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How do people even “network”, it’s torture

Ferdi

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These people always say “it’s who you know not what you know” and here I am, in my third year of college and my chances of getting a job in my field are looking extremely bleak because I’m too autistic to talk with people and the people I have talked with are deeper into the field in terms of knowledge than me that they get the ick when talking to me, either because of my autism or because I have not much knowledge of my field as they do.

The truth is I absolutely hate talking about my major, it’s boring and I don’t like to be reminded of it, it’s like my whole entire college years have been spent distracting myself and coping about the fact that I might not get a job, because I am afraid it will consume me as a person and make me the most bland person on earth (if I wasn’t already bland enough) and I don’t wanna go back to college again after this.
The advice Normgroids give you too are also very terrible, it’s very broad like they expect you to know the intricacies of what they are saying, what you should do one should know already, AI is better than Normgroids at this point.

My biggest fear is I’d have spent 4 years doing nothing and my chances of ascension will get even lower because I won’t amount to anything in terms of my career, I’d just give up because I’m too depressed to care, so I’ll just live being a depressed wagie for the rest of my life despite going to college, I hate the people in this godforsaken major too
 
Networking means you have to be either a Chad a foid or have rich parents
 
Networking means you have to be either a Chad a foid or have rich parents
This, pretty much. Or be lucky with right time, right place hiring out of desperation.
 
Networking means you have to be either a Chad a foid or have rich parents
> be Chad (or Chadlite)
> have family in Rotary Club or free masons.
> see job interview with foid manager
> “he’s such a promising hardworking successful young man. I’m going to open my legs to him”.
 
I didnt network and now I cant get a job. The world is rigged agaonst autists
 
just be slightly low inhib like me
 
Don't be too ugly and have decent social skills

Do warm approach networking
 
I think 'networking' is a meme used to mislead gullible incels. What matters is studycelling and picking a course with job opportunities. Then just bullshit CV and apply to all the internships and job openings

Because if you think about 'networking' what happens is you're likely to avoiding trying anything altogether because you don't have fantasy 'connections'. It’s like ‘personality’ when looks are what matters

I blame this NT faggotry for my doomer mindset
 
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Just be NT
Just be rich
Just be attractive
Just be a woman

If you are either of those 4 you might have a chance at networking
 
I guess there's always a rape protocole, where you're networking by uploading your genetic data into cracked foidputer.
 
Networking is overrated for students.

It helps the most with smaller companies but these days they probably have like 10 people doing the same thing.

With bigger companies it can help to get an interview, but so can having a strong resume. Unless your dad works at the place, it won’t outright give you the job.

Luck is most important at the end of the day.
 
All NT people I know can successfully network.

Just be NT
Just be rich
Just be attractive
Just be a woman

If you are either of those 4 you might have a chance at networking

If you are all those 4 you will be handed an executive position right out of school.
 
If you are all those 4 you will be handed an executive position right out of school.
Multimillionaire at 20 yo without deserving it starter pack
 
> be Chad (or Chadlite)
> have family in Rotary Club or free masons.
> see job interview with foid manager
> “he’s such a promising hardworking successful young man. I’m going to open my legs to him”.
Tbh
 
Networking is overrated for students.

It helps the most with smaller companies but these days they probably have like 10 people doing the same thing.

With bigger companies it can help to get an interview, but so can having a strong resume. Unless your dad works at the place, it won’t outright give you the job.

Luck is most important at the end of the day.
How the hell do you get a strong resume if you can’t get an internship without connections
 
Same problem I'm having rn. Sent 40+ CV's and got 1 interview where I wasn't called back. Even if I land a job it will be for disgustingly low pay + lord knows if I'll land a position where I can learn and improve my skillset. Funny thing is, I knew way before I went to college that networking is really the only real purpose of it all, and I've tried and tried, yet nothing. Now as I'm about to major, I saw so many classmates land jobs, do workgroups projects etc. solely trough connections, and it's so defeating. Funny part is I get informed about them 6+months after those projects get started. It's like they are purposely doing everything behind my back and I'm just trying to catch up to no avail. And it's a engineering degree btw :feelsUnreal:

Kill me
 
How the hell do you get a strong resume if you can’t get an internship without connections
What is ur major
 
Same problem I'm having rn. Sent 40+ CV's and got 1 interview where I wasn't called back. Even if I land a job it will be for disgustingly low pay + lord knows if I'll land a position where I can learn and improve my skillset. Funny thing is, I knew way before I went to college that networking is really the only real purpose of it all, and I've tried and tried, yet nothing. Now as I'm about to major, I saw so many classmates land jobs, do workgroups projects etc. solely trough connections, and it's so defeating. Funny part is I get informed about them 6+months after those projects get started. It's like they are purposely doing everything behind my back and I'm just trying to catch up to no avail. And it's a engineering degree btw :feelsUnreal:

Kill me
Also like you, I'm not the best of the best so the companies and classmates aren't really fighting over me either
 
networking is nt trait nothing you can do about it basically
 

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