Instead I blame female cause it's not right to judge a person only based on his apparence
There's no such thing as "right" or "wrong", those are made up human concepts. In nature (the world of biological reality) all animals judge eachother based on their appearances.
Whether it's determining who is the leader of the group, what animals are dangerous to attack and/or eat (there's a reason why brightly coloured plants and animals are avoided, it indicates poison), and of course who has good genetics for the purpose of mating and reproduction.
I've never been rejected by a 300 pound landwhale, but I've also never approached a 300 pound landwhale, and that's because I don't find their appearance attractive.
Women's standards are definitely unrealistic, I think that's the point you should have went with. But to say that were not supposed to judge people based on their appearances is ridiculous. We all literally do this everyday as a species.
Yeah tell yourself you don't deserve anything like idiot @BlkPillPres claims. You deserve everything you claim you deserve.
There's no such thing as "deserve", it's a made up human concept.
We can say that X hours of physical labor makes one deserving of X amount of money, but there are people who are born into wealth, and they make many times that amount while doing nothing all day but partying and relaxing.
In a universe with no true structure for "meritocracy" or "fairness", there can't be anything like "deserving" or "being owed" either.
It's all in your head.
In this world, the only things you get are:
1. What you are born with (genetics, wealth, etc).
2. What you gain through luck (winning the lottery, etc).
3. What you claim for yourself through your own efforts (within the law - like wage slavery).
4. What you take from others through deception and/or force (outside the law - like selling drugs).
BUT NOBODY "DESERVES" ANYTHING.
I just saw my face in pics taken at a recent family event and I am hideously ugly. Everyone else's faces look completely normal but mine is just horribly deformed. Just looking at it makes me cringe it's like a subconscious biological instinct. If my own face disgusts me so much I cannot imagine what other men, let alone females, think of me. I wish I never ever had to leave my room
I wouldn't say I'm hideous, but I'm definitely unattractive. But the thing is, unattractive men were getting laid since the beginning of time. Giving women the ability to make money and own property is what has "changed the game".
So you can't keep looking at this issue as a "what women do" problem.
This is a "what are YOU willing to do, to get what you want" problem.
Abandon your ego, know your lane, choose a path, be objective, and pursue your desires.
There's no point in looking at this issue as you "not being selected".
Let me make this simple. If you aren't willing (or capable) of enjoying sex with a woman that isn't expressing consent and mutual enjoyment, then give up and kill yourself already lol. As a below average man you have to be willing to take what you want or get it through coercion, and you have to be of a mind in which you don't care if the woman is satisfied or comfortable.
It's about your want's and needs, not hers.
You have to be focused on yourself, everybody else comes second.
If you can't do that, you're just wasting your time even talking about all of this. You're just going to remain stuck in the quality of life you are in now, till the day you die. A sad and slow crawl over decades and decades of suffering.
If you can't choose to live solely for yourself, then you aren't really living, because so long as your "happiness" is dependent on others reciprocating affection, as a below average man you will never have any kind of "happiness".