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Blackpill Having a good personality will only help you make friends but not a girlfriend

Logic55

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From my experience, having a good personality will certainly help you make new friends but if you want a gf in 2024 you must have a model face.
Personality matters more than looks for making friends

And looks matter more than personality for dating and seeking a romantic and sexual partner.
 
what is a "good personality"?
 
looks affect friendships as well.
 
neither

normies don't care about personality, only about shallow things. they are NPCs, they don't know what a personality is

'Just improve your pERsonality :soy: ' is a meme
 
There are ugly normies with great social lives but with no gf. If you want a gf in 2024 you need to look like a male model like Sean O Pry
htn is entry level
chad lite is the standard
chad is the best of the best
anything below these can't get a proper gf who will be loyal if they do get a gf she will cheat like with that 'never give up' guy
 
neither

normies don't care about personality, only about shallow things. they are NPCs, they don't know what a personality is

'Just improve your pERsonality :soy: ' is a meme
 
as a truecel, I’ve had expERiences at univERsity in which I was with a friend/group of friends who wERe all at least Normie-tiER in looks, and then we met a NEW group of people (people we’d nevER met before or who my friends knew but whom I’d nevER met), and this new group hardly evER said anything hateful towards me, but they would make faces of disgust and hatred towards me and many times would introduce themselves to evERybody in my friendship group EXCEPT me (if we wERe all meeting them for the first time). If my friends knew them from before, when my friends would introduce me to them they didn’t even show any acknowledgement of my existence.

ConsidERing the fact that I behave normally in public and don’t do anything extremely odd to make myself easily noticeable based on my behaviour alone, nor did I evER approach a NEW group of people with hateful body-language or vERbal language, the only explanation for the cold treatment shown to me by the NEW group of people is that they didn’t like my looks.

So yes, even people who you’ve nevER met before (who haven’t even heard you say a single word before) won’t even give you a chance to show them your pERsonality because they will reject you before you can even open your mouth, due to being unattractive (despite you behaving completely normally and politely).

Despite the difficulties I’ve faced in making friends when meeting new people (because of my ugly looks), I have had a few good friends because in the rare instances when people gave themselves a chance to actually get to know my pERsonality, they liked me for who I am as a pERson and wERe able to ovERlook my ugly looks

But I was NEVER able to have any free consensual sex, so clearly my pERsonality can’t be the reason I can’t attract women given the fact that a pERson’s pERsonality actually mattERs “somewhat” for socialisation and making/maintaining friendships, and I wouldn’t have had those few friends in the first place if my pERsonality was at fault

Incels who have friends completely debunk normies’ claim that our “bad pERsonality” is the reason why we can’t have free consensual sex, because although looks definitely mattER when it comes to both dating and friendships, pERsonality mattERs MUCH MORE when it comes to friendships considERing the fact that a “friend” is NOT someone you intend to have sex with (so logically we place LESS importance on “looks” when it comes to making friends and MORE importance on pERsonality)

given the fact that a pERson’s charactERistics can only be reduced to 2 categories: LOOKS (body/physical) and PERSONALITY (mind/mental), if our pERsonality is NOT the problem when it comes to making friends (whERe pERsonality mattERs much MORE), logically pERsonality must ALSO not be the problem when it comes to sexually attracting women (whERe pERsonality mattERs much LESS), so the problem can’t be anything othER than our LOOKS
 
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True to some degree, but even making friends depends on looks.
Normies will never accept Trucel looking guys in their social circle.
If you are LTN, you will be the scapegoat of the group.
There is a hierarchy within friend groups
 
Am near mute from years of torment
 
True to some degree, but even making friends depends on looks.
Normies will never accept Trucel looking guys in their social circle.
If you are LTN, you will be the scapegoat of the group.
There is a hierarchy within friend groups
Lol, the fact that there is a hierarchy in social groups goes to show that normies are judgemental pieces of shit
 

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