Serious How can I reduce my empathy?

[Inceldia]

I have too much of it. As an incel, that is very bad.
Most of the time its just a sign of weakness, bc you identify with the victim bc you are one yourself.
It also often prohibts you from standing up for yourself. Furthermore you can be exploited and fooled easily, which happens a lot when you are very low in the hierarchy.
basically high inhib = lots of empathy and low inhib = low empathy (not always but most of the time).
Being very empathetic and an outcast is a horrible combination.
What are actionable steps I can take to reduce it?
I heard seeing violence reduces it so I thought about watching more gore videos.
I will watch it on a regular basis and increase the intensity of the content and watchtime over time.
I know someone who slaughters animals (for food obviously), should I ask this person if I could watch him or even assist him?
Or would that be weird? Please post any advice, scientific studies on this topic are also appreciated.

 

[subhuman]

Start watching gore

 

[Inceldia]

Start watching gore

obviously didnt read my post

 

[subhuman]

obviously didnt read my post

You don’t have the rank or join date to deserve a read

 

[never began]

I have too much of it. As an incel, that is very bad.
Most of the time its just a sign of weakness, bc you identify with the victim bc you are one yourself.
It also often prohibts you from standing up for yourself. Furthermore you can be exploited and fooled easily, which happens a lot when you are very low in the hierarchy.
basically high inhib = lots of empathy and low inhib = low empathy (not always but most of the time).
Being very empathetic and an outcast is a horrible combination.
What are actionable steps I can take to reduce it?
I heard seeing violence reduces it so I thought about watching more gore videos.
I will watch it on a regular basis and increase the intensity of the content and watchtime over time.
I know someone who slaughters animals (for food obviously), should I ask this person if I could watch him or even assist him?
Or would that be weird? Please post any advice, scientific studies on this topic are also appreciated.

I had the same issue as you, are you short? Have a video that could help in that case

 

[Inceldia]

You don’t have the rank or join date to deserve a read

rip

I had the same issue as you, are you short? Have a video that could help in that case

I am Gigamanlet in the land of giants!!!

 

[huaus]

through demonic possession

 

[Savage]

Start watching gore

It's the only way for an incel tbh. Any form of physical low inhibmaxxing is seen as coping. and i'll help you via this link, not a cucked community like reddit too

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watchpeopledie.tv

 

[runforrest]

Gore is unnecessary. Instead develop rationality and critical thinking

 

[Inceldia]

@never began send me video!

It's the only way for an incel tbh. Any form of physical low inhibmaxxing is seen as coping. and i'll help you via this link, not a cucked community like reddit too

Sign Up

WPD - People die and this is the place to see it. You only have one life, don't make the mistakes seen here.

watchpeopledie.tv

Thanks but I dont care about the community I just watch random gore videos to desensitize.
I can easily find things like that on my own.

Gore is unnecessary. Instead develop rationality and critical thinking

I try to disassociate, I think it might help.
F.e. I try to think about myself in thirdperson or when I journal I write in third person
like He did this, He should do that instead of I did this, I should do that. I try to see myself as a biochemical machine and like a seperate entity that my conscious is in control of. Like when you sit in a car that you drive.

 

[GloriousFight]

I have too much of it. As an incel, that is very bad.
Most of the time its just a sign of weakness, bc you identify with the victim bc you are one yourself.
It also often prohibts you from standing up for yourself. Furthermore you can be exploited and fooled easily, which happens a lot when you are very low in the hierarchy.
basically high inhib = lots of empathy and low inhib = low empathy (not always but most of the time).
Being very empathetic and an outcast is a horrible combination.
What are actionable steps I can take to reduce it?
I heard seeing violence reduces it so I thought about watching more gore videos.
I will watch it on a regular basis and increase the intensity of the content and watchtime over time.
I know someone who slaughters animals (for food obviously), should I ask this person if I could watch him or even assist him?
Or would that be weird? Please post any advice, scientific studies on this topic are also appreciated.

Practice. Start small and get better. Be an assertive asshole for smaller reasons, then as you get used to the fact that people will be angry at you, start enjoying the fact that you're pushing their buttons

Very few people are born without any sense of empathy, but many especially those raised in violent areas learn that they must suppress or manage it in order to survive. So those guys have a good head start on you, but if you start ASAP you can become as based as them.

 

[Asgard]

You can't change up your personality out of nowhere, even with sensible visual material (constant, non-stop) exposure. You need traumatic experiences. If you have the right brain structure, you'll know it.

 

[Asgard]

Start watching gore

Relative. Varies from people to people.

 

[wgm24]

Learn to fight and assholemaxx

 

[Inceldia]

Hi brocel .
I am a sensitive myself .
I know what its like being a victim because we're too scared of standing up for ourselves . Fear of confrontation . Fear of fear itself even .
I too as of now am searching for answers in how can I make sure to be less sensitive .
I do however plan on keeping that sensitive side to an extent .
One that I plan on doing hopefully is learning to fight . I'm hoping as I learn , being trained by brawlers and warriors , at least some of that toughness will rub off on me with .
I've tried other methods such as treating my bullies horribly back , standing up for myself and more . However I realized with time , that this is just our natural self brocel . You must not , I repeat , you must not be too hard on yourself for being sensitive . Yes its true , we are seen as weaker and are prey for normies . They like how sensitive we are , how easily we are to be injured by insults even . I pray we don't go too extreme and lose all sense of sensitivity in search to be less sensitive . I am not a monster like normies . Hence , that's why I am sensitive . It doesn't come natural for me .
I'm wishing you the best in this journey brocel . I hope to hear how you progress .

