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How do I deal with shit friends?

utonian

utonian

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I know I'm a greycel, sorry

But, I'd appreciate any help with this situation I can get as someone who doesn't communicate with people in his same situation often or really at all, which I really hope to change

I have a friend group of people that do absolutely nothing but dunk on me every opportunity they get. They will stop at nothing to try and make me out to be this loser within their friend group. I am the group punching bag essentially. I can't stand being friends with this group any longer but I feel like alienating myself from them would be wrong to do but at the same time, all they are is a bunch of asshole normies who do nothing to help me out with bettering my situation. I'd appreciate any help I can get, my current thought is to just kind of fade out and stop hanging with them but I would then have essentially no friends. I have about 1 close friend and 1 other one outside of this friend group, I'd probably look like some loser with no friends and nothing going for him if I do end up leaving, most of my class periods I don't share with the one other friend I have at this school, and all of the dumb blonde popular foids at school like to patronize me every chance they get. What should I do? Should I ride it out? Try and fix the holes in my personality? Just looking for some help.
 
you ditch them
i had some such "friends" in the past and once i cut them off i realized i dont miss them at all
 
Just leave the friend group. Fuck those guys.
 
Stop talking to them and take the blackpill
 
you dont let them do that if it is irritating you. if they wont change call them asshole and find new friends.
 
You're a lolcow for them, if you don't want to be humiliated constantly you will have to isolate from society and get used to being alone, find some other copes.
 
my current thought is to just kind of fade out and stop hanging with them but I would then have essentially no friends
If you fear solitude that much then go back, leave this forum and become a full-time jester for your friends
 
you ditch them
i had some such "friends" in the past and once i cut them off i realized i dont miss them at all
Okay. I mean fuck what everyone else thinks I'll live however I want to live and try and be happy. I shouldn't let a bunch of sub intellect foids hold me down from feeling better than I do now. Plus I shouldn't be deluded into thinking some social status will get me pussy or even love. That's fucking nonsense. It's all I've ever seen is retarded hierarchy and nonsense within social systems.
 
If you fear solitude that much then go back, leave this forum and become a full-time jester for your friends
True. I've felt solitude. It's fine. I get adjusted to things way too easily. All the "friends" I've had other than the two ex-group chuds I talk to now are all normgroids who do nothing but hold me down from maintaining good grades and a positive or even just neutral outlook on myself and life. I don't wanna be a lolcow just for what I think is clout or deluded happiness.
 
Nah
OP is clearly a troll LARPer
I'm just a newfag trying to take whatever advice and truths I can from people in the same place as myself. As I stated I don't interact with other incels often if at all.
 
Nah
OP is clearly a troll LARPer
I'm just a newfag trying to take whatever advice and truths I can from people in the same place as myself. As I stated I don't interact with other incels often if at all.
 
I'm just a newfag trying to take whatever advice and truths I can from people in the same place as myself. As I stated I don't interact with other incels often if at all.
my wifi shat itself my fault
 

How do I deal with shit friends?​

you don't. just cut them off, that's the best and most reasonable option
 
ditch them, rotting alone in your room is far less painful than being the group punching bag
 
Just say "sybau"
 
I know I'm a greycel, sorry

But, I'd appreciate any help with this situation I can get as someone who doesn't communicate with people in his same situation often or really at all, which I really hope to change

I have a friend group of people that do absolutely nothing but dunk on me every opportunity they get. They will stop at nothing to try and make me out to be this loser within their friend group. I am the group punching bag essentially. I can't stand being friends with this group any longer but I feel like alienating myself from them would be wrong to do but at the same time, all they are is a bunch of asshole normies who do nothing to help me out with bettering my situation. I'd appreciate any help I can get, my current thought is to just kind of fade out and stop hanging with them but I would then have essentially no friends. I have about 1 close friend and 1 other one outside of this friend group, I'd probably look like some loser with no friends and nothing going for him if I do end up leaving, most of my class periods I don't share with the one other friend I have at this school, and all of the dumb blonde popular foids at school like to patronize me every chance they get. What should I do? Should I ride it out? Try and fix the holes in my personality? Just looking for some help.
You ditch them and find guys in ur looks level .
They are going to bully you and its not stopping.
Was in a similar situation when younger .
 
