for example
care to share any good whitepill
Whitepill = blackpill; you accept that you will never have Girlfriend sex etc.., but you're at peace with it..
How?
- Find a good healthy cope that will distract you from your incel status.
- Some whitepilled people attach less negative value to their incel status or give it a neutral value. Or even attach positive value to their solitude and negative value to being in a relationship (grass is always greener on other side, deadbedroom etc.)
I know that won't change your situation, but some people succeed in changing the way they think and feel about their situation to a more net positive outcome.
- This ties a bit to the first point, but finding something you enjoy doing and become skilled at, bonus points if it makes you money. This can be a source of pride and reduce feelings of worthlessness.
Now some of you might think this all sounds rather bluepilled and cucked. I don't care. First of all, I only wrote this because someone asked. whereas bluepillers usually overflow you with information you've heard a million times UNPROMPTED.
Second of all, this is ADVICE, but I myself find it very difficult to follow this advice even though I think i'd be better off. I have low motivation, low self esteem, bad habits. etc.. And the source of these things are personal to each individual and something you have to figure out on your own.
That's the hardest part I'd say. Because no one knows how to get through that but yourself. Some never find out.