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Iv been thinking about this a lot of recent and having read a lot of posts of here by other users with some having physical disabilities to being attacked by family it's actually made me feel more privileged than I did before looking at myself objectively. I was born in a first world country, I'm able bodied, I have a decent family, just to name a few. Even though I still am a incel and I would say my life is pretty shit compared to the rest of my peers I still am grateful for the life Iv got. I was just wondering if anyone else felt this way as well?
 
it’s pretty bad
 
Awful
To the point where I started to hate sub5 lifemoggers on this forum
 
Middle of the Pack compared to the rest of the forum
 
Some of us are in a worse position than others, I really don’t envy some people’s living situations on here.
 
I do not know. I have a white-collar job and have an advanced degree, but I also have a severe mental illness that I have to take medication for as I cannot function without it, and it has landed me in a mental hospital for three days when I was 15.

When I got out, the school forced me to be escorted everywhere by an aide to keep me in "line-of-sight" on school grounds as the principal thought I was a potential danger to other students even if he said that it wasn't my fault that I was the way that I am.

I cannot really hide my condition, and in college, girls were afraid of me because of it, and even among the people who were my friends there they all thought that doing anything romantic with somebody like me was out of the question, even if they tried to be sympathetic about it.

Now here I am later, KHHV at 41. I am little more than a worker drone as I am just some NPC to most people at work, and I doubt things are going to change for me at this point.
 
I'm literally deathnic, it's ovER.
 
Iv been thinking about this a lot of recent and having read a lot of posts of here by other users with some having physical disabilities to being attacked by family it's actually made me feel more privileged than I did before looking at myself objectively. I was born in a first world country, I'm able bodied, I have a decent family, just to name a few. Even though I still am a incel and I would say my life is pretty shit compared to the rest of my peers I still am grateful for the life Iv got. I was just wondering if anyone else felt this way as well?
Im still young so I still have some hope left.
But honestly im sure if I could ever get a foid in this dating market.
 
atleast some people living in first world countries and they can cope with alcohol or goyslop foods i live in 3rd country alcohol is so damn expensive because it's haram. Food is expensive too :feelsbadman:
 
I am a cripple with osteogenesis imperfecta therefore I mog other users in terms of suffering and sheer loneliness. The only person that could rival me is @cripplecel if he actually is crippled irl.
 
No one suffers more than me.

naruto shippuden GIF
 
I am a cripple with osteogenesis imperfecta therefore I mog other users in terms of suffering and sheer loneliness. The only person that could rival me is @cripplecel if he actually is crippled irl.
Forgot to mention I also deal with PTSD from past traumas related to my condition and got OCD since 2019. Very "nice".
 
Pretty bad, but at least I'm generally in decent health. I guess the fact that my parents haven't kicked me out is also a plus.
 
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I mean I've read some real horror stories in my time here. But everyone's pain is unique and so is mine. I doubt anyone went through as much physical abuse as I did
it’s pretty bad
He says with Stacy's mouth around his cock
 
Bad but some users have it way worse, like one was homeless etc
 
Both my mental and physical health may be fucked but I'll at least be able to neet out for 1 more year or so
 
Decently good considering I live in a good part of Australia, have decent physical health and live with my parents (they don't even pressure me to get a career much).
 
objectively, a lot of people here would probably say i have a good life. i make good money, work remotely, can buy pretty much anything i want materially.

realistically, i go long periods of time without having any real human interaction. im an oldcel and health issues are catching up. no copes actually work anymore due to depression. i think about roping all day, every day.
 
Okish , 1. World , neetbux
 
I have everything. Uglycel,mentalcel,have mild autism,bullied since elementary school,no friends,never dating,virgin, socially outcast,discriminative workplace, everyone looked down on me. The only thing i have right now is my terrible job and source of income to rent a roof over my head and not being homeless.
 
This question becomes redundant once you realize that there is literally nothing in life that matters except sex. Everything else is just distraction. You would trade the roof above your head and the fridge full of food in an instant if it meant you could bang supermodels whenever you like. Observe normies when they aren't actively trying to gaslight anyone and they will straight up admit they would kill themselves without sex and women. There never was and there never will be anything other than trying to bed as many/the highest quality women as possible.

The truth is EVERY man who cannot have sex despite wanting to already leads the worst possible life. Discussing which of them has it worse is like deciding whether to drop 5 or 6 nukes on a farmer's village, it's ridiculous and misses the point. I would give hand and leg if it meant I would finally have an active sex life. I would move naked into dirt and eat shit for the rest of my life if that meant I wouldn't be a fully grown man-virgin anymore. I would sell myself into slavery, I would go to the frontlines, I would jump off a cliff into certain death if I just wasn't this fucking autistic ugly incel anymore.