Thanks bro. I did a bit of martial arts, but it didnt really help bc most of the tme I got my ass whooped pretty bad, so it had the opposite effect.
Maybe I will pick it up as a casual hobby again, but not rn.

Practice. Start small and get better. Be an assertive asshole for smaller reasons, then as you get used to the fact that people will be angry at you, start enjoying the fact that you're pushing their buttons

ok

noboy commented on the animal slaughter idea so far...

 

[never began]

@never began send me video!


Thanks but I dont care about the community I just watch random gore videos to desensitize.
I can easily find things like that on my own.


I try to disassociate, I think it might help.
F.e. I try to think about myself in thirdperson or when I journal I write in third person
like He did this, He should do that instead of I did this, I should do that. I try to see myself as a biochemical machine and like a seperate entity that my conscious is in control of. Like when you sit in a car that you drive.

I completely forgot sorry lol


View: https://youtu.be/kLDLdtDwRcY

 

[Inceldia]

I completely forgot sorry lol


View: https://youtu.be/kLDLdtDwRcY

I thougth you would send me sometihng else.
Water is wet for me at this point.
Do you want me to kill myself?

 

[unanimouslyethnic]

I have too much of it. As an incel, that is very bad.
Most of the time its just a sign of weakness, bc you identify with the victim bc you are one yourself.
It also often prohibts you from standing up for yourself. Furthermore you can be exploited and fooled easily, which happens a lot when you are very low in the hierarchy.
basically high inhib = lots of empathy and low inhib = low empathy (not always but most of the time).
Being very empathetic and an outcast is a horrible combination.
What are actionable steps I can take to reduce it?
I heard seeing violence reduces it so I thought about watching more gore videos.
I will watch it on a regular basis and increase the intensity of the content and watchtime over time.
I know someone who slaughters animals (for food obviously), should I ask this person if I could watch him or even assist him?
Or would that be weird? Please post any advice, scientific studies on this topic are also appreciated.

you are really just falling for the psyop pushed on this forum

which is of course to turn you into a homocidal antisocial freak

 

[Inceldia]

you are really just falling for the psyop pushed on this forum

which is of course to turn you into a homocidal antisocial freak

OK GrAYnigger

 

[unanimouslyethnic]

OK GrAYnigger

ive been on this forum since 2020 but nice try mate

 

[Inceldia]

ive been on this forum since 2020 but nice try mate

OK GrAYnigger

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

OK GrAYnigger

 

[Inceldia]

you cant. you are either born with low emapthy or you can have it through extremely tough growing up in war zone or ghetto or shit like that

i personally have no empathy due to being born in a war and watching people die brutally since i was 3 yo.

if not larp

 

[never began]

I thougth you would send me sometihng else.
Water is wet for me at this point.
Do you want me to kill myself?

Maybe.

 

[TBIcel]

Time and abuse from normies.

 

[BornToLose]

Just push yourself furthER.

 

[Inceldia]

im from Bosnia nigga, you can google what happened there in the 90s. half my family was killed before i was 10

I meant it like if this is not larp then thats brutal not that you are 100% lying.
Do you think your reduced empathy gives you some kind of advantage over others?

Maybe.

Just bc I had a crush on Rei?



Update: I watched an hour of animal slaughter vids on yt and some very mild beatings.
I will also try to be more confrontational and I will remind myself consciously all the time to look people in the eyes.
I will practice being confrontational with my parents first, bc its low risk.

 

[Fallenleaves]

Know that they hate you and want you dead

And that no one would care if you died on the street but they would care if you were a foid.

 

[wei#3959]

rape n murder

 

[298r651]

Just remember that kindness is mostly superficial surface level and that most people find your very existence physically repulsive. If it got down to it they would throw you under the bus without even a moments hesitation. Keep that in mind.

 

[unsettling]

you shouldn't change yourself just to suit the gay normie society that's cucked

 

[Inceldia]

Btw don't listen to that @never began guy I mean just go look at his anime PFP do you really think that he is a good person to listen to ROFL?

But I have animu avi too
and you have ooga booga avi, also not trustworthy

Just remember that kindness is mostly superficial surface level and that most people find your very existence physically repulsive. If it got down to it they would throw you under the bus without even a moments hesitation. Keep that in mind.

I think faking empathy is good but not actually having it.

you shouldn't change yourself just to suit the gay normie society that's cucked

I dont really do that. They want me to stay empathetic bc that would mean they can continue to treat me like shit, without me lashing out.

 

[298r651]

Watching gore doesn't make me less empathetic. If anything it makes me more empathetic, and also more racist too, lol.

