How do you ask a girl out without using tinder?

[incellooksmaxer]

The concept seems so alien to me.

Girls dont have hobbies and neither do I.

I have no hope meeting them.

Unless I work, but I cant leave the house.

I cant even meet girls, because I dont know what they do.

I need a social circle so i can meet club sluts

but i hate club sluts

group discussion.

 

[Deleted member 1617]

try dating sites rather than tinder

 

[/pol/cel]

You dont.

 

[incellooksmaxer]

try dating sites rather than tinder

No one uses okcupid here. I tried setting up a fake account to test the water, small city.

The only chance I have is obese whales on fetlife. And trust me I have thought about it.

In 3 months time I will post my nudes there want to gymcel abit first.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

be me > ask cute girl when i was working out > get friendzoned > ignore the bitch > she tries to get my attention constantly > I leave job cuz was suicidal.

 

[NeverSubmit]

Don't ask women out the feeling of rejection will only make it worse for you

 

[Sugar]

I think people reject easier on Tinder. Try talking to someone at an event or on the subway. But don't rush it. Just talk to them, generic small talk will do. Then say you would like to talk more and ask for their number or social media username. Don't show emotion if rejected though.

 

[incellooksmaxer]

Don't ask women out the feeling of rejection will only make it worse for you

I am extremely mentally ill. Dont believe me? I was locked in a hospital for a few days, taken to a room and asked by 2 doctors about my childhood. Whether my parents molested me and if I had ever had a girlfriend.

I dont care about rejection. I already feel low all the time.

It would help me out. There is no reason for me to be alive. I am ugly and weird.

Women should regularly spit on me and call me ugly, that way I will kill my self and there will be one less incel on the street thus making my city a cleaner and better looking place.

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I think people reject easier on Tinder. Try talking to someone at an event or on the subway. But don't rush it. Just talk to them, generic small talk will do. Then say you would like to talk more and ask for their number or social media username. Don't show emotion if rejected though.

I dont have a subway. Unless im on drugs I cant talk to random people, when Im on drugs I have a million friends and a million hobbies though.

 

[Kointo1]

If you're ugly, then it's futile. It'll only cause pain and suffering from constant rejection.

 

[Allblueeeee]

just rape

 

[incellooksmaxer]

If you're ugly, then it's futile. It'll only cause pain and suffering from constant rejection.

Most people say Im average looking - above average looking so I suppose im a 6/10

Most people say If I actually bothered going to the gym I could be a 7/10 and with plastic surgery on my big nose and eyelids.

Im also 5'11 but just ordered some shoe lifts from amazon.

I already had facial reconstruction surgery so Im a average looking autsit with no friends.

I need a few more surgery but dont have any money and I refuse to work.

 

[Kointo1]

Most people say Im average looking - above average looking so I suppose im a 6/10

Most people say If I actually bothered going to the gym I could be a 7/10 and with plastic surgery on my big nose and eyelids.

Im also 5'11 but just ordered some shoe lifts from amazon.

I already had facial reconstruction surgery so Im a average looking autsit with no friends.

I need a few more surgery but dont have any money and I refuse to work.

You may have a chance at getting a gf then.

 

[incellooksmaxer]

You may have a chance at getting a gf then.

True. Double jaw surgery gave me a chance.

Im watching fbi documentaries and tv shows to try and learn how to talk.

 

[Kointo1]

Im watching fbi documentaries and tv shows to try and learn how to talk.

That never helped me at least. I can articulate myself well enough through text, but terribly through speech.

 

[incellooksmaxer]

That never helped me at least. I can articulate myself well enough through text, but terribly through speech.

I just have a few things saved up that i practice. Like, I remember what to say and then go out and say it. If I have positive reactions I just say it over and over again to new people.

If I have negative reactions I never say it again.

 

[Deleted member 60]

I'm not even sure if this happens anymore. A lot of younger people seem to hook up online, even if they initially met IRL

 

[Kointo1]

I just have a few things saved up that i practice. Like, I remember what to say and then go out and say it. If I have positive reactions I just say it over and over again to new people.

If I have negative reactions I never say it again.

I cringe when I try to say certain phrases to people like "How are you?" or "Nice to meet you."

I think I sound so cheesy and cliche when I say things like that.

But yeah, you probably don't have this problem.

 

[incellooksmaxer]

I cringe when I try to say certain phrases to people like "How are you?" or "Nice to meet you."

I think I sound so cheesy and cliche when I say things like that.

But yeah, you probably don't have this problem.

No not like that.


For example some people think its really interesting the my cousin works in pantomime in London or I tell people about the time I went to new york and basically tell people it the same way.

 

[Kointo1]

No not like that.


For example some people think its really interesting the my cousin works in pantomime in London or I tell people about the time I went to new york and basically tell people it the same way.

From my experiences, conversations need to be more natural and flow. This may work, but only for one conversation.

You'll need to learn how to make people laugh naturally.

 

[Sugar]

What city are you in? There has to be trains and buses in your city.

 

[incellooksmaxer]

What city are you in? There has to be trains and buses in your city.

not saying

Somewhere not in Us

there are buses.

 

[Sugar]

not saying

Somewhere not in Us

there are buses.

Try those. You will never see those people again so you'll be fine if rejected. Just don't ask out girls places where you see the same people often. There are some great articles on how to boost your confidence. Try listening to serene sounds beforehand, stuff to calm your nerves. Try to get some prescriptions from your gp. Watch cringe comps and learn what not to do/how not to act. Start with complimenting a girl on something simple, like her outfit or hair.

 

[Solitarian_Walker]

You dont.

 

[imbored21]

School and work

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

only chads get easy dates outside of the online dating, for normies and others online dating is the only hope.

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I am extremely mentally ill. Dont believe me? I was locked in a hospital for a few days, taken to a room and asked by 2 doctors about my childhood. Whether my parents molested me and if I had ever had a girlfriend.

I dont care about rejection. I already feel low all the time.

It would help me out. There is no reason for me to be alive. I am ugly and weird.

Women should regularly spit on me and call me ugly, that way I will kill my self and there will be one less incel on the street thus making my city a cleaner and better looking place.

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I dont have a subway. 

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u dont have trains?

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Most people say Im average looking - above average looking so I suppose im a 6/10

Most people say If I actually bothered going to the gym I could be a 7/10 and with plastic surgery on my big nose and eyelids.

then what the fuck are you doing here

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Try those. You will never see those people again so you'll be fine if rejected. Just don't ask out girls places where you see the same people often. There are some great articles on how to boost your confidence. Try listening to serene sounds beforehand, stuff to calm your nerves. Try to get some prescriptions from your gp. Watch cringe comps and learn what not to do/how not to act. Start with complimenting a girl on something simple, like her outfit or hair.

cope.

 

[incellooksmaxer]

only chads get easy dates outside of the online dating, for normies and others online dating is the only hope.

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u dont have trains?

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then what the fuck are you doing here

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cope.

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because I was a 3/10 before I had surgery, lost some weight and had acne.

And I dont have any friends.

Im not good looking enough just to chat random girls up, I need to run social circle but I dont have one.

 

[Incel801]

only chads get easy dates outside of the online dating, for normies and others online dating is the only hope.

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u dont have trains?

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cope.

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I heard groping is allowed on trains..

 

[Minjaze]

Asking women out as an ugly guy is impossible on ANY platform.

 

[non_factor]

I don't think this is the best place to ask that.