Sure, on top of all the shit I could also be missing an eye. Or be deaf. Or quadrileptic and homeless. What does it matter? No pussy is no pussy. We aren't even alive anyway. Don't ever think you're experiencing life as an incel, you aren't. We are just serving a very long, empty and boring prison time. To be an incel is to suffer, every single day until you die, miserably and alone. I don't have it worse than you or him or them. We are all ugly men who are unwanted and will never feel home in this world.
 
Have it better than most honestly.

Average income in a first world country, good relationship with my family, even if one of my parents have passed. No physical heath problems, mentally messed up bad though.

6 foot tall and have a full head of hair too.
 
This question becomes redundant once you realize that there is literally nothing in life that matters except sex. Everything else is just distraction. You would trade the roof above your head and the fridge full of food in an instant if it meant you could bang supermodels whenever you like. Observe normies when they aren't actively trying to gaslight anyone and they will straight up admit they would kill themselves without sex and women. There never was and there never will be anything other than trying to bed as many/the highest quality women as possible.

The truth is EVERY man who cannot have sex despite wanting to already leads the worst possible life. Discussing which of them has it worse is like deciding whether to drop 5 or 6 nukes on a farmer's village, it's ridiculous and misses the point. I would give hand and leg if it meant I would finally have an active sex life. I would move naked into dirt and eat shit for the rest of my life if that meant I wouldn't be a fully grown man-virgin anymore. I would sell myself into slavery, I would go to the frontlines, I would jump off a cliff into certain death if I just wasn't this fucking autistic ugly incel anymore.

Sure, on top of all the shit I could also be missing an eye. Or be deaf. Or quadrileptic and homeless. What does it matter? No pussy is no pussy. We aren't even alive anyway. Don't ever think you're experiencing life as an incel, you aren't. We are just serving a very long, empty and boring prison time. To be an incel is to suffer, every single day until you die, miserably and alone. I don't have it worse than you or him or them. We are all ugly men who are unwanted and will never feel home in this world.
Why would you degenerate yourself to this level for a girl your grovelling at there feet like a dog your the type of person who gets cucked just so they can fuck there wife once a month
 
My life is very good. I have good working body only some pain from stomach. I am not blind or deaf. And I have good phone, Xiaomi phone with hd screen for YouTube. And I eat pav bhaji and chicken burger in McDonald today like a rich guy in England. And I have apertment to live with big fan. And also balcony to watch from. And my parents is here with me. My life is good. I thank for my life and I thank that I am not disabled. I see many disabled here and I try to give some money for food.
 
Iv been thinking about this a lot of recent and having read a lot of posts of here by other users with some having physical disabilities to being attacked by family it's actually made me feel more privileged than I did before looking at myself objectively. I was born in a first world country, I'm able bodied, I have a decent family, just to name a few. Even though I still am a incel and I would say my life is pretty shit compared to the rest of my peers I still am grateful for the life Iv got. I was just wondering if anyone else felt this way as well?
i doubt that there are many users here with a worse life than mine. im probably in the top 10 or so I think
 
I used to think to do suicide but my uncle died in car acident when he is 22. And my mother become very sad because of this. I want my mother to be happy and I want us to cry in Happiness not in sadness.
 
Probably about average
 
Why would you degenerate yourself to this level for a girl your grovelling at there feet like a dog your the type of person who gets cucked just so they can fuck there wife once a month
We aren't talking about 50yo men in dead-bedroom marriages, we are talking about young people in their biological prime - most people here are in their 20s or 30s. It's an enigma to me how someone posting on incels.is can call their life "average" or even "good". Your entire trajectory has led to this very moment. Was it worth it?

Your peers are fucking each other to mush right now while you sit inside your room reading this comment. You don't have a good life just because you aren't terminally ill or poor. Guess what? Basically EVERYONE your age is healthy and not homeless. That is but bare minimum. The only difference is that they have something you will never have.

Stop gaslighting yourself into thinking your life is alright and sex isn't that important. You have been manipulated into being content with nothing, literally nothing. Your income doesn't matter, your roof doesn't matter. You are an unwanted virgin, no woman wants to touch you. Always remember that.
 
When I first joined I would've thought that I would've lifemogged the average user here but after spending a year and a half here I've realised how many larpers there are here and I think the average user here lifemogs me by a bit. My life has gotten a bit worse since I joined since a couple months after I joined was when I lost the energy to even attempt to mask as a normie and I haven't really talked to anyone at all in the past year.
 
We aren't talking about 50yo men in dead-bedroom marriages, we are talking about young people in their biological prime - most people here are in their 20s or 30s. It's an enigma to me how someone posting on incels.is can call their life "average" or even "good". Your entire trajectory has led to this very moment. Was it worth it?

