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I was told by my bluepilled parents that love will hit me hard, yet it never happened. I never felt any kind of affection towards another person, nor can say i wanted to. Never had oneities or whatever, just wish i was able to fuck women, but majority of people were viewed as utterly useless by me. At this point, whole "love" thing sounds like something which lies entirely beyond my perception and how normies are supposed to feel it still remains a little mystery to me. Maybe they are just too much deluded to see world how it is and keep lying to themselves, or is there really something :feelstrash:
 
I don’t know man. I have always has the “oneitis” thing but the girls never want me. I always get infatuated with a girl in particular. Then I daydream about us together, even imagine myself in conversations with them to the point where I don’t really know what’s real and what’s not. But that’s not “love”. It has to be a two way street. And even “love” has an expiration date (generally less than a year)
 
why do you live with parents
 
Allow urself to be vulnerable with people, IE open up about your feelings, intentions etc. That is how u form male friendships, combined with doing activities.

With females, never be vulnerable lol
 
I connected with people but It always wonders me how easily I can get rid of and forget them just by avoiding any contact.
 
Couldn't tell ya
 
I don’t know man. I have always has the “oneitis” thing but the girls never want me. I always get infatuated with a girl in particular. Then I daydream about us together, even imagine myself in conversations with them to the point where I don’t really know what’s real and what’s not. But that’s not “love”. It has to be a two way street. And even “love” has an expiration date (generally less than a year)
Having oneitis is beyond cucked.
WTF
 
why do you live with parents
Why wouldn't you? You should punish them for producing inferior off-spring, it's their fault in the first place.
 
Having oneitis is beyond cucked.
WTF

In reality I know that they do not feel the way I imagine them to be. My mind is a separate thing from reality. When I close my eyes I’m in another world. When I open them everything is black and white
 
In reality I know that they do not feel the way I imagine them to be. My mind is a separate thing from reality. When I close my eyes I’m in another world. When I open them everything is black and white
Whatever makes you sleep, friend.
 
Whatever makes you sleep, friend.

You wouldn’t want a girl who genuinely loves you for you? Everyone wants it but it’s just not reality. At least I have my dreams
 
"Love" is a joke, something that should only be used in mythological poems and chants, in disguised allegories; not going into details about "diagnostics," people want it, and that alone matters; because, after all, everything is mimicry, arrangements, whatever
 
I don't lol, also welcome back
 
Then I daydream about us together, even imagine myself in conversations with them to the point where I don’t really know what’s real and what’s not.
I have my own special to imagine situations like that/daydream. Never imaginining like so with random whores i see around, i only want to fuck them
 
You wouldn’t want a girl who genuinely loves you for you? Everyone wants it but it’s just not reality. At least I have my dreams
My dreams involve only me and demons.
Last night i played chess with one of them, imagine that.
I don´t seek illusions but these ones are kinda nice.
Demons make great pals in the longrun.
 
Allow urself to be vulnerable with people, IE open up about your feelings, intentions etc. That is how u form male friendships, combined with doing activities.
And the thing is - i would never want to vulnerable, people shouldn't know my weak spots if i have any, they'll always try to use them against me later
 
I have my own special to imagine situations like that/daydream. Never imaginining like so with random whores i see around, i only want to fuck them

Idk for me it’s girls I worked with or went to school with who clearly had no interest in me being a baby face framelet with low testosterone appearance. Probably the low testosterone makes me seek out connections but my shit appearance makes it impossible
 
Idk for me it’s girls I worked with or went to school with who clearly had no interest in me being a baby face framelet with low testosterone appearance. Probably the low testosterone makes me seek out connections but my shit appearance makes it impossible
People perceive you as weak if always try to socialize, or be nice to anyone, same as if you're smiling, time for you to stop being a weakling, tbhngl
 
Forgot how to connection
 
I honestly dont think love exists.
 
Allow urself to be vulnerable with people, IE open up about your feelings, intentions etc. That is how u form male friendships, combined with doing activities.

With females, never be vulnerable lol
Good advice
 
Nice to see you online again I haven´t seen you in a long time.

And for the thread the feeling of falling in love is to me only something that happens in childhood (crushes) or teenage years I haven´t experienced falling in love as an adult but I have become apathetic so that might be why. I just can´t comprehend how an awoken adult can "fall in love" the only reason it worked in the past was because of the youthfull hormones and being blissfully ignorant to the truth about what love really is.
 
You wouldn’t want a girl who genuinely loves you for you? Everyone wants it but it’s just not reality. At least I have my dreams

I only dream about raping and beating up my oneitis now.
 
Why wouldn't you? You should punish them for producing inferior off-spring, it's their fault in the first place.
nice point of a view tbh
 
You have to mog your friends, if you are mogged that person is just an acquaintance. I mog all 3 of my friends, a soyboy, a mentally ill manlet sperg and another turbomanlet sperg.

The NT soyboy has had sex so my theory is probably bullshit I realized.
 
I don’t know man. I have always has the “oneitis” thing but the girls never want me. I always get infatuated with a girl in particular. Then I daydream about us together, even imagine myself in conversations with them to the point where I don’t really know what’s real and what’s not. But that’s not “love”. It has to be a two way street. And even “love” has an expiration date (generally less than a year)
Same
 
You have to mog your friends, if you are mogged that person is just an acquaintance. I mog all 3 of my friends, a soyboy, a mentally ill manlet sperg and another turbomanlet sperg.
I need no friends, when you truly realize friends will only use you later if you don't use them earlier, it's a legit liberating feeling. You must turn their trust they gave you to your advantage, so when you're friends with Chad you can use him for some kind of social interactions or something, where his looks might be actually usefull (everywhere basically), and befriend him

It doesn't matter who mogs who if you got what you want in the end, though going out with people who mog you crush your hormonal system, so you must always use your brain and think does it worth it
 
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im talking only here with people to be honest
 
1. Be NT
2. Don't be ugly
if you are ugly and autistic it's over
 
I have no human interactions (perma-drunk father doesn't classify as human) outside of this forum
my father is drinking too but not too much, but sometimes he causes fights because of that, standard of EEcels
 
my father is drinking too but not too much, but sometimes he causes fights because of that, standard of EEcels
My father is just extremely annoying when drunk, i could kill him in a fight and he knows it
 
My father is just extremely annoying when drunk, i could kill him in a fight and he knows it
i used to fight with my father in the past also, but i won easily last fights
 
Be NT. Being attractive helps too.
 
You can't. You lost. Give up already
 
Parents want to keep you away from kys, that's why they fill you with bluepill manure
 
Parents want to keep you away from kys, that's why they fill you with bluepill manure
They gave me the worst life they could, but decided to bluepill me about this one, hoping that would change anything

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