 

[Inceldia]

Then stop being empathetic rofl

nigger

 

[Inceldia]

Watching gore doesn't make me less empathetic. If anything it makes me more empathetic, and also more racist too, lol.

racism would be a form of less empathy, although a very selective one

 

[SnakeCel]

I meant it like if this is not larp then thats brutal not that you are 100% lying.
Do you think your reduced empathy gives you some kind of advantage over others?


Just bc I had a crush on Rei?



Update: I watched an hour of animal slaughter vids on yt and some very mild beatings.
I will also try to be more confrontational and I will remind myself consciously all the time to look people in the eyes.
I will practice being confrontational with my parents first, bc its low risk.

You should not watch animal videos like that. Only watch human death videos. You should lose empathy for normies/humans but not for natural things like animals or plants, because those are organisms which are not sentient (therefore not responsible for their actions/inactions like a human is).

I am the same way in that I also am very weak, empathetic, and easily exploitable. And I am also trying to harden myself like @OutcastedOutcast , beacuse this is also a good way to protect youself from the attacks of normies. Yet, having some sort of understanding and care for that which is not sentient in nature, like animals and plants is part of what would make us morally better than the normies.

Hi brocel .
I am a sensitive myself .
I know what its like being a victim because we're too scared of standing up for ourselves . Fear of confrontation . Fear of fear itself even .
I too as of now am searching for answers in how can I make sure to be less sensitive .
I do however plan on keeping that sensitive side to an extent .
One that I plan on doing hopefully is learning to fight . I'm hoping as I learn , being trained by brawlers and warriors , at least some of that toughness will rub off on me with .
I've tried other methods such as treating my bullies horribly back , standing up for myself and more . However I realized with time , that this is just our natural self brocel . You must not , I repeat , you must not be too hard on yourself for being sensitive . Yes its true , we are seen as weaker and are prey for normies . They like how sensitive we are , how easily we are to be injured by insults even . I pray we don't go too extreme and lose all sense of sensitivity in search to be less sensitive . I am not a monster like normies . Hence , that's why I am sensitive . It doesn't come natural for me .
I'm wishing you the best in this journey brocel . I hope to hear how you progress .

 

[Inceldia]

You should not watch animal videos like that. Only watch human death videos. You should lose empathy for normies/humans but not for natural things like animals or plants, because those are organisms which are not sentient (therefore not responsible for their actions/inactions like a human is).

Some animals are partially sentient, to my understanding its more a spectrum than a black and white thing.
Some animals seem to understand that they are an individual (sense of self, self awareness), can plan ahead, have emotions, make judgements about possible outcomes and have basically prototype cultures and even simple medicine/ hygiene, very complex social hierachies and interactions. Usually people who talk like you dont know specific examples of these cases which leads them to believe that they dont exist, coming to a false conclusion. But I guess it also depends on how you define sentience.

Anyways, I think biology is interesting, but why should I care about gay ass animals that are part of this shitty world.
Most of the time they also dont give a fuck about you and would like to tear you to shreds so why should I care about them?
And if they are not sentient after all how you claimed what difference would harm to them make? wouldnt it be the same as destryong a micro wave or some other machine?

I started with animal slaughter stuff bc they are easier to get into. I will gradually increase the intensity of the content as I said.
This means I will eventually watch more and more human related stuff.

 

[Nemesis]

I can't. I was treated like shit by normies, but I still feel ephatic. It's genes, you can't fix that

 

[SuccessfulShark]

I am not very empathetic but I am still fearfull as fuck for some reason and in certain aspects

 

[ADHD_cel]

By thinking about how much this world owes you

 

[SnakeCel]

Some animals are partially sentient, to my understanding its more a spectrum than a black and white thing.
Some animals seem to understand that they are an individual (sense of self, self awareness), can plan ahead, have emotions, make judgements about possible outcomes and have basically prototype cultures and even simple medicine/ hygiene, very complex social hierachies and interactions. Usually people who talk like you dont know specific examples of these cases which leads them to believe that they dont exist, coming to a false conclusion. But I guess it also depends on how you define sentience.

Anyways, I think biology is interesting, but why should I care about gay ass animals that are part of this shitty world.
Most of the time they also dont give a fuck about you and would like to tear you to shreds so why should I care about them?
And if they are not sentient after all how you claimed what difference would harm to them make? wouldnt it be the same as destryong a micro wave or some other machine?

I started with animal slaughter stuff bc they are easier to get into. I will gradually increase the intensity of the content as I said.
This means I will eventually watch more and more human related stuff.

Yes I suppose there is more of a "spectrum" of sentience more than anything. You are correct in that, because certain animals like dolphins/whales/porpoises, elephants, canines, and ravens/crows are all generally very intelligent. Many of those species are comparable to humans in the ways that they act. And there are certainly specific examples of this stuff too for sure. Elephants have been observed holding funerals for their dead, dogs can learn hundreds of human words, and some corvids can figure out human-made puzzles with ease.

But I would not put them on the same level as a human in terms of responsibility. After all it is humanity's fault that I am an incel and a subhuman.

I'd like to think that nature (outside of most of current human society) is one of the few things worth keeping around or appreciating these days. But I suppose that is more of a personal view/choice however.