Its not a defeatist mindset that i have, but a realistic one
Its not realistic at all to spend the rest of your life chasing a dream you will never have
A lot of you guys are just masochists as far as I'm concerned
Its like having a feast in front of you but you just keep on saying - "Yeah it tastes good and I'm full, but I didn't hunt and claim the meat myself so it doesn't count and I can't really enjoy it"
That's self imposed suffering, you could literally just change your perspective, but in a way I guess its outside of your control because you still believe a lot of what you were raised to think, and so long as you are still viewing existence within the normie ruleset you were raised under, its impossible for you to see these things any other way
I don't know how you guys think you're being realistic when nothing you believe has to do with "real life", society and civility is an illusion, none of this is real
"Validation is important" -
FALSE - Only matters in the context of a modern society in certain situations, if you were raised 1000's of years ago you wouldn't give a fuck
"I want love and affection" -
FALSE - You were
RAISED to want these things, and if you simply stopped valuing them
YOU WOULD NOT CARE
Every single belief that you are basing your perspective on is shit you were indoctrinated to believe ironically by normies, yet you selectively reject other blue pilled things you were thought, and that's the most confusing part about all of this
If you guys would merely
EXTEND YOUR REJECTION OF THE BLUE PILLED WORLD A BIT FURTHER, you would not care about these things, but you draw a line in the sand about what blue pilled beliefs are worth holding on to (likely due to morality, another blue pilled concept)