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no,no therapy 4 ur face
Yes. About 2 months of schema therapy.
I did. I'm currently toying with the idea of critiquing the idea of "just get therapy" often prattled by normies, as if it is a panacea for our problems. It's almost dismissive hearing it.YOU MADE THIS THREAD
Friendly reminder to get therapy
Society will mock, bully, and reject you to the point where you are a shadow of your former self, but you need to get le therapy according to normies. This implies your pain and anger is not valid and you should change; not society. You're wrong, not society. You're the bad guy, not society...
i see. it sounded like you haven't gained anything of value after your sessions. I'm thinking finding a good and effective therapist is a challenge in itself.
it sounds as if therapy is a form of self hypnosis or deluding yourself to the point where you become bluepilled, even though reality is inconsistent with your bluepilled worldview.
my father is a relationship psychotherapist. good ones can have some valueable advice. Personally I like the Jungian orientation. I learned a lot from Jungian psychology. I also learned a lot of things from a classmate. Therapy can help you because you get an outside perspective on yourself. But in my case I often had that my therapist would have a worse and negative image of me, while I had a positive self image of myself. If a therapist devalues you in that way or can't see your positive qualities. It's a back and forth and a mutual bond. Therapy relies on trust and it's not garuanteed that you will find that with each therapist. No matter how healthcare providers might think otherwise.
therapy can make things worst. it's funny that normies even suggest "just get therapy", thinking it will help you.
i agree with this. when my life feels stagnant, i fall into a deep depression. i cope by keeping my mind occupied doing various things like work, hobbies, drugs, etc
I can relate. When you are gaslighted with bluepills for so long, uncovering the truth can help you move forward, despite how brutal the truth is. It's better than endlessly running around in circles.
indeed. rather than fixing the root cause (society), therapy is like bandaid solution. If society was a system, It's implicit that broken men like us, are a bug; something to be fixed and patched up. But i think we're a feature.
Dame I'm scared as shit now, probably my therapist did the same. That's the reason I don't say shit anymore.
| ParadigmaticAnon Join Date: 2016-01-25 Post Count: 182 | #182856464Monday, February 01, 2016 6:25 PM CST Yes, society is heavily contaminated with narcissistic scum that have superior social-capabilities. I am frequently patronized by my worthless colleagues as being an inferior male individual because of my mediocre employment performance, which stems from various disabilities. |
i think it might help if the therapist was also in a similar situation as ours. but then again, he would probably be running around trying to find a therapist himself.
