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Serious Have you ever approached a woman in your life?(POLL)

Have you ever approached a woman in your life?(POLL)

  • Yes, I have

    Votes: 71 63.4%
  • No, I haven't

    Votes: 41 36.6%

  • Total voters
    112
IamLost

IamLost

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I never approached a foid in my entire life. So my count is at zero. There is no hope for me.

What about you guys?

How does it feel to be rejected?

Do they look with disgust at you?
 
6'3 volcel

I made more than enough approaches and got rejected every time
 
Yes bro. I’m autistic and very high inhib so you can imagine how awkward it was..

It was the kind of thing you’