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Serious how can you be "sure" of your inceldom?

jet112

jet112

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personally, i think there are alot of shy men here (including me) that haven't asked any girls out.
the question is, how can you be "sure" of your inceldom if you haven't asked out anybody, or made any advances towards the opposite sex?
you could just be sitting here rambling infront of the computer, not knowing anything about yourself.
 
shy men here (including me) that haven't asked any girls out.
Aka mentalcels/fakecels. Trucels have tried and been rejected countless times.
 
cope. been told im ugly. tried looksmaxxing for 5 years with no results, no matches on tinder, no numbers at the bars or public. the rope is calling my name
 
personally, i think there are alot of shy men here (including me) that haven't asked any girls out.
the question is, how can you be "sure" of your inceldom if you haven't asked out anybody, or made any serious attempts?
you could just be sitting here rambling infront of the computer, not knowing anything about yourself.

Incels can't ask anyone out because:
1. We'd be considered creepy and have verbally and vision raped them
2. We're friend zoned to our casted
3. We lack social awareness and alertness due to our physical and psychological disabilities which give rise to Inceldom
4. We're simply not worthy.
 
cope. been told im ugly. tried looksmaxxing for 5 years with no results, no matches on tinder, no numbers at the bars or public. the rope is calling my name

i wish you only the best. you don't deserve this
 
Mentalcelibacy is real. It's like asking a retard "Are you sure you can't do math?" There are significant challenges in the mind that prevent it.
 
personally, i think there are alot of shy men here (including me) that haven't asked any girls out.
the question is, how can you be "sure" of your inceldom if you haven't asked out anybody, or made any advances towards the opposite sex?
you could just be sitting here rambling infront of the computer, not knowing anything about yourself.

if u look any fuckable u will get laid before 20 whether u approach or not and its a fact
 
I'm sure, as a ethnic in the west 27 year old KHHV I've never been more sure of anything in my life.
 
interesting idea. so your'e saying that woman approach too? i don't think so.

They do and thanks to feminism if a woman isn't enthusiastically consenting to you by getting naked in front of you in public any approach by you will be seen to be rape.
Butch and bull dukes with severe penis envy on a power trip oh and who are celibate because they can't have Chad = radical feminism
 
5'3.5 brown ethnic in dominantly white area
5'3.5 brown ethnic in dominantly white area
 
because some of us are 30+, 40+,50+ oldercels and have literally decades of rejection

yeah you have some people barely out of their teens here claiming to be incels, i bet most of them will find a GF and just stop posting on here.
 
If you cant even approch/ask out females you can be MORE, not less sure of your inceldom than an incel with 1000 rejections. Asking a female out is the FIRST AND NECESSARY step towarda getting laid, if you cant do thet you wont ever get laid, period.

Just think about it. Incel with 1000 rejections has a shitty but still nonzero chance of getting laid if he continues asking females out. But we mentalcels who cnat even ask females out have absolute ZERO chance of getting laid, thus we are even more incel.
 
personally, i think there are alot of shy men here (including me) that haven't asked any girls out.
the question is, how can you be "sure" of your inceldom if you haven't asked out anybody, or made any advances towards the opposite sex?
you could just be sitting here rambling infront of the computer, not knowing anything about yourself.

If no girl has ever asked you out then you’re incel, my normie friends all had girls ask them out eventually, most are sub 6 but that’s how you tell.
 
You don't necessarily need a lot of rejections to confirm it if you possess at least one visible, major physical deformity. Visible, major physical deformities signify the end of dating. Of course, the definition of visible, major physical deformity could be delusional and exaggerated for some mentalcels.
 
If you cant even approch/ask out females you can be MORE, not less sure of your inceldom than an incel with 1000 rejections. Asking a female out is the FIRST AND NECESSARY step towarda getting laid, if you cant do thet you wont ever get laid, period.

Just think about it. Incel with 1000 rejections has a shitty but still nonzero chance of getting laid if he continues asking females out. But we mentalcels who cnat even ask females out have absolute ZERO chance of getting laid, thus we are even more incel.

i had a chance to approach a woman (looksmatch) today at the supermarket, completely blew it. the shyness killed me.
this is fucked, i need to start acting the soon as i see an opening
 
If no girl has ever asked you out then you’re incel, my normie friends all had girls ask them out eventually, most are sub 6 but that’s how you tell.

you make it sound too easy. i had a friend that was approached by a woman, he is like a 6. nowdays he might be a 5 (severe balding) so i don't know how hes doing
 
There’s no other feasible way to tell how incel you are if you don’t let the women approach, u only need 1 approach online or offline in your entire life t prove whether you’re incel or not coz if you do it the other way, you don’t have a quantity of measurement i.e is 1000 approaches enough to prove incel? Is 1000000 enough? There’s no way to quantify plus it’s largely based on RNG i.e if you had a 0.01 chance of getting a foid, it could be your first approach or it could be your 10000000th plus most people give up after 10 approaches and deem themselves incels, doesn’t prove shit
 
You don't need to be told anything. Evil looks and ostracization are more than enough.
 
