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Discussion Have you ever attempted to approach a foid before?

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I have never because I’m too nervous and insecure. I don’t want to be brutally rejected when I feel like they hate me to begin with. I’m not the ugliest guy ever but I am 5’9, have small hands, anxiety, depression, autism, big forehead, weird nose, fatcel (have been losing weight though) also have a small dick but not like they would ever find out regardless.
 
Absolutely not, and I'm 28. I'm 5'4" and while this clearly and needless to say was a deal breaker, the biggest one was always my face. I couldn't get a gf even when I was 14-15, where many guys were about my height and they had a growth spurt later on. My face is unimaginably strange, like being 3 feet tall.
 
Yes numerous times.
 
No, for pretty much the same reasons. I don't need to personally experience the pain of rejection to know to stay away from foids. The internet is my eyes and ears. :feelsthink:
 
Absolutely not, and I'm 28. I'm 5'4" and while this clearly and needless to say was a deal breaker, the biggest one was always my face. I couldn't get a gf even when I was 14-15, where many guys were about my height and they had a growth spurt later on. My face is unimaginably strange, like being 3 feet tall.
Luckily I’m not the ugliest ever but im not some mogger or anything problem is like I said I’m not that tall and I am mentally ill. I feel like girls can just sense my inferiority.
 
'm also autistic, my dick is also not big at all at 6.3 inches (like you, not that they'd ever find out), also I have speech impairment (stutter and problems with saying words) and again, my face is androgenic and very deformed.
 
No, for pretty much the same reasons. I don't need to personally experience the pain of rejection to know to stay away from foids. The internet is my eyes and ears. :feelsthink:
Real
 
'm also autistic, my dick is also not big at all at 6.3 inches (like you, not that they'd ever find out), also I have speech impairment (stutter and problems with saying words) and again, my face is androgenic and very deformed.
6.3 is above average mine is like 4 inches
 
6.3 is above average mine is like 4 inches
brutal :feelsbadman:

I don't feel small but many on here say 7 inch is minimum? Idk, either way, women were always disgusted by me. There's zero reason I'll ever get a gf. oh and I have no irl friends

What do you think will happen if you were to approach a girl?
 
brutal :feelsbadman:

I don't feel small but many on here say 7 inch is minimum? Idk, either way, women were always disgusted by me. There's zero reason I'll ever get a gf. oh and I have no irl friends

What do you think will happen if you were to approach a girl?
I think 99% of us would get rejected and if they said yes it would be to use us for money only
 
Luckily I’m not the ugliest ever but im not some mogger or anything problem is like I said I’m not that tall and I am mentally ill. I feel like girls can just sense my inferiority.
"ugliest person I've ever seen" is something I overheard a few times from different people. One at school 10 years ago and a few times random strangers. Yeah I don't think I will ever ask a girl out.
EDIT - they never say such things to me directly, but about me.
 
brutal :feelsbadman:

I don't feel small but many on here say 7 inch is minimum? Idk, either way, women were always disgusted by me. There's zero reason I'll ever get a gf. oh and I have no irl friends

What do you think will happen if you were to approach a girl?
Thing is I’m always in doubt whether im ugly or not I feel like I might be but if I’m not I’m still not attractive enough to get a gf even if I looked better I’m still mentally fucked up. So I don’t want to take my chances approaching.
 
Thing is I’m always in doubt whether im ugly or not I feel like I might be but if I’m not I’m still not attractive enough to get a good even if I looked better I’m still mentally fucked up. So I don’t want to take tang chances approaching.
Fair enough man. How old are you anyway?
 
I did three times and got rejected each time
 
try fucking a whore dude, after you cum in that bitch you will realize how worthless foids are
 
Fair enough man. How old are you anyway?
I’m only 18 but have the same looks since 15 and have the same height and dick size. Actually I think if anything my looks are getting worse because I’m always stressing. Idk if I even want to go to college .
 
I’m only 18 but have the same looks since 15 and have the same height and dick size. Actually I think if anything my looks are getting worse because I’m always stressing. Idk if I even want to go to college .
Can you do remote-learning college? I did that. It's lonely but is/was the best option for me.
 
Cold approached two times, neither worked
Tried to approach with text messages/social media, didn't work either
 
I tried dating apps but the best I got was 1 date before being ghosted
 
I have never because I’m too nervous and insecure. I don’t want to be brutally rejected when I feel like they hate me to begin with. I’m not the ugliest guy ever but I am 5’9, have small hands, anxiety, depression, autism, big forehead, weird nose, fatcel (have been losing weight though) also have a small dick but not like they would ever find out regardless.