Your peers are fucking each other to mush right now while you sit inside your room reading this comment. You don't have a good life just because you aren't terminally ill or poor. Guess what? Basically EVERYONE your age is healthy and not homeless. That is but bare minimum. The only difference is that they have something you will never have.

Stop gaslighting yourself into thinking your life is alright and sex isn't that important. You have been manipulated into being content with nothing, literally nothing. Your income doesn't matter, your roof doesn't matter. You are an unwanted virgin, no woman wants to touch you. Always remember that.
I did not call my life or said anyone else's life on this forum is good I said compared to others on this forum my life is good you absolute fucking mong. And obviously I know love and sex are one of the most important aspects of life but sometimes you have to make the best out of shit situation and find your worth somewhere else in life instead at crying in the dirt
 
Much the same, I wouldn't really care all too much. It's not like living in a home than being homeless makes me feel better about myself.
 
I think I would made it on a list of the top 20 users here with the worst lives.
 
I have problems most users here don't have, but I lack certain problems many have. I have my own advantages and disadvantages so I'll give you guys a rundown and let you be the judge.

Ways I have it arguably "better" than many users:

1) I'm 6'1 (taller than the average user here despite most here being zoomers)
2) I'm basically NT or NT-passing. Decent social skills.
3) I had plenty of friends and was in a lot of different social circles when I was younger.
4) I'm White-passing
5) I live in the first world, and I'd argue the best one.

Ways I have it arguably "worse" than many users:

1) I'm almost 40 years old, older than 95 percent of the forum at least
2) I have a low IQ
3) I have a stressful minimum wage job (fast food)
4) Severely botched circumcision (missing glans, never felt sexual pleasure in a tactile sense)
5) Health problems that (probably) aren't going to kill me but degrade my quality of life
6) Hundreds of rejections in real life

Ways I'm about the same as most users:

1) KHV (Single H, not KHHV)
2) Ugly

Things I'm not sure what category to put them in:

1) Low inhib. (I'd argue this is a negative but for some reason many think being low inhib is good so I'll put it here)
2) Employed. (shitty stressful job, but not a NEET like some here)
3) Still incel despite multiple surgeries

When I was much younger I probably had it better than the average user here. But now that I'm old (and have a bunch of age-related "debuffs"), I think that makes my life maybe a bit worse than the average user. The only thing I can say with confidence is I'm not in the top 20 percent, nor the bottom 20 percent.

I'll let you guys be the judge though. I suspect that many here, perhaps most, would see me as having it better than most here. A good chunk probably think I'm a fakecel. I had an idea for a thread a while back where I'd list these things and make a poll saying if they thought I had it better, worse, or about as bad as them....I suspect I know what the results would be though.
 
sometimes you have to make the best out of shit situation and find your worth somewhere else in life instead at crying in the dirt
There is no "making the best" out of an incel life. There is no worth in you besides your sexual value. If you are ugly and unwanted, you have no purpose and will never be happy. There is no carrying on and learning to live without it. We are sexual beings who will never have sex. Suffering never ends.
 
Im probably on the better site, the only thing I can say that are shit in my life is beein a sperg, depressed and Incel which is probably the thing for most people on this forum, I have a job (I just hate tge concept of working not my job in particular), my family didnt kicked me out of the house and sometimes I even have a social life besides work and family
 
You'll realize soon if you spend any substancial amount of time here that alot of users from the way they describe themselves probably don't belong.
 
I think I have it better than most users here. I have a job and I'm good at organizing, making plans for myself. I think I can distract myself much better than most, I make myself busy all the time so I don't have time to worry about not having a girlfriend.
 
Things that some users here have better than me:
  • degree
  • job
  • other forms of social integration apart from having a girlfriend (I'm a failure in every aspect, to the point that inceldom is the least of my worries right now)
  • money
  • height
  • IQ
  • age

Things that some users here have worse than me:
  • homelessness (rare)
  • physical disabilities or physical genetic disorders such as Klinefelter's (rare)
  • age
  • being indian or black
  • not having any skill
 
You have been reported for bragging
 
First world easy life, no debilitating health

I don’t suffer in any real way. I’m the typical ‘no pain, no pleasure’ incel with no life
 
I’m have a comfy life so good atm.
 
Used to be better, now probably worse. It just keeps becoming more over
 
Average. Some mfs are friendhaver social normies with good (((careers))) while some others are schizo hikki went outside last time 4 years ago ,4 feet 3 inches tall with a face that makes elephant man look like gandy leeching of half dead parents with no way to earn livlihood, 99.97% chance to be homeless in the near future, chronic unbearable pain and crippled.
 
I have the worst life by far and it's not even close. My life is so chaotic and shit that I can barely post here due to all the mental strain.
 

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