Have you ever approached to a girl?

[AnxiousAtypical]

I plucked up the courage to approach girl that seemed to caugh my eye. I thought putting myself out there and try start a conversation will the best way to build my sel-confidence when it comes to girls but what happened when I approached her she looked at me like ‘eww’ for a good second then she walked off.

Tell me your story.
Once an incel always an incel. I wasn’t incel by choice it’s society that made me an incel.

 

[acnescarcel]

i asked out this girl i had a crush on in high school she said she wasn't ready to date yet jfl

 

[AnxiousAtypical]

i asked out this girl i had a crush on in high school she said she wasn't ready to date yet jfl

That’s not bad. At least she didn’t arrogantly and rudely walk away

 

[Jockcel]

nah

 

[acnescarcel]

That’s not bad. At least she didn’t arrogantly and rudely walk away

yeah it wasn't bad just seemed like a lie, but who knows i haven't seen her since high school maybe she really wasn't ready yet. then again awalt.

 

[▼▼ ΔQUA .biz ▼▼]

Yeah, but that is because when I hung out with mates, their girlfriends would show up and me and one other friend are the only single ones. [suicidefuel]

 

[San Salvador]

Yes. I failed.

 

[Cerebral hypoxia]

@Jockcel @AnxiousAtypical
If you haven't approached at least 25ish times while looksmaxxed you really can't call yourself a truecel tbh tbh

I've approached about 15, most of them co-workers, some in community college. I think those girls forever think I'm a creepazoid. And it's not like I'm going for white stacies. In fact the only white chicks I asked out were fat pigs. I got one girl to say yes to a date. And right as we were done eating she mentioned her bf jfl. At least she insisted on splitting the bill though

 

[VST]

Yeah, in school to no avail.

I don't approach anymore as I don't have anyone to go to bars/clubs with and the daygame doesn't work as I've seen a few baldcels get rejected when roaming after work in major cities.

 

[Currycel4Life]

So many times dude... went badly each time.

Sometimes they'd flat out reject me, walk right through me.

 

[Notgoingtomakeit]

They all have boyfriends.

 

[Deleted member 6329]

Never approached, but I did awkwardly ask out this one girl who I was kind of friends with but told me she just got out of a relationship. Come two weeks later she got herself a bf. Jfl

 

[ColdPillow]

I approached a few girls when I was in high school. One of them became ‘friends’ with me but really only uses me when there’s a weed hookup or if she needs an ego boost. I’m useless to her anyway. The other girls ignored me and didn’t even listen to what I had to say.

 

[idkwattodowithlife]

Yes. They were times where I've built up friendships, but got rejected by the end of it. They were times where I've hung out with other girls coming to find out that they had boyfriend's or were lesbian, so usually I've just left it at that. Also had no luck with online dating. All of which is a major reason as to why I'm here. I don't dabble too much of the thought of having a girlfriend, because it's simpy too unrealistic (or perhaps even unimaginable), and even getting over the hump you'd have to deal with cheating/break-ups. That further facilitates the need of not wanting a girlfriend or rather not bothered to trying to score. And all coming to an end, that looks matters, and the fact I'm ugly.

 

[theundeadburg]

nah, maybe one time in middle school

 

[Deleted member 6101]

No, I'm too much of a joke in the looks department for it to be realistically viable. I'm so outclassed in SMV by even the most subhuman of women that it's unreal.
You don't compete in Tour de France on a childrens bike with support wheels.

 

[Haircutbro]

Yes i have, and never had a negative expierence with it, which really build my confidence in that regard
Im an autist with words, but my body language is really strong
The thing is, i have hunter eyes, and i get compliments for them from time to time, so its somewhat easy for me to make things happen
When im on the beach, im just hiding my fucked up chin, and lower third, by a towel or something, that i use as a pillow, and im just scanning the area
Then when i find someone that i like, i just stare at them
But i do it in a way, where it does not seem creepy ( you have to be somewhat normal looking for that to work )
So when our eyes meet, i just look away, so she gets interested, and then i do the whole, you know, we look at eachother, i smile, look away look back etc
So when she is interested, i just go up and ask for her number
And till now, i got it everytime
But
After that, we maybe chat for some time, or we meet once, and then its over
I can pick up girls, but the hard part comes after that
Im not sure, but i always fuck it up, because the confidence i have, picking up girls, does not match my confidence when im on a date with them, or im not that good in terms of knowing what these girls want to hear from me
I mean i have my mental frame, and i dont like stepping out of it, only to impress a girl or something
So its like, after picking her up, we see that we dont fit together personality wise
Either way, picking up for me is not that hard, i mean sure, it does not work always, they dont always show interest, but if they do, and i approach, i always get the number
But after that, it gets fucking hard
You have to be confident like james bond, with the humor of a top class comedian, the personality of her dream guy, and be really talk active, knowing exactly what to say
Those things vary also from girl to girl, so your chance of actually succeeding even after getting the number, or going on a date are basically zero
The only way to somehow get a girlfriend nowdays is, by being friends with one, when like she is the friend of a girl a buddy of yours is in a relationship with, and you go out together, and over time get to know eachother
Thats the only way it works, everything else does not
Forget about approaching girls, i have so many numbers on my phone from girls, i dont even know, which one is which
And i did not get laid once
Forget it

 

[Awoo]

I've asked numerous girls I liked out in my younger days, they all rejected me. These days I dont even talk to girls at all.

 

[CyborgIncel]

One girl I talked to a lot one night told me to stop being so "pushy" when I asked her to dance a couple of times, and some other girl with the same deal told me she "doesn't date younger guys" when I asked for her number. That's the extent to which I've approached girls.

 

[WidefacedCel]

Nope I’m too subhuman

 

[AmeriCel64]

I asked out a girl once when I was in middle school. She went "WHAT?" and rejected me and I never brought it up again. I found out that by Freshman year she had sucked Chad off. Now, she is a "lesbian" .

 

[Getlooksordie]

hundreds during my pua days.

 

[FoidsDeserveCancer]

I plucked up the courage to approach girl that seemed to caugh my eye. I thought putting myself out there and try start a conversation will the best way to build my sel-confidence when it comes to girls but what happened when I approached her she looked at me like ‘eww’ for a good second then she walked off.

Tell me your story.
Once an incel always an incel. I wasn’t incel by choice it’s society that made me an incel.

When I was drunk i asked every girl i knew to make out with me. Every answer was a no

 

[Colin]

I've approached around 80 so far.

At first I felt a sense of accomplishment from pushing myself out of my comfort zone and I enjoyed it. In my early days I talked to some stunning girls who were much more receptive than I could have imagined.

Now it's become an increasingly tedious process that just results in rejection time after time after time. I can rarely even get a girl to stop and talk with me now.

My reference experience is telling me that, unless you're exceptionally good looking, it's simply not going to work.

 

[Timecel]

I've probably asked for directions once or twice, but I'm too high inhib to do anything indicating that im interrested since im high inhib.