Yes, I tried asking a fat bitch in a bar if she wanted to dance, and she just shook her head confused like I was doing something wierd. This is why I want to kill everyone that ask me if I have a gf, or acts surpised I don't have one. I even had this one nigger-Spic bitch that was cutting my hair just suddenly say that I 'need a girlfriend" out of nowhere.
 
Yes, I tried asking a fat bitch in a bar if she wanted to dance, and she just shook her head confused like I was doing something wierd. This is why I want to kill everyone that ask me if I have a gf, or acts surpised I don't have one. I even had this one nigger-Spic bitch that was cutting my hair just suddenly say that I 'need a girlfriend" out of nowhere.
Fuck that nigger
 
No. I can't even conversate with males. I used to have social anxiety, but not anymore. It's not about that. I literally have nothing to say to people. I don't find them interesting and I really don't find myself interesting and I'm insecure about it. I have never connected with anyone. I like talking to my dad, though I wouldn't say we have a strong bond, certainly for father-son standards, we are basically just friends. I can't imagine what it would be like if a girl actually wanted to be in a relationship with me. I would constantly worry about boring her. It would take 10 minutes for someone to hear every interesting thing I have to say, and then they'd realize I am incapable of thinking up things to talk about.
 
No. I can't even conversate with males. I used to have social anxiety, but not anymore. It's not about that. I literally have nothing to say to people. I don't find them interesting and I really don't find myself interesting and I'm insecure about it. I have never connected with anyone. I like talking to my dad, though I wouldn't say we have a strong bond, certainly for father-son standards, we are basically just friends. I can't imagine what it would be like if a girl actually wanted to be in a relationship with me. I would constantly worry about boring her. It would take 10 minutes for someone to hear every interesting thing I have to say, and then they'd realize I am incapable of thinking up things to talk about.
I have the same relationship with my father. For me I can talk to some guys but I just prefer to distance myself and have became more anti social due to that. When it comes to women I’ve always been shy and insecure around them which is why I never approached any.
 
Yes, I tried asking a fat bitch in a bar if she wanted to dance, and she just shook her head confused like I was doing something wierd. This is why I want to kill everyone that ask me if I have a gf, or acts surpised I don't have one. I even had this one nigger-Spic bitch that was cutting my hair just suddenly say that I 'need a girlfriend" out of nowhere.
the one and only time I tried was in a bar as well but on a stacy. after the first 3 words I spoke she turned away. approaching is just gay and stupid.
 
Yes

worst decision of my life
 
Plenty of times, including landwhales, grandmas and a girl with down syndrome. Of course it didn't work because of my horrible face
 
I approached more than 530+ foids to be exact, hit or miss
 
Plenty of times, including landwhales, grandmas and a girl with down syndrome. Of course it didn't work because of my horrible face
Brutal
 
yes, first she looked at with disgust, then laughed and walked away
 
I got a few foids, I messed up a bit, I lost alot. Lol I got like 20 numbers in total and 2 dates. Still incel
???

Mogs me to the center of a black hole, I never even gotten a number :lul:
 
Not with a stranger, but people I knew beforehand or from other friends. I was invariably rejected of course.

However, I never did this with a stranger, as not only could it turn into a sexual harassment allegation with cops getting called, but then you would have to deal with all of the orbiting simps and white knights that would invariably show up to make you miserable.
 
???

Mogs me to the center of a black hole, I never even got a number :lul:
I'm low inhib skinny thugmaxxed high IQ boy, that's why. I stopped feeling bad over rejections
 
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I'm low inhib skinny thugmaxxed high IQ boy, that's why. I stopped feeling bad over rejections
I see.

Cool profile picture by the way bro
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I got a foid's email once in school guys (only for an assignment). do you think she was into me?
 
However, I never did this with a stranger, as not only could it turn into a sexual harassment allegation with cops getting called, but then you would have to deal with all of the orbiting simps and white knights that would invariably show up to make you miserable.
same experience school was retarded
 
I have never because I’m too nervous and insecure. I don’t want to be brutally rejected when I feel like they hate me to begin with. I’m not the ugliest guy ever but I am 5’9, have small hands, anxiety, depression, autism, big forehead, weird nose, fatcel (have been losing weight though) also have a small dick but not like they would ever find out regardless.
Not in person, that's a complete suicide as an ugly guy, I have only tried in dating apps and by texting
 

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