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Serious How do you approach?

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I can't initiate contact with anyone IRL, male or female. Only reason I ever made friends is because other people reached out to me.
 
I just ask them questions, then drop an invite to dinner
 
Same, and wish people reached out to be. I tried two approaches before but the only responses were, "You won't find any friends here." Or the old, "Sorry, we're busy right now. Have a nice day :soy:"
 
I can't initiate contact with anyone IRL, male or female. Only reason I ever made friends is because other people reached out to me.
You have to be attractive, otherwise you'll get laughed at, given a weird stare, or accused of sexual harassment.
 
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Don't overthink it.

I usually say something along the lines of "I thought you looked nice" - straightforward and direct without being over the top. Sometimes preface it by saying "this might sound random" to show social awareness.

When I started approaching I was extremely nervous. Some of the interactions were awkward as fuck because I was so far out of comfort zone. That's going to happen - accept it and you will improve over time.

Honestly, overthinking it and procrastinating isn't going to help. You just need to get out onto the street and try it.
 
I took speech classes when I was younger after being diagnosed with autism and a speech impediment
Don't overthink it.

I usually say something along the lines of "I thought you looked nice" - straightforward and direct without being over the top. Sometimes preface it by saying "this might sound random" to show social awareness.

When I started approaching I was extremely nervous. Some of the interactions were awkward as fuck because I was so far out of comfort zone. That's going to happen - accept it and you will improve over time.

Honestly, overthinking it and procrastinating isn't going to help. You just need to get out onto the street and try it.
it doesnt work tho, unless your attractive
 
If you're a creepy ogrecel, don't even bother cause you'll probably be slapped with a rape or disorderly charge for "approching while being ugly".

Manlet, frame, and skinnycels can approach with caution.
 
I cold approached on public transit, to be honest it's quite weird how I got the courage/motivation.
 
Try the classic "You look sympathetic"
 
If you're a creepy ogrecel, don't even bother cause you'll probably be slapped with a rape or disorderly charge for "approching while being ugly".

Manlet, frame, and skinnycels can approach with caution.

Not sure about that. Manlet here and I almost got arrested a couple of times when approaching.
 
Ask them if they're sympathetic
 
Ive never approached anyone I usually some kids try and talk to me for no apparent reason.
 
tales from the basement
I didn't know such a veteran of this site could be so ignorant and naive. Guess to each their own.
 
I didn't know such a veteran of this site could be so ignorant and naive. Guess to each their own.
so you're telling me that people accuse you of sexual harassment for talking to them? I find that hard to believe.
 
so you're telling me that people accuse you of sexual harassment for talking to them? I find that hard to believe.
It happens all the time. Fuck, a friend of mine got accused of rape for high fiving a girl in high school. Only reason he got out of it was because there was a camera in the hall. These women will accuse you of sexual harassment and rape all day if you're not attractive enough for them, and your delusions will do nothing to change that.

Men won't do it, because men are rational and thoughtful people. Females however are the unadulterated beasts which will do anything to harm those they don't like.
 
so you're telling me that people accuse you of sexual harassment for talking to them? I find that hard to believe.
I believe it. Hasn’t happened to me yet (fortunately) but some foids will accuse you of sexual harassment if you don’t do exactly what they want (and even if you do). This includes talking or even accidentally brushing past their arm.
 
It happens all the time. Fuck, a friend of mine got accused of rape for high fiving a girl in high school. Only reason he got out of it was because there was a camera in the hall. These women will accuse you of sexual harassment and rape all day if you're not attractive enough for them, and your delusions will do nothing to change that.

Men won't do it, because men are rational and thoughtful people. Females however are the unadulterated beasts which will do anything to harm those they don't like.
I'm sure it happens but it's not a common occurrence. Stop being irrational
 
I'm sure it happens but it's not a common occurrence. Stop being irrational
It would be a common occurrence if more men approached. Only the chads do it so it never really happens. Many men are redpilled to it at this point. I think you should stop defending female behavior; there is a reason we're here and why we're lonely. You are acting like a collaborator.
 
It would be a common occurrence if more men approached. Only the chads do it so it never really happens. Many men are redpilled to it at this point. I think you should stop defending female behavior; there is a reason we're here and why we're lonely. You are acting like a collaborator.
lol I'm one of the biggest misogynists on this site. What are you talking about?
 
lol I'm one of the biggest misogynists on this site. What are you talking about?
What do you believe should be the future/fate of the female gender going forward?
 
they need to be domesticated like animals
>not advocating for the complete eradication of women
you're not much of a misogynist. The female will simply liberate themselves and take over again. In order to stop the disease, we must amputate the gangrenous limb. We need females dead.
 
>not advocating for the complete eradication of women
you're not much of a misogynist. The female will simply liberate themselves and take over again. In order to stop the disease, we must amputate the gangrenous limb. We need females dead.
I support femicide but it isn't a realistic solution. We still need them for sex and raising children.
 
I'm low iq and mentalcel
 
Openers I've personally seen resulting in at least kisses:

"Hey guys, I want to meet new people"

"My friend has a big dick, I just saw it today"

"Hey there" (some personal questions like name, age, course in college, etc, ensue)

"You're too white, where are you from"

Anything that sounds entertaining and delivered in an acceptable environment by a guy with looks enough can work, really.
 
The people that reached out to you what did they say to you at the start.
 
Ask: "What do you think about hitler"
 
So what happens to this place ?
Do you really believe approaching strangers would work ? If you have major facial flaw(s), they'd fixing it and would say after you left:" Didn't you know that guy ? What a creep".
After if you want to work on your personality, pleddit is better for you.
 
You have to be attractive, otherwise you'll get laughed at, given a weird stare, or accused of sexual harassment.

As a tall bignosecel, I can attest to the above.

It's a shame, because without my nose, I would actually be an above average normie. If I look a femoid dead in the eyes, my nose is unmissable. I remember avoiding eye contact when I was a youngcel and this was one of the reasons.

But surgerymaxx wasn't affordable when I was 16-21 (I was obsessed with my nose) now at 30 it's pointless anyway.
Now I just take satisfaction in approaching femoids with my long, over protruding, humped nose and enjoying their looks of sheer disgust and hatred.
 

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