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This is it, this is the one: (read every fucking single word)
additionally i'll attach couple more threads debunking the love nonse
>lust will be lost
>and attachment is nowhere to be found
observe:
Stay away from people and for those who “want to get close” don't let them. Keep them at arm's length.
What people call “love” is really a tool to control, use and abuse other people. That's what makes the whole “love” thing a bunch of bullshit.
If someone says “I love you” it's a lie. They don't love you, they're using you and that word to boost their own ego. They are only out for what THEY can get out of “loving you”.
Like that song goes, only fools fall in love. Smart people see love for the bullshit it is.
Since you are of the latter category, you have learned about what bullshittery this “love” thing is and you won't fall so easily for a person who wants to use “I love you” to be a predator.
Don't be daunted by the “but humans are social creatures who NEED connection” bullshit, that's cope of the highest order.
You as a Human, you're a organic machine that consumes pleasure all the time until you die. Humans interactions are nothing but an exchange of information. Humans want to gain intel about each others to manipulate themselves better.
Manipulation is an thought process that body creates in order to survive and maintain the will to live via the pleasures of the world.
Live for you and for yourself only. Forget about “love” and others because they are there just to manipulate and use you.
additionally i'll attach couple more threads debunking the love nonse
- ''Love'' main element attraction!
>lust will be lost
>and attachment is nowhere to be found
observe:
What is love?
- The notion of love is in fact purely a social construct that consists of ideals perpetuated by mass media and exist as societal norms; to ensure social order, alike the sanctity of matrimony, aimed at the simplification of legal dispute refinances, property, maintenance of children etc that would arise with polygamy.
- The idea of romantic love has gained force from the 12th century. But even then, it was not love as we see it nowadays. Love redefines and reconstructs itself according to the world’s new needs, visions and ideas.
Romance is an idealistic deception, an illusory feeling that gets stronger with distance and obstacles. Romantic love is instilled into every facet of Western societies to mislead people to see what they want to see, what they imagine and perfect the other person to be like inside their heads, removing all sorts of imperfections and finally resulting in the idea that two people can blend into one and lose their individuality.
What is romantic love objectively?
Romantic love can be broken down into three categories: lust, attraction, and attachment. Each category is characterized by its own set of hormones stemming from the brain.
Love can be distilled into three categories: lust, attraction, and attachment
- Testosterone and estrogen drive lust; dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin create attraction; and oxytocin and vasopressin mediate attachment.
- Lust is driven by the desire for sexual gratification. The evolutionary basis for this stems from our need to reproduce. The hypothalamus of the brain plays a big role in this, stimulating the production of the sex hormones testosterone and estrogen from the testes and ovaries.
The testes and ovaries secrete the sex hormones testosterone and estrogen, driving sexual desire. Dopamine, oxytocin, and vasopressin are all made in the hypothalamus, a region of the brain that controls many vital functions as well as emotion. Several of the regions of the brain that affect love. Lust and attraction shut off the prefrontal cortex of the brain, which includes rational behavior.
- Attraction involves the brain pathways that control “reward” behavior. High levels of dopamine and a related hormone, norepinephrine, are released during attraction.
- Attachment is the predominant factor in long-term relationships. The two primary hormones here appear to be oxytocin and vasopressin.
- Like dopamine, oxytocin is produced by the hypothalamus and released in large quantities during sex, breastfeeding, and childbirth, the common factor here is that all of these events are precursors to bonding.
We all know what bluepill cucks think when they read the title, that famous crippled guy with a hot wife, that an fat friend with an OK-looking GF, or any other outlier you can think.
But the truth is, love doesn't exist... at least in its pure form, the more honest type of romantic affection that IS real, is when a person likes someone's appearance, this is the only time when something similar to love takes shape.
We all know personality is bullshit, so I wont even talk about that. Redpill cucks will say money and status is the answer. They may be right when we talk about getting sex, because there is a chance a foid will use sex to get access to your resources and, in the end, you just use her for sex, but what is the difference between that and an escort? I don't see one.
But in a world where women are making much more money than men, even this option is starting to get scarce, that's why a lot of normies are becoming redpill and even blackpilled. The amount of money a normie would need to make to compensate for their lack of looks is absurd. It is the type of money he will only be able to make when he is in his 40's or even more.
But even then, even if a normie is now able to get a foid interest in his money and status, she is now older than in her 30s. She doesn't feel the "love" that she would feel for a good looking guy in his prime, she doesn't love him, she tolerates him so she can enjoy the benefits of his efforts of the "mah grind".
Any level of attraction that doesn't involve looks is bullshit and is not true affection and it is dishonest.
