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Yunoo

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A lot of the time I feel like people I don’t know already know me and hate me or have negative beliefs about me and it ruins my mood. Why do I think like this? I know it’s irrational
 
It's not irrational. People see you and they make loads of assumptions based on how you look and if you're ugly they are usually bad.
 
It's not irrational. People see you and they make loads of assumptions based on how you look and if you're ugly they are usually bad.
 
It's not irrational. People see you and they make loads of assumptions based on how you look and if you're ugly they are usually bad.
Yeah i think i sense their negative energy or something. It must be my mannerisms and the fact i look like a ‘loner’ too
 
Yeah i think i sense their negative energy or something. It must be my mannerisms and the fact i look like a ‘loner’ too
Definitely has an effect. It's all the little things that people observe subconsciously.
 
A completely normal reaction to the highly atomized, hyper-surveilled society we're in and because there is no longer a shared national or cultural identity in the west (assuming you're Western) it will only worsen. I always felt a widespread in group bias towards me. Don't led the public hive effect you. I recommend reading the the remnant Albert Nock because he has a very interesting approach to this.
 
just stop caring about others opinion. They don't matter to you if you don't care...
 
People already have made a decision in their mind who they will approve and disapprove because they've been brainwashed by the media. We don't fit in that category so we disgust them. Any niceness is usually fake.
 
just stop caring about others opinion. They don't matter to you if you don't care...
The issue is I’ma lonely guy and I want friends. I can’t have friends if no one likes me. How do I stop wanting that?
 
The issue is I’ma lonely guy and I want friends. I can’t have friends if no one likes me. How do I stop wanting that?
I don’t know about you, man, but I’ve come to terms with my inceldom. I have a few brocels online that I talk to, and aside from that, I’ve accepted my solitude. I don’t need understanding or validation from others to know my worth.
 
It's hard mang feelings are very strong and stronger than us sometimes
 
A lot of the time I feel like people I don’t know already know me and hate me or have negative beliefs about me and it ruins my mood. Why do I think like this? I know it’s irrational
Its not tbh. They probably do.
 
It's because of your genetic deformities if we were back in nature genetically sub par men would die alone instantly.
 
I don’t know about you, man, but I’ve come to terms with my inceldom. I have a few brocels online that I talk to, and aside from that, I’ve accepted my solitude. I don’t need understanding or validation from others to know my worth.
Me.
 

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