This question becomes redundant once you realize that there is literally nothing in life that matters except sex. Everything else is just distraction. You would trade the roof above your head and the fridge full of food in an instant if it meant you could bang supermodels whenever you like. Observe normies when they aren't actively trying to gaslight anyone and they will straight up admit they would kill themselves without sex and women. There never was and there never will be anything other than trying to bed as many/the highest quality women as possible.
The truth is EVERY man who cannot have sex despite wanting to already leads the worst possible life. Discussing which of them has it worse is like deciding whether to drop 5 or 6 nukes on a farmer's village, it's ridiculous and misses the point. I would give hand and leg if it meant I would finally have an active sex life. I would move naked into dirt and eat shit for the rest of my life if that meant I wouldn't be a fully grown man-virgin anymore. I would sell myself into slavery, I would go to the frontlines, I would jump off a cliff into certain death if I just wasn't this fucking autistic ugly incel anymore.
Sure, on top of all the shit I could also be missing an eye. Or be deaf. Or quadrileptic and homeless. What does it matter? No pussy is no pussy. We aren't even alive anyway. Don't ever think you're experiencing life as an incel, you aren't. We are just serving a very long, empty and boring prison time. To be an incel is to suffer, every single day until you die, miserably and alone. I don't have it worse than you or him or them. We are all ugly men who are unwanted and will never feel home in this world.