plus is, that i dont even have to walk to her, because she will come to me
Just try it, there is nothing to loose

 

[Mainländer]

500+ unsuccessful approaches.

 

[Moustachcel]

too high inhib

 

[CopeIsCope]

If you have to approach, it's over.

Seriously this. If foids do not approach you the best thing you will ever be is Betabuxx