It has really nothing to do with your past retard, it has to do with the kind of person you are, there is NO CONTEXT in which I can hear a guy say - "I'm getting my dick wet, you will still be a virgin" or "dude stay mad while I got laid 35 times" and then he can come up to me playing as if he's "one of us".
Notice your response isn't something simple like - "Seriously I'm not lying, I got laid 35 times, stop coping", you went out of your way to VIRGIN SHAME LIKE A STACEY/CHAD but you want to waltz in here and pretend like you are one of us, I would never say the shit you did no matter my lay count, I'd admit to the count, but I wouldn't virgin shame, because I would remember how shitty I felt being a virgin and doing that to another man would basically be like doing that to myself.
Lets say you have a 5 inch penis, and you were about to approach a girl at a bar to try to get her to go home with you, she's talking to a fellow roast, both laughing their asses off, and as you get closer you hear her say - "what a loser he didn't even have 6 inches, small dick bitch". Are you telling me you would even bother to continue your attempt or would you do the logical thing and just avoid her. Guess what, YOU ARE THAT BITCH AT THE BAR, it doesn't matter what you have to say at that point because your very words shows your mindset and the kind of person you are, there is no context in which she could say "5 inches is too small and laughable" and it would make her datable to a man with 5 inches, its an absolute statement. Just like there is no context in which you can virgin shame and it would be "alright" and I could associate with you.
So don't get it confused, people don't hate you really because you have a high lay count, we hate you because you're a virgin shaming prick pretending to be "one of us", when you are one stacey away from going back to virgin shaming us again, that's the kind of person you are.