It's all bullshit and those same faggots don't even follow their own god damn logic
Take, for instance, all the guys who are suicidal and eventually do suicide. Robin Williams comes to mind. The dude from Linkin Park. Plenty of other cases but you get my point. They all have kids. Have wives. Girlfriends. Fame. Money. Power. THE ONLY thing they didn't have is love for themselves and yet they still got all the best shit in the world handed to them. They also apparently didn't give a fuck about the people they were going to leave otherwise they wouldn't have killed themselves the selfish fucks.
Then there are plenty of stories about fat people who hate themselves and then find one another AND THROUGH THE POWER OF GOD DAMN LOVE they fucking lose all the weight and become a couple. That shit wouldn't have happened if they were lonely all the fucking time. Sex and a partner are hella good fucking motivators to inspire yourself and motivate yourself to become a better version of yourself. Without love, without sex, without affection there is literally no reason to do anything but LDAR.
Look at someone like Conor McGregor. I hate the fucking redhead cocksucker but his whole backround story is that he was a shit fighter. A shit person. And a shit alcoholic or drug addict or something like that. All around a fucking faggot. Then he met this girl which turned everything around for him and now he is one of the top Chads in the whole god damn entertainment industry and has quoted that he would have not succeeded had it not been for his wife pushing him and loving him unconditionally the whole step of the way. While we incels are told to better ourselves and to think positive a god damn homeless addict with not even a cent to his fucking name gets a fucking hot piece of ass that wants to fuck him and stay by his side even though she has to work and pay all the bills. If that isn't the most insane "fuck you" story to Incels then I don't know what is.