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Greycel
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Idk this is one of my first posts and ive just joined recently cause i cant take my other online communities. I've lost my only companion(pet) to my dumbass actions and have no female gf or anything in my life resembling friends or positive feedback. I'm starting to believe this life isn't worth living much anymore. I'm to pussy to commit suicide as of now and I know this but the mental pain is starting to get to me in a way where im starting to shut down, sleep more then 12 hours a day and just try to avoid life etc. How do you guys cope with this shit, its starting to kill me and think crazy and idk how much more i can take before I have a mental breakdown and end up in a ward. This society is punishing me at every chance it gets and it really does feel they don't want me alive, idk anymore what to do I dont believe i can do another 20 to 30 years of this.
 
I dont believe i can do another 20 to 30 years of this.
Neither does anyone else. I rarely see an incel past 50, you either ascend or rope by that point. It's really quite amazing anyone could endure living that long as an incel.
 
Neither does anyone else. I rarely see an incel past 50, you either ascend or rope by that point. It's really quite amazing anyone could endure living that long as an incel.

At that point its a testament to will power man.
 
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I would say, stop thinking about miserableness. Think of the world (or the universe) as something to learn more about, because what else can you do? If you commit suicide, it's a statement that you lost all curiosity and that there was nothing you could do, which is false. What I've been doing is just overlooking my ugliness and shitty personality, and trying to learn about the world we're in, and accepting that you're going to die in the end, and there might even be something after death. (who the fuck knows for sure though) The point is, you were born into the only species we know of that can think in very complex ways and learn new things and skills every day, we even got ourselves out of the food chain. Also, you were born in a time when plastic surgery is very common and accessible, take advantage of that :)
 
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Dream, work, eat shitty food, jerk off, browse internet, etc.

It's not hard to get into a robotic cycle.
 
LDAR or go ER
 
Meh, after my endocrine system crashed from propecia I've not desired women.

I've also been dealing with a lot of health conditions which have sidelined me from the workforce.

My life is great to tbh.

I wake up, internet, sleep. Repeat.

Once you remove the burning desire to mix with women, life becomes a lot like how it was when you were a kid. The joy returns in the absence of testosterone. The roasties have actually got a point when they talk about "toxic masculinity".
 
Exercise, work, hobbies, food etc. Don’t feel bad. Society hates good men.
 
i don't worry about being incel. it's out of my control anyway.

why bother
 
i don't worry about being incel. it's out of my control anyway.

why bother

Its not just about being an incel for me tbh. I got criminal record, lack of human relationships and a bunch of other shit that is making the rope seem tempting but idk I guess i gotta get through it or die no other options.
 
You have killed your pet out of negligence? Not cool, bro. But anyway, welcome.
 
You have killed your pet out of negligence? Not cool, bro. But anyway, welcome.

No its an ongoing case but I got cops called and because i left dog for to long alone i got charged with neglience. I cant say more but yeah I'm not happy with myself either, rope is always there i guess.
 
No its an ongoing case but I got cops called and because i left dog for to long alone i got charged with neglience. I cant say more but yeah I'm not happy with myself either, rope is always there i guess.
Is the dog dead or alive?
 
Its not just about being an incel for me tbh. I got criminal record, lack of human relationships and a bunch of other shit that is making the rope seem tempting but idk I guess i gotta get through it or die no other options.

probably out of your control anyway with genetics

why bother worrying, try and enjoy what you can out of life.
 
to be the prime leader of the Incel Jihad. mark. my. words.
 
Alive but not in my custody, state took it.
Ok, fine. Just don't leave dogs alone again, please.

As to how you can cope, don't sui dude. Lots and lots of good copes available to incels.
 
inceldom due to being subhuman is expected deep inside by everyone, it's a logical reasoning and people should address as a health disadvantage like having moderate debilitating chronic disease.
cut chad legs, and disfigured his face and you will see how his "personanilty" changes
 
I just hold on to a glimmer of hope I have of ascending after surgery. But for the time being, I'm in a state of low energy, brain fog, delayed reactions and low concentration levels. Life just passes me by and I find happiness in food and video games only.
 
A lot of booze, porn, gaming, and weed. Find your cope before you rope
 
Idk this is one of my first posts and ive just joined recently cause i cant take my other online communities. I've lost my only companion(pet) to my dumbass actions and have no female gf or anything in my life resembling friends or positive feedback. I'm starting to believe this life isn't worth living much anymore. I'm to pussy to commit suicide as of now and I know this but the mental pain is starting to get to me in a way where im starting to shut down, sleep more then 12 hours a day and just try to avoid life etc. How do you guys cope with this shit, its starting to kill me and think crazy and idk how much more i can take before I have a mental breakdown and end up in a ward. This society is punishing me at every chance it gets and it really does feel they don't want me alive, idk anymore what to do I dont believe i can do another 20 to 30 years of this.
If I didn't have solid rituals that I go by day after day, I would probably be a hermit inside my place as well. Try exercising in the morning, finding a job so you'll at least be productive. Then using that money to fuck escorts or get some new hobbies
 
It’s because killing yourself takes effort. Most depression leaves you apathetic and lazy with no energy. Not to mention you are directly going against your self preservation drive. Ppl who do kill themselves have the perfect storm of resolve, emotional volatility, environment, equipment, and know-how.
 
The only reason I'm alive right now is because I don't own a gun
 
Idk this is one of my first posts and ive just joined recently cause i cant take my other online communities. I've lost my only companion(pet) to my dumbass actions and have no female gf or anything in my life resembling friends or positive feedback. I'm starting to believe this life isn't worth living much anymore. I'm to pussy to commit suicide as of now and I know this but the mental pain is starting to get to me in a way where im starting to shut down, sleep more then 12 hours a day and just try to avoid life etc. How do you guys cope with this shit, its starting to kill me and think crazy and idk how much more i can take before I have a mental breakdown and end up in a ward. This society is punishing me at every chance it gets and it really does feel they don't want me alive, idk anymore what to do I dont believe i can do another 20 to 30 years of this.

