Serious Honestly, those who do not have close friends, how do you do it???

[Deleted member 4760]

Honestly, how do you cope without any close friends?

I just reached out to a very close brother that has been my friend since ealry high school years. The fam just came to my house and for the first time I was able to tell someone how lame I was relationship wise; told him I had tried to date for the past 4 years, had successively gone to hookers, got massively rejected during online dating and that my confidence plummeted, resulting in a heavy dperession these past months.

The fam understood my struggle and prayed for me on the spot. I already feel better tbh...

But man, without people like these...Just rotting alone in my mom's basement...I don't understand how you guys cope without have any friends (as of close friends, not workmates or acquaintances)...

 

[VileGeneticTrash]

I haven't had friends since I was 13. I've barely seen my family since I left home at 18. I went close to a year talking to no one and not using my voice (not including fast food workers at the drive thru)

 

[Evildoer]

I never had any friends, didn't have any problems so far, most people don't worth my attention anyway.

 

[Deleted member 4760]

I haven't had friends since I was 13. I've barely seen my family since I left home at 18. I went close to a year talking to no one and not using my voice (not including fast food workers at the drive thru)

How do you not turn completely crazyéé

Did our Rodger boy have close friends?

 

[FiveFourManlet]

Too non NT and violent to have friends tbh

 

[TheHumanFactor]

Friends are useless to me

 

[0er0]

Although I like to think there's people that think about me, I can't say I have any close "friends" just people I can rant to and will listen to what I have to say which I suppose is what it is, I can never maintain a conversation due to being a autistic faggot so I usually let the other person do the talking which is fine for casual conversation but It means I can never build a true friendship.

 

[theson]

I coped for a long time by drinking all weekend and doing things where people are forved to be around me (college, part time classes, work, etc). Now I will just kill myself.

 

[Mickeyonacid]

Now I will just kill myself.

See you tomorrow

 

[ihavenoclue]

How about not having any friends at all, not just lacking a close one.

 

[RopeShow]

Honestly, I don't crave and feel the need for affection anymore, last time I had friends was when I was 23 .

 

[Jockcel]

Not everybody is low inhib NT chad like you.

 

[Deleted member 1410]

36 here, have like 1 or 2 close ones and only ones. most are too busy making families and whatnot. my closest one is blackpilled as me, lived a much harder life than I did. we enjoy each other's friendship because we like sick jokes, we game, and like to talk about deep, esoteric stuff. something an average thot would never do. piece of advice, women come and go, the best thing is to have a close male friend you can rely on and talk about things that women are too pea-brained to understand, capiche?

 

[monkeyman]

Family members, pets

 

[theson]

See you tomorrow

I didn't literally mean now. I'm still scared and trying to work up the willpower. I also need a good opportunity to do it so no one will find me.

 

[grayjedi90]

Honestly, how do you cope without any close friends?

I just reached out to a very close brother that has been my friend since ealry high school years. The fam just came to my house and for the first time I was able to tell someone how lame I was relationship wise; told him I had tried to date for the past 4 years, had successively gone to hookers, got massively rejected during online dating and that my confidence plummeted, resulting in a heavy dperession these past months.

The fam understood my struggle and prayed for me on the spot. I already feel better tbh...

But man, without people like these...Just rotting alone in my mom's basement...I don't understand how you guys cope without have any friends (as of close friends, not workmates or acquaintances)...

It's hard. Next week i will be 28. Never had any real friends or a girlfriend. In general i just can't connect or relate to other people no matter what i try to say. They show me that they are bored with me and end the conversation pretty quick.

I live not at my parents anymore. I have a small rented flat, work a shit wageslave job too pay my bills (can't find something better because im dumb and talentless). Coming home to your lonely place gets to you. I cope with videogames, anime, tv shows, reading and alcohol. I only have one gaming buddy who i visit once or twice a year and maybe go to gamescom with him, but that's about it. Doing things alone everytime sucks hard and i honestly can't say how much longer i can take it.

 

[TheRealChincel]

I never had any friends, didn't have any problems so far, most people don't worth my attention anyway.

 

[iFartAtRoasties]

I cope by not working and being a parasite to the normie society. I wasn't allowed to have a youth having spent it being stomped on my face by normies, I'm not going to be suddenly adult now and work for them.

 

[Anger]

We don't, our copes will run out of fuel sooner or later until we rope.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

By being depressed.

 

[Ethiocel]

I haven't had friends since I was 13. I've barely seen my family since I left home at 18. I went close to a year talking to no one and not using my voice (not including fast food workers at the drive thru)

i'm the same. had no friends all throughout middleschool and highschool and the past 2 years i've been living with my family. also went to college for 1 year before withdrawing. i'd talk so little i literally have to talk to myself for a few minutes everyday to not lose my voice. i remember asking a hot librarian in uni for help and i couldn't say a single word the entire time because i hadn't spoken for weeks on end it was surreal.

notice how we both have no avis? it's a sign that we developed no real personality due to our shut in life style. we're true loners. the only plus is that we've never been rejected before so there is still a tiny shred of hope for the future.