Get yourself rated. If the consensus is 3/10 or less you can consider yourself a truecel even without ever have tried.
 
If you got rated really low by multiple people

Or if you asked a couple of girls out and got rejected

Don't listen to these sperges and their cold approach bullshit, that would just leave you humiliated afterwards
 
If you cant even approch/ask out females you can be MORE, not less sure of your inceldom than an incel with 1000 rejections. Asking a female out is the FIRST AND NECESSARY step towarda getting laid, if you cant do thet you wont ever get laid, period.

Just think about it. Incel with 1000 rejections has a shitty but still nonzero chance of getting laid if he continues asking females out. But we mentalcels who cnat even ask females out have absolute ZERO chance of getting laid, thus we are even more incel.

Fucking copout and excuse. You try getting rejected 1,000 times, which is something you cannot even undergo one single time, and come back and tell me that. You will find 0 people who have ever faced a REAL LIFE rejection agreeing with you on this one.

Women appear to be 'hivemind' as fuck. If 1 doesn't like you, none of them will. 1,000 rejections from a 'hivemind' gender? IT'S FUCKING OVER!
 
how can you be "sure" of your inceldom if you haven't asked out anybody, or made any advances towards the opposite sex?

How can i be sure?arent 120 cold approaches+15 approaches on foids i knew from school+over 10k rejections in tinder/okc enough?If you havent asked foids out you shouldnt call yourself incel.
 
If you've never asked a girl out your still volcel
 
Your looks tell you if you are incel or not.
 
dont know who said this but this is a rePOST from a member here

Yeah right.

There was an American Dad episode where Steve and Snot decided to ask every single girl in the high school to the prom, because they figured it was a mathematical impossibility that every single one would say no. And guess what? all of them said no

That's what's going to happen. Imagine your perfect woman... that's what every other guy in the world wants too. It's the same for women. If one woman doesn't want you - no woman will want you. Your best bet is mutual desperation.

But good luck. Many women would rather be alone than with one of us. And besides, they could be Chad's #377 than your #1.

Sorry I'm so blunt and angry, but this is the type of advice that normal people give to incels that's been proven wrong wrong wrong and wrong again.

Good luck!
 
"Just go talk to her, bro"
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I am 37, that's how.
 
There is probably a lot of people here who never tried but if you are 5'5 and look like a troll you can pretty much foresee the result of any advancement. But I think pretty much everyone here could land a date with some hideous crippled dwarf female, so are we all volcels? If you have to settle below your looksmatch you are an incel according to me.
 
Chad doesn't have to ask out anyone.
 
Aka mentalcels/fakecels. Trucels have tried and been rejected countless times.

Jfl if you think that just because someone hasn't tried, they're a fakecel. I already know what the results would be if I tried
 
Jfl if you think that just because someone hasn't tried, they're a fakecel. I already know what the results would be if I tried
But you havent so you dont understand the reality of sexual and romantic rejection.
 
I am shy, but I've asked women out. Not quite as many as those who have done experiments here, but enough that I don't remember the exact number. Of course I've been rejected every time.

Those who are saying that if you've never been asked out by a woman, it's proof that you're incel, are right. I'm in my 30s and I've never once been approached by a woman. Anyone who's even low normie tier WILL get approached by some woman, sometime. Chads get asked out every week. High-tier normie men get asked out a few times a year. Low-tier normie men get asked out a few times in their lifetime. But at least they do get female attention, however rare it might be.

Incels get nothing. That's how you know it's over.
 
But you havent so you dont understand the reality of sexual and romantic rejection.

Yes I do. If you don't get approached = it's over
 
Kek. Fakecel alert tbh.

Nope. There's tons of copes, but essentially it all boils down to if you're ugly, you will almost certainly be an incel. Do you think an 8/10 severe introvert severe social anxiety guy would be an incel?
 
I'm 5'4 so there is no chance.
 
Just the fact that im a manlet and asian already means its fucking over.
I dont need to mention those 100s of rejections ive gone through.
 
"inceldom" is a transient state of being. I think a lot of guys here have already given up/don't even try/LDAR, but then you have guys who try really hard and still fail. If one of those guys who tries really hard finally gets "lucky" was he a "fakecel" all along? What if he can't replicate that situation?

I think being an incel is a result of circumstances, not a premeditated check-off list of "requirements" for being incel.
 
asked plenty of girls out irl and always rejected, some tried to friendzone me but i just peaced out.

Online is also the same but even more useless because they just ghost.
 

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