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ArkLife

ArkLife

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I'm genuinely wondering, how do you manage to cope with having no one else around you? For example, I've haven't talked to another individual for around 6-7 years I believe (in real life) and it's gotten really hard.
I don't understand the point of living like this when people are having relationships, starting families, going to parties and etcetera when I have nothing.
Do you guys have any methods of coping? Or what do you do to distract yourself from the fact you have no one?
 
I can’t cope anymore
 
I drink beer and smoke joints
 
I have some copes currently but i'm still miserable, the pain never ends :feelsseriously:
 
Drugs and sugar
 
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I just try to enjoy my own company. Vidya games, travel, make my place as comfy as possible for myself.
 
video games and sleep
 
Yeah everytime i go out to a restaurant/fast food i feel like a serial killer just couse im there alone, you know that feeling if you have been bullied your whole life and dont have almost anyone.
 
I have some copes currently but i'm still miserable, the pain never ends :feelsseriously:
True, my only cope is video games right now but I still feel shit even when playing them
 
Yeah everytime i go out to a restaurant/fast food i feel like a serial killer just couse im there alone, you know that feeling if you have been bullied your whole life and dont have almost anyone.
Yeah I've been bullied since school due to my looks, I feel like I want to harm others sometimes and I don't know what to do about that feeling. I'm so jealous of everyone else
 
I play video games, listen to music, browse the internet, watch movies and tv, and take walks.
 
Yeah I've been bullied since school due to my looks, I feel like I want to harm others sometimes and I don't know what to do about that feeling. I'm so jealous of everyone else
same man :blackpill::feelsrope:
 
I can't take it anymore. I would give everything to have a girl that I love next to me. Literally nothing would make me so happy, not even becoming a multimillionaire or a king or whatever.
 
During the pandemic, i got into discord and made a great friend group until it disbanded a year ago and i have been lonelier than ever. I mostly just cope with vidya or drama on youtube, i also tend to fight arguments in my head as being angry is better than being sad.
 
During the pandemic, i got into discord and made a great friend group until it disbanded a year ago and i have been lonelier than ever. I mostly just cope with vidya or drama on youtube, i also tend to fight arguments in my head as being angry is better than being sad.
We should be friends
 
Videogames, also preparing for the collapse.
 
I spray a paintcan into a trashbag and inhale it then I look into my mirror and a foid appears next to me then I lie down with her.
The delusions you recieve from inhaling spray paint is divine.
 
Music and a lot of JO. It’s pathetic but it’s one of the few copes that give me enjoyment.
 
i dundu nuffin
 
I don’t have copes, I actively try to fulfill this goal, just not by finding the women irl
 
Music, vidyas and daydreaming all day until I fucking croak.
 
I don't, I'm just watching time go by. I live with family but my dad is unwilling to speak to me because he thinks I'm a loser, my mom is always doing something, and even when I'm able to catch her while she's not busy my dad gets pissed at me for talking to her about my problems.
 
I socialise on incels.is, the only place where people don't give me the fluoride stare
 
I've haven't talked to another individual for around 6-7 years I believe (in real life)
How is this possible? Not even one word?
 
i talk to my plushie and spend time with my 2d wife
 
Drop all care.
And focus on something distant.
 
I'm genuinely wondering, how do you manage to cope with having no one else around you? For example, I've haven't talked to another individual for around 6-7 years I believe (in real life) and it's gotten really hard.
I don't understand the point of living like this when people are having relationships, starting families, going to parties and etcetera when I have nothing.
Do you guys have any methods of coping? Or what do you do to distract yourself from the fact you have no one?
jerk
 
Well I get busy. Sort of have a job and it gives me enough randomness to be entertaining.
 
- scroll forums
- walk in the bush
- video games
- study and learn about different topics
- youtube
 

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