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FUCK I CAN'T EVEN ORDER A FUCKING SUBWAY WITHOUT STUTTERING AND GETTING NERVOUS. FOR YEARS IT HASN'T GOTTEN BETTER. WHEN SOMEBODY TALKS TO ME MY MIND BECOMES A BLACK HOLE AND I PRETEND I DIDN'T HEAR THEM FUCK MY LIFE
Just don't give a fuck about anyone and do as you please. I do what i want to do now and everyone can go fuck themselves. I won't take anyone's shit anymore.
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Same, I don't know if it's even possible to cure this.
practice makes perfect....oh wait your an incel in that case rip
There's no way for people like us. Either somehow get drugs like Xanax, zoloft, etc and use them for every social interaction or alcohol (this is at the risk of becoming EVEN more fucked up when you're off the drugs or sober)
I know how you feel.
Psychologists always talk about treating anxiety with "repeated exposure" and "desensitization," but it's all bullshit. I've been ordering food from restaurants all my life. It never got any easier.
Psychologists always talk about treating anxiety with "repeated exposure" and "desensitization," but it's all bullshit. I've been ordering food from restaurants all my life. It never got any easier.
It depends on the situation and your involvement. But generally I find that talking about meaningless shit you couldn't give less of a fuck about, but pretend as if you do usually does the trick.
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Yeah I only go to the same restaurants and order the same thing for the sake of consistency and minimisation of anxiety. Mcdonald computers are a lifesaver for me tbh
same. Subway is a pain in the ass because you have to tell them all the ingredients individually and there's usually a bunch of people waiting behind you. They need to rethink their whole system
Take beta blockers.
you dont just stay home and avoid interacting with the evil normies
Just be confident bro
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Go see an escort
after the experience you will be socially more skillful for a while
after the experience you will be socially more skillful for a while
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I probably will eventually. I meant I struggle more in terms of day to day basic interaction
Everyone else seems to socialise so effortlessly, I don't know how they do it
how often do you talk? Even read outloud?
If you don't talk often your mouth muscles will be weak and you will often jumble the words in your mouth
If you don't talk often your mouth muscles will be weak and you will often jumble the words in your mouth
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I talk to myself like the mentalcase I am lol
even if you have to just read every post on here out loud
GET A BETTER FACE
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lol at your avi. Tinie Tempah mogged into the ground
And giga Chang mogs Gandy as well with his robust skull, frame and height.
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this is the most crucial part. IT. DOES. NOT. GET. BETTER.
its like being retarded, once you are you can forget about living normal life. i was always like this and always will be
At least you can order food. I can't. Kek. I let others order it for me instead because they know I can't.
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I have my mom order my food usally. The exception is at a restraunt where a waiter takes your order 8n which case i have to say what i want, it causes legit anxiety. I just orderd pizza hut online last sunday and it saved me alot of trouble, just placed the order online then 15mins later pulled up to the drive-thu and paid them, then drove home to eat and rot.
A couple of the only places i feel kinda comfortable in is Gamestop or diskreplay.
A couple of the only places i feel kinda comfortable in is Gamestop or diskreplay.
Just get drunk everywhere you go
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