Only chance is probably focusing on something else than social stuff (i.e. having a gf and/or friends) like your career and/or making as much money as possible (which would probably solve the gf problem, not in the true-love kinda way, tho).
 
We continue living because our bodies keep living. One day most of us will take an ambulance to the emergency room after a heart attack or stroke. Then we will suffer through surgery. Then if we make a full recovery, we'll keep living in misery until the next one eventually kills us.

This is the ultimate suic/ER fuel, the realization that we're likely going to suffer horribly and then die. Yet it's not enough fuel for most of us, as our minds try to eliminate that realization, telling us that there's still hope.
 
We continue living because our bodies keep living. One day most of us will take an ambulance to the emergency room after a heart attack or stroke. Then we will suffer through surgery. Then if we make a full recovery, we'll keep living in misery until the next one eventually kills us.

This is the ultimate suic/ER fuel, the realization that we're likely going to suffer horribly and then die. Yet it's not enough fuel for most of us, as our minds try to eliminate that realization, telling us that there's still hope.

Could also be the ultimate life-fuel, tho:

If you're going to die anyway, why care what people think of you/do to you right now?

If you approach a girl and she slaps you: Who cares, you'll die anyway.

If her Chad bf or some white knight kicks your ass for it: Who cares, you'll die anyway.

If she points and laughs at you with all her friends: Who cares, you'll die anyway and so will they. :kys:

Unless you actually ER, all of the above will not get you into the history books, so the next generation will never know that these things happened.
 
Idk this is one of my first posts and ive just joined recently cause i cant take my other online communities. I've lost my only companion(pet) to my dumbass actions and have no female gf or anything in my life resembling friends or positive feedback. I'm starting to believe this life isn't worth living much anymore. I'm to pussy to commit suicide as of now and I know this but the mental pain is starting to get to me in a way where im starting to shut down, sleep more then 12 hours a day and just try to avoid life etc. How do you guys cope with this shit, its starting to kill me and think crazy and idk how much more i can take before I have a mental breakdown and end up in a ward. This society is punishing me at every chance it gets and it really does feel they don't want me alive, idk anymore what to do I dont believe i can do another 20 to 30 years of this.


Find a job.
Try to save.

Wait a few decades.
Go online and try hard to get a used up single mom roastie.

Get BetaBuxxed.

But hey, you won't be ''lonely'' right?
Meh, after my endocrine system crashed from propecia I've not desired women.

I've also been dealing with a lot of health conditions which have sidelined me from the workforce.

My life is great to tbh.

I wake up, internet, sleep. Repeat.

Once you remove the burning desire to mix with women, life becomes a lot like how it was when you were a kid. The joy returns in the absence of testosterone. The roasties have actually got a point when they talk about "toxic masculinity".


I'm trying hard to reach back the ''kid'' state where I don't feel the sexual envy or need to be with a foid.

That's the main problem after all. I have man friends and I'm happy with them.
The seeking of women's validation is man's journey into a cycle of hell.
 
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"I'm to pussy to commit suicide as of now" This.
 
Idk this is one of my first posts and ive just joined recently cause i cant take my other online communities. I've lost my only companion(pet) to my dumbass actions and have no female gf or anything in my life resembling friends or positive feedback. I'm starting to believe this life isn't worth living much anymore. I'm to pussy to commit suicide as of now and I know this but the mental pain is starting to get to me in a way where im starting to shut down, sleep more then 12 hours a day and just try to avoid life etc. How do you guys cope with this shit, its starting to kill me and think crazy and idk how much more i can take before I have a mental breakdown and end up in a ward. This society is punishing me at every chance it gets and it really does feel they don't want me alive, idk anymore what to do I dont believe i can do another 20 to 30 years of this.

"ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY".
 
Neither does anyone else. I rarely see an incel past 50, you either ascend or rope by that point. It's really quite amazing anyone could endure living that long as an incel.
I'm 55, NEVER had sex. I use high end Realistic Black dolls to cope. I get to lay in bed with"Pamela Grier" every night.
 
Thank G-d for the dolls.
 
Its not just about being an incel for me tbh. I got criminal record, lack of human relationships and a bunch of other shit that is making the rope seem tempting but idk I guess i gotta get through it or die no other options.

Seems you really hit rock bottom with the pet and all. How are your living conditions?
 
Seems you really hit rock bottom with the pet and all. How are your living conditions?


They r good at least living wise but everything else kind of puts hamper on that.
 
I’m a coward
How courageous would swallowing cyanide and drinking an entire bottle of liquor, passing out and dying blissfuly be?
Yeah, suicide is the weakest most cowardly act, you just chicken out of this terrible life, granted, tossing yourself in a pool of acid or self-immolation takes balls but that's about it.
 
I've always believed that living out my full life and finding some measure of happiness in it would be the greatest victory I could muster and I still believe that. Unless something terrible happens from my next surgeries, I am confident I will accomplish this.

Only advice I could give would be try to find one thing you enjoy to do every day. Go for a bike, etc.

Also you can try St. John's Wort. Has worked for me when I've been super depressed and it's a pretty proven therapy for depression. No prescription needed.
 
Neither does anyone else. I rarely see an incel past 50, you either ascend or rope by that point. It's really quite amazing anyone could endure living that long as an incel.
@Grotesque
 
Christianity keeps me going. Other than that, nothing.
 
There is at least one girl in Japan waiting to meet me. She just doesn't know it yet. And neither do I.
 

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