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How do you LDAR without video games and movies/tv?

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So, I've been technically LDARing for a long time. I still have to work to pay for food and bills, but when I'm not working I'm 100% LDARing, and have been doing it for a very long time.

Naturally, I got tired of video games and tv. I've continued to do these things even though I was beyond tired of them, but now I literally can't play video games or watch TV any more, it's just too boring.

So, what can I do? Anything that happens outside is absolutely boring to me and honestly I don't care about running/walking or whatever happens outside the house.

I have no interests or motivation, so what the hell should I do to alleviate the boredom of doing literally nothing?
 
Chinese web novels
 
Everyone is different. Whenever i get tired of video games and videos/movies i go outside in the forest and spend time there for 1-3 hours. I know it sounds boring for some people but... Since i want to live there i feel like it's the most natural thing to do. I've never seen any stacys in the woods... Maybe once. 8 out of 10 times i'm completely alone in the woods and i live in a small town of 11k pop. People are way too materialistic to tend to their natural habitat as a northern european. It's sad really.
 
So, I've been technically LDARing for a long time. I still have to work to pay for food and bills, but when I'm not working I'm 100% LDARing, and have been doing it for a very long time.

Naturally, I got tired of video games and tv. I've continued to do these things even though I was beyond tired of them, but now I literally can't play video games or watch TV any more, it's just too boring.

So, what can I do? Anything that happens outside is absolutely boring to me and honestly I don't care about running/walking or whatever happens outside the house.

I have no interests or motivation, so what the hell should I do to alleviate the boredom of doing literally nothing?

Gymcell
 
I had that bookmarked for a while. After you read some of the most popular ones, you're basically done.
I guess that's a thing to do. I just don't have the proper personality and mindset to do that. I just.. don't care. 100% of the people that go the gym do it to increase their sexual value. I really don't care about that at this point.
stat doing drugs
Yeah I've had this recommended to me a few times. I can't do it for a number of reasons, money and living with my parents (at 25 freaking years old) being the main reasons.
 
So, what can I do? Anything that happens outside is absolutely boring to me and honestly I don't care about running/walking or whatever happens outside the house.

I have no interests or motivation, so what the hell should I do to alleviate the boredom of doing literally nothing?

I can 100% relate to this except I also have insane anxiety when it comes to everything - leaving the house, talking to people and even playing video games is too stressfull/anxiety inducing at this point. On top of that I feel an insane amount of guilt for LDAR every day.

Having started therapy a few weeks ago I can't say anything has changed. Should things get better I'll post about it on here (still hoping things get good enough for me to get banned on here tbh).
 
Audiobooks. Eating. Documentaries. Gymcelling is good for mental health as well.

Books are to tiresome, I guess?
 
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Whe you get bored about everything is time to think about rope.
 
I can 100% relate to this except I also have insane anxiety when it comes to everything - leaving the house, talking to people and even playing video games is too stressfull/anxiety inducing at this point. On top of that I feel an insane amount of guilt for LDAR every day.

Having started therapy a few weeks ago I can't say anything has changed. Should things get better I'll post about it on here (still hoping things get good enough for me to get banned on here tbh).
I also have anxiety except it's really weird.

I'm anxious when thinking about things, almost everything. Other people, being seen doing things, the way I walk or breathe or look or something.

But then there's this other side of me that's super intense, like I'm gonna murder anybody that looks at me funny. These two sides of me are battling inside my head. But at the end of the day I'm always pretty nice but aloof. Except when I was drinking. Then the dark side of me took over.
 
Competition is my favorite cope, try it. Also trying new food.
 
Ain't that a thread for me...
Try reading- the written word is effectively endless and free. Read philosophy, sci-fi, urban fantasy, gook light novels, fanfiction (as mentioned), economics theory, science and technology, thematic newspapers, popsci, hard sci-fi, the development of the minimal SUSY standard model, fucking stealth coating engineering manuals- whatever you can think of.
It's reached the point where I want to LDAR my worthless life away reading and learning for the sake of it.
 
Ain't that a thread for me...
Try reading- the written word is effectively endless and free. Read philosophy, sci-fi, urban fantasy, gook light novels, fanfiction (as mentioned), economics theory, science and technology, thematic newspapers, popsci, hard sci-fi, the development of the minimal SUSY standard model, fucking stealth coating engineering manuals- whatever you can think of.
It's reached the point where I want to LDAR my worthless life away reading and learning for the sake of it.
Yeah, this is probably the only thing that I can actually do. Just read. I can't actually imagine anything else that I will do and not be very uncomfortable or bored with.
 
DRUGS. QUIT MAKING FUCKING EXCUSES. GET HIGH ON DRUGZ.
 
Organizing random shit in your house. That's what I do. Take and upper and do that and you'll have a great time
 
Get a dog. Seriously. If you have the means in any way get one.
Alternatively, read.

BTW, TV can still be useful to you. If it actually bores you, I recommend using it as a sleep aid.
 
I've found a new cope if you want to know, it's Korean drama.
 
I've found a new cope if you want to know, it's Korean drama.
Just watched a trailer. Wow, all these Korean women have plastic surgery. The gooks are loaded.
 
So, I've been technically LDARing for a long time. I still have to work to pay for food and bills, but when I'm not working I'm 100% LDARing, and have been doing it for a very long time.

Naturally, I got tired of video games and tv. I've continued to do these things even though I was beyond tired of them, but now I literally can't play video games or watch TV any more, it's just too boring.

So, what can I do? Anything that happens outside is absolutely boring to me and honestly I don't care about running/walking or whatever happens outside the house.

I have no interests or motivation, so what the hell should I do to alleviate the boredom of doing literally nothing?

I started really LDAR when I got into bitcoin and crypto. See my 1200$ in one day thread.

I can go months without even leaving the house and stop even caring about foids.

I even stopped video games to play crypto market shit
 
get into fine cigar's and whiskey
grow some vegetables
learn how to play guitar
learn a new language
learn graphic design and video editing
go on long drives/walks with the best music you have
go on a gambling tour in a third world country like mexico or ukraine (buy a gram of cocaine and a finger of hashish!)
swim
learn new recipes, make different meals every week
get a netflix subscription
mountain hikes, picnics and explore da woodz

this is just from the top of my head, and from experience - some of these can really fun
I started really LDAR when I got into bitcoin and crypto. See my 1200$ in one day thread.

I can go months without even leaving the house and stop even caring about foids.

I even stopped video games to play crypto market shit

nigga with that kind of money i would buy a used porche and just blast lo fi hip hop all day smoking blunts
 
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