Stop humiliating yourself and leave them
 
Just leave the friend group.

I have about 1 close friend and 1 other one outside of this friend group,
2 friends is perfectly fine, especially if you genuinely like them and they don't just bully you.

I'd probably look like some loser with no friends and nothing going for him.
People probably already view you as a loser if even your "friends" are bullying you. Leaving the friend group will likely lower the overall humiliation you experience.
 
Ditch them, you are better off alone, there is no friend for us, only family, and we are your family :society:
 
I know I'm a greycel, sorry

But, I'd appreciate any help with this situation I can get as someone who doesn't communicate with people in his same situation often or really at all, which I really hope to change

I have a friend group of people that do absolutely nothing but dunk on me every opportunity they get. They will stop at nothing to try and make me out to be this loser within their friend group. I am the group punching bag essentially. I can't stand being friends with this group any longer but I feel like alienating myself from them would be wrong to do but at the same time, all they are is a bunch of asshole normies who do nothing to help me out with bettering my situation. I'd appreciate any help I can get, my current thought is to just kind of fade out and stop hanging with them but I would then have essentially no friends. I have about 1 close friend and 1 other one outside of this friend group, I'd probably look like some loser with no friends and nothing going for him if I do end up leaving, most of my class periods I don't share with the one other friend I have at this school, and all of the dumb blonde popular foids at school like to patronize me every chance they get. What should I do? Should I ride it out? Try and fix the holes in my personality? Just looking for some help.
Break any contact with them
 
Stick to the close friend and maybe the other one outside of the group.

Ditch the rest of the group.
 
I know I'm a greycel, sorry

But, I'd appreciate any help with this situation I can get as someone who doesn't communicate with people in his same situation often or really at all, which I really hope to change

I have a friend group of people that do absolutely nothing but dunk on me every opportunity they get. They will stop at nothing to try and make me out to be this loser within their friend group. I am the group punching bag essentially. I can't stand being friends with this group any longer but I feel like alienating myself from them would be wrong to do but at the same time, all they are is a bunch of asshole normies who do nothing to help me out with bettering my situation. I'd appreciate any help I can get, my current thought is to just kind of fade out and stop hanging with them but I would then have essentially no friends. I have about 1 close friend and 1 other one outside of this friend group, I'd probably look like some loser with no friends and nothing going for him if I do end up leaving, most of my class periods I don't share with the one other friend I have at this school, and all of the dumb blonde popular foids at school like to patronize me every chance they get. What should I do? Should I ride it out? Try and fix the holes in my personality? Just looking for some help.
leave them they sound like shit.
 
I know I'm a greycel, sorry

But, I'd appreciate any help with this situation I can get as someone who doesn't communicate with people in his same situation often or really at all, which I really hope to change

I have a friend group of people that do absolutely nothing but dunk on me every opportunity they get. They will stop at nothing to try and make me out to be this loser within their friend group. I am the group punching bag essentially. I can't stand being friends with this group any longer but I feel like alienating myself from them would be wrong to do but at the same time, all they are is a bunch of asshole normies who do nothing to help me out with bettering my situation. I'd appreciate any help I can get, my current thought is to just kind of fade out and stop hanging with them but I would then have essentially no friends. I have about 1 close friend and 1 other one outside of this friend group, I'd probably look like some loser with no friends and nothing going for him if I do end up leaving, most of my class periods I don't share with the one other friend I have at this school, and all of the dumb blonde popular foids at school like to patronize me every chance they get. What should I do? Should I ride it out? Try and fix the holes in my personality? Just looking for some help.
Leave them or confront them

I also had this type of “friend group” as well back in middle school so I decided to leave them they’ll just make your life more shitty than it already is
 
That's just the usual friendship experience, don't worry, they'll cut you out of their lives soon enough. Likely even before they're done draining you for all you're worth.
 