 

[TheNEET]

I've never really had friends
I'm schizoid, so I don't really need (or want) social interaction, but sometimes having someone to talk to would be nice
unfortunately, not only I'm not NT enough to make friends, I also can't find a single potentially suitable person
I'm trying very hard not to be judgemental, because I know I'm not perfect either, but I've had way too many experiences where I was meeting someone and it seemed we were becoming closer, but suddenly they started to hate me for no reason - normies would literally tell me to kill myself for no reason, I can't comprehend that, it seems that many of them are simply evil
sometimes it's not that specific, but people turn out to be terrible people very fast: normies would admit to me that they'd gladly genocide all ugly people, all non-NT people etc. etc.
I'm really trying not to hate normies, but they aren't making it easy - literally every single person I've met irl turned out either to be literally genocidal or to hate me (for being ugly or not NT enough?) sooner or later; I'm trying to rationalise it by going 'not all normies', but it's been 100% of them so far (to be fair, I haven't met that many people irl in general, but even online normies exceed my worst expectations)

Not everybody is low inhib NT chad like you.

 

[Picassocel]

It sucks that i don't have any real friends, but it is largely my fault anyway. I was too scared of rejection and closeness whilst developing depression too boot.

 

[VileGeneticTrash]

I developed an American accent because for years I haven't heard my native English accent spoken. The only voices I hear are Americans on youtube, movies, tv series etc.

 

[blackcel]

Such a normie thing to ask.

Can't miss what you never had.

 

[Adzie]

i have never had a real friend and it sucks, makes me think about how many good experiences i missed out on and continue to miss out on. I spend every summer alone in my mum's house including now. Lack of social skills makes normies ghost me even if i try to get closer to them. Thank god for porn and youtube, my only copes.

 

[theundeadburg]

I just don't have any friends. I cope by thinking that this is the reason I don't have a gf. Would rope tbh without this cope.

 

[Figthcel]

Jusr stay on the internet to entertain yourself.

Or go to work.

 

[Yurak Hunt]

The only really good friends I ever had were basically copies of me in terms of interests, hobbies and opinions.

 

[Figthcel]

We don't, our copes will run out of fuel sooner or later until we rope.

Yep

The cope is running low low
The rope is getting near
The cope is running low low
The rope starts getting real

 

[Nemo9065]

Too ND to have friends.

 

[Deleted member 7081]

Never had any real friends besides one IRL, but recently he's been going quiet on me for months. Asked if he wants to hang out, but keeps saying he's "busy" and doesn't message me for a very long time afterwards. I'm pretty much friendless with real people and only have a couple online friends I can interact with.

 

[ColdLightOfDay]

Too non NT and violent to have friends tbh

In what way are you violent?

 

[Deleted member 60]

I don't know any different. Haven't had close friends in over 10 years. My family doesn't even give a fuck about me.

Although I like to think there's people that think about me, I can't say I have any close "friends" just people I can rant to and will listen to what I have to say which I suppose is what it is, I can never maintain a conversation due to being a autistic faggot so I usually let the other person do the talking which is fine for casual conversation but It means I can never build a true friendship.

holy shit, relatable

 

[FiveFourManlet]

In what way are you violent?

little things can set me off

 

[Fluorine's_Sin_20]

Honestly, how do you cope without any close friends?

I just reached out to a very close brother that has been my friend since ealry high school years. The fam just came to my house and for the first time I was able to tell someone how lame I was relationship wise; told him I had tried to date for the past 4 years, had successively gone to hookers, got massively rejected during online dating and that my confidence plummeted, resulting in a heavy dperession these past months.

The fam understood my struggle and prayed for me on the spot. I already feel better tbh...

But man, without people like these...Just rotting alone in my mom's basement...I don't understand how you guys cope without have any friends (as of close friends, not workmates or acquaintances)...

i have neither friends nor family.......
my cousins died when i was respecively 9 and 11.... cuz of drug use.....
and i got CFS when i was 13 yrs and haven't had a "normal" social life since then.
the only thing that kept me going for all these yrs was that things would eventually become better!
but things have become better, my CFS is almost gone!
but, it is so damn easy to go back to old habits and sleep 24/7..... SO i think a GF might help me out of CFS, because i become forced to stay awake.
RISE, from the ashes!

 

[ColdLightOfDay]

little things can set me off

Do you physically attack or just get in their face angry?

 

[FiveFourManlet]

Do you physically attack or just get in their face angry?

both normally

 

[Deleted member 126]

I can't make friends. Not even online. I am insufferable.

 

[ColdLightOfDay]

both normally

Can you give an example? Or is that too personal to ask?

 

[Fluorine's_Sin_20]

Can you give an example? Or is that too personal to ask?

DON'T ask him, maybe he gets offended and kicks you

 

[Deleted member 10124]

With great difficulty. Reading. Going to the gym. Interacting here etc. Work obviously. I've got quite literally a hand full of family relatives I interact with.

 

[FiveFourManlet]

Can you give an example? Or is that too personal to ask?

if someone goes out of their way to annoy me or something, i will try and fight them.
For example someone shoulder barged me on purpose, i will just start punching and if they fight back i will flash the piece of metal on my waist and then they suddenly have no problem anymore or stop fighting back.

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

only had close friends and only 2 of them in my lifetime they were my neighbors grandson and his cousin and had to move away from them due to finacial problems

every since then its me and my right hand in this cold cold world...