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PureImagination

PureImagination

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The depression in my heart is consuming me from the inside like mold or cancer. Humans are naturally very social and need a personal circle for inner happiness yet I haven't spoken to a person about private matters in over 3 Months, I don't even get a "hello, how are you" from a relative or something, i'm completely alone with my thoughts and disconnected from Society like a Caveman.

Gaming and gooning can only distract you from reality for some time but once you lay on your bed at 3am and think about the failure you are you remember how pity your life actually is.

I envy normies that have whole friendgroups who they can spent time with and talk to if they need to. I don't understand why i never got to experience that too
 
porn and drugs mostly

and runescape
 
With alcohol. I'm drunk now. I have a 1l beer, I drank 800ml of it. I like being drunk, everything seems better and funnier :feelsokman:
 
Weed, movies, sleep, and cooming are what keep me busy throughout my daily suffering of loneliness.
 
Spend 20-30 minutes sunbathing and do some exercise.
It helps have a calmer mood for the rest of the day
 
i stopped coping a long time ago
 
(hard) drugs can help numb or destroy that part of your brain that's responsible for social needs:feelsthink:
 
video games are the only reason I havent roped yet
 
gaming, gooning, smoking weed and harassing women online
 
I went crazy and talked to myself for awhile and after sometime I embraced the silence around me. Sometimes I laugh out of nowhere as a hysterical reflex.

Is Far Cry 5 a good game worth playing?
 
I went crazy and talked to myself for awhile and after sometime I embraced the silence around me. Sometimes I laugh out of nowhere as a hysterical reflex.
I do this as well
 
I do this as well
I think the laughing is an instinctive response to our misery, by subconsciously imitating the mannerisms of joy we deceive ourselves into becoming joyful.
 
Haremmaxx, they can’t reject me if they aren’t real. I get so much anime pussy you have no idea.
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My bikes are all I have.
 
I just drink and play games. I have accepted that I am all there is. Its lonely as fuck but no one is coming to save me.
 
I hate people so I'm not missing out.
 
Some days I just vidya cope from dawn to dusk to keep me from thinking about the BP. I'm a retard though and end up LDARing and coming to more realizations which makes things even more brutal.
 
Distract myself with hobbies, fantasize about 2D maidens, jerk off, and grin through the sadness and despair.
 
I talk to myself. A lot. If its not in my head then its verbal.
 
Watching videos about caving and diving accidents for me. Cartel and factory accidents are morbidly intriguing. I do these whenever the video games and music aren't enough.
 
vidya games, anime, music, just doing shit to forget how much i want to kill myself
 
The depression in my heart is consuming me from the inside like mold or cancer. Humans are naturally very social and need a personal circle for inner happiness yet I haven't spoken to a person about private matters in over 3 Months, I don't even get a "hello, how are you" from a relative or something, i'm completely alone with my thoughts and disconnected from Society like a Caveman.

Gaming and gooning can only distract you from reality for some time but once you lay on your bed at 3am and think about the failure you are you remember how pity your life actually is.

I envy normies that have whole friendgroups who they can spent time with and talk to if they need to. I don't understand why i never got to experience that too
Wanking, video games, gym, and hobbies
 
I think the laughing is an instinctive response to our misery, by subconsciously imitating the mannerisms of joy we deceive ourselves into becoming joyful.
I only do this when imagining funny scenarios in my head. I think this is either the result of autism or extreme boredom.
 
Exercise is a good cope
The fitness ceiling is incredibly high - I'd need to train a few years to hit peak fitness, so I feel like I have a purpose grinding out the hours on my bike everyday. Would recommend
 
porn, alcohol and old TV shows that I watch and re-watch (e.g. Frasier).

I lost interest in gaming. Too much effort.
 
Distractions.

In reality i dont cope i just distract myself with pointless things so i forget my pain for an hour. I try to thing positively and look for ways to get out of inceldom but they never work out. My life is reaching a pretty bad part which is when you graduate and get out of school and lose that pool of young girls to date after that its all roasties. I really dont know what to do anymore and i guess i just accept my fate that my life is work and sleep and videogames till i die. I have also been thinking of suicide sometimes but i just dont want to bring pain to my parents.
 
Don't think about it
 

loneliness doesn't bother me and i cope with workout
 
I just gave up on hope. Expect nothing and deliver less. Apart from that just hedonism things, tasty food, weed, sometimes vidya
 
It's time for writing manifesto
 
Gaming and gooning can only distract you from reality for some time
Idk man, if these are you only copes consider expanding your horizons. I smoke, drink, hike, troll, shit post, watch movies, run, gymmaxx etc.
 
Is Far Cry 5 a good game worth playing?
Yeah one of the best FC games but a bit short with smaller world but that may be a plus since Ass creeds are so bloated. Just don't expect a groundbreaking fps game it was good but not that good just solid fun for like 50h. Don't bother with FC6 it's garbage.
 
Gaming, wanking, eating, watching anime and reading manga/vns is a good cope. I was playing Vampire Survivors yesterday for like 5h it numbed my brain pretty nicely and stopped feeling so much pain. Samurai Warriors 4 DX just came out and played a few rounds it's fun but a bit too brainless.
My copes for the next few weeks:
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Plus Men of War that i want to finally finish since they will be releasing sequel very soon. Maybe i could replay Company of Heroes 1 and 2 too i barely remember anything about those campaigns it's been so long.
 
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With alcohol. I'm drunk now. I have a 1l beer, I drank 800ml of it. I like being drunk, everything seems better and funnier :feelsokman:

Drunk from 800ml of beer?

You better stay away from drinking, kid.
 
Drunk from 800ml of beer?

You better stay away from drinking, kid.
I used to have a low alcohol tolerance. But it increased with time. Now I need more and more. Perhaps 'drunk' wasn't the right term. More like 'buzzed'. A liter of beer on an empty stomach didn't make me properly drunk, but it was definitely better than sober.

I tried a couple of times to get 'proper drunk', but it with ends with having a massive headache the next day, which is totally not worth it.
 
Vampire Survivors
Did you kill the three vampires? Blue, green, and yellow? It's a pretty simple game but I did the saem thing as you, I played for many hours in one session and beat the game.
 
Did you kill the three vampires? Blue, green, and yellow? It's a pretty simple game but I did the saem thing as you, I played for many hours in one session and beat the game.
just started it again yesterday. The new DLC is kinda cool
 

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