[Hookercel]I'm going to stop masturbating to porn, it has ruined my ability to coom.

[Incel_Because_Short]

I visited three escorts so far, and I couldn't coom, every single time.

What's the fucking point of visiting an escort if you aren't going to coom? It sucks, it's basically blueballing yourself.

Problem is that the way I coom makes it virtually impossible to coom with an escort.

I watch HD porn where you can see every single detail of the girl in every position, ensuring that at every point in time, I'm getting visual stimulation as I'm fapping. That's not how it works in real life. Even POV videos do not show what real life sex looks like. In POV videos, there is a camera centered on the woman's pussy, ass, tits. In real life you're staring at either her face or the mattress for the most part. Even if it is the hottest girl that you're with, it doesn't really matter because you're rarely seeing her in the act.

Also the way I masturbate is fucking awful for actual sex. When I fap I'm either literally fapping a dry mattress or I'm dry rubbing my penis in a way that absolutely no vagina can even come close to replicating. In comparison, it feels like a vagina is lightly petting your penis, little to no friction, especially when you're wearing a condom.

Combine the two together, and it ends up virtually impossible to coom in actual sex. I've essentially trained my-self to only orgasm while watching another dude fuck a girl, and only orgasm to that through intense friction. How fucking cucked is that?

It's extremely cucked so I'm going to stop doing it.

From now on, I'm not going to use porn to fap anymore, and I'm going to train my-self to fap with lube and softer touches. Once I'm able to cum reliably with less friction and no visual stimulation, I'll start seeing escorts again.

 

[apoptosiscel]

Good for you. I’ve successfully backed myself off of that kind of fapping. Been a few years. It’s possible to do it. Good luck.

 

[radishman]

Could never finish myself either. Can't really give it up though and as an incel don't see the point since we'll never get foids.

Maybe try viagra for escortsessions?

 

[grondilu]

Took me a few attempts to be able to ejaculate too. The first time was with a handjob. I would suggest you try that.
Then ejaculating during penetration should happen eventually.

I suspect it's more a psychological thing than anything. Like you know how some people can't pee when there's someone around.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

Why all here write "coom" and not "come" or "cum"? I've literally not seen that word anywhere else!

I have serious premature ejaculation problem, porn has not helped cure it. I don't think I would have any problems cumming with a prostitute, even if I was on an SSRI to last longer. Actually premature ejaculation is one big reason that I have not visited escorts. Too much money for 10 seconds of fun.

I envy you. I watch much less porn and masturbate much less than I would if it did not always end before it barely started.

 

[TINMAN]

Do you fap while lying prone? That's super bad for your penis

 

[Incel_Because_Short]

Could never finish myself either. Can't really give it up though and as an incel don't see the point since we'll never get foids.

Maybe try viagra for escortsessions?

Yo it's not that I have a problem getting an erection. I can keep it up without problem, but for some reason I cannot coom.

If I'm going to be doing this regularly, I might as well have it be enjoyable.

 

[radishman]

Yo it's not that I have a problem getting an erection. I can keep it up without problem, but for some reason I cannot coom.

If I'm going to be doing this regularly, I might as well have it be enjoyable.

Okay gotcha. Whenever I was with an escort I could never truly get it as hard as when I'm solo with porn so I thought we had a similar issue and that's why no coom. I've debated doing the pill if I ever went back to whoremongering (ironically blue pilled )

 

[Incel_Because_Short]

I envy you. I watch much less porn and masturbate much less than I would if it did not always end before it barely started.

Lasting longer is only an envious thing if you're getting genuine sex.

With an escort it literally does not matter how long you last. You're not there to please her and show her sexual prowess. You're there to enjoy yourself and get off.

I'm telling you, nothing is more painful than spending 20 minutes pounding a hooker trying to coom, then having to give it up because it's just not happening. You're not only out your money, but you're still dissatisfied and your balls ache.

Do you fap while lying prone? That's super bad for your penis

That's what I've been doing. I lie on my bed prone and hump the mattress underneath. I've gotten used to cumming like that. I know it's wrong.

 

[Quarantined]

I'm worried about that

 

[grondilu]

Why all here write "coom" and not "come" or "cum"?

Because it's funnier

I'm telling you, nothing is more painful than spending 20 minutes pounding a hooker trying to coom, then having to give it up because it's just not happening. You're not only out your money, but you're still dissatisfied and your balls ache.

Yeah, I feel you, man. It's also worrying because you end up wondering if you'll ever be able to go "all the way".

It took me a while, and it was quite a relief when I could finally ejaculate inside.

You gotta to keep trying.

 

[ShiiOfTheSPLC]

I have been jacking off like 3-5 times a day for years and I unironically worry about developing erectile dysfunction tbh. I have tried to nofap but never get very far because I have high libido

 

[TINMAN]

That's what I've been doing. I lie on my bed prone and hump the mattress underneath. I've gotten used to cumming like that. I know it's wrong.

Then that's probably the reason; prone masturbation is known to cause decreased sensitivity. Regular fapping doesn't cause that unless you have a death grip, and even then it's to a much lesser extent.

If you keep doing it eventually you're going to start getting erectile dysfunction.

 

[Incel_Because_Short]

I have been jacking off like 3-5 times a day for years and I unironically worry about developing erectile dysfunction tbh. I have tried to nofap but never get very far because I have high libido

I don't think you'll get erectile dysfunction, but you'll very likely have trouble cooming irl.

Then that's probably the reason; prone masturbation is known to cause decreased sensitivity. Regular fapping doesn't cause that unless you have a death grip, and even then it's to a much lesser extent.

If you keep doing it eventually you're going to start getting erectile dysfunction.

Yeah that's why I need to quit.

The funny thing is that with prone masturbation I can coom in like 1 minute if I really am motivated to, then with an escort literally all I feel I'm doing is a core workout.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

With an escort it literally does not matter how long you last. You're not there to please her and show her sexual prowess. You're there to enjoy yourself and get off.

The enjoyment lasts so little time that it's not worth doing (even masturbating!) and my orgasms and ejaculations are also very weak.

I sometimes take an SSRI to masturbate. I can last 1-2 minutes if I take a big dose.