I know I'm a greycel, sorry

But, I'd appreciate any help with this situation I can get as someone who doesn't communicate with people in his same situation often or really at all, which I really hope to change

I have a friend group of people that do absolutely nothing but dunk on me every opportunity they get. They will stop at nothing to try and make me out to be this loser within their friend group. I am the group punching bag essentially. I can't stand being friends with this group any longer but I feel like alienating myself from them would be wrong to do but at the same time, all they are is a bunch of asshole normies who do nothing to help me out with bettering my situation. I'd appreciate any help I can get, my current thought is to just kind of fade out and stop hanging with them but I would then have essentially no friends. I have about 1 close friend and 1 other one outside of this friend group, I'd probably look like some loser with no friends and nothing going for him if I do end up leaving, most of my class periods I don't share with the one other friend I have at this school, and all of the dumb blonde popular foids at school like to patronize me every chance they get. What should I do? Should I ride it out? Try and fix the holes in my personality? Just looking for some help.
I had a toxic friend like this. I just dropped him and never spoke to him again.
 
If your school has an online option and you don't hate your homelife look into that. You aren't missing anything good.
 
Be like me


Have no friends

Problem solved
 
I know I'm a greycel, sorry

But, I'd appreciate any help with this situation I can get as someone who doesn't communicate with people in his same situation often or really at all, which I really hope to change

I have a friend group of people that do absolutely nothing but dunk on me every opportunity they get. They will stop at nothing to try and make me out to be this loser within their friend group. I am the group punching bag essentially. I can't stand being friends with this group any longer but I feel like alienating myself from them would be wrong to do but at the same time, all they are is a bunch of asshole normies who do nothing to help me out with bettering my situation. I'd appreciate any help I can get, my current thought is to just kind of fade out and stop hanging with them but I would then have essentially no friends. I have about 1 close friend and 1 other one outside of this friend group, I'd probably look like some loser with no friends and nothing going for him if I do end up leaving, most of my class periods I don't share with the one other friend I have at this school, and all of the dumb blonde popular foids at school like to patronize me every chance they get. What should I do? Should I ride it out? Try and fix the holes in my personality? Just looking for some help.
Ditch them and join islam
 
I know I'm a greycel, sorry

But, I'd appreciate any help with this situation I can get as someone who doesn't communicate with people in his same situation often or really at all, which I really hope to change

I have a friend group of people that do absolutely nothing but dunk on me every opportunity they get. They will stop at nothing to try and make me out to be this loser within their friend group. I am the group punching bag essentially. I can't stand being friends with this group any longer but I feel like alienating myself from them would be wrong to do but at the same time, all they are is a bunch of asshole normies who do nothing to help me out with bettering my situation. I'd appreciate any help I can get, my current thought is to just kind of fade out and stop hanging with them but I would then have essentially no friends. I have about 1 close friend and 1 other one outside of this friend group, I'd probably look like some loser with no friends and nothing going for him if I do end up leaving, most of my class periods I don't share with the one other friend I have at this school, and all of the dumb blonde popular foids at school like to patronize me every chance they get. What should I do? Should I ride it out? Try and fix the holes in my personality? Just looking for some help.
Is this a joke? It's better to have 0 friends then to hang out with people like that
 
They are not your friends. I've had a similar experience in high school.

Chose friends wisely as well, the only person I know in real life is drug addicted and currently homeless.
 
You're a lolcow for them, if you don't want to be humiliated constantly you will have to isolate from society and get used to being alone, find some other copes.
 
I have a friend group of people that do absolutely nothing but dunk on me every opportunity they get.
Just stop then, block them everywhere and if you meet by accidents, just say you are busy.

They are not your friends, they never been, you a just a jester, a distraction for their own leisure
 
better to have no friends than dealing with people like that

they aren’t even your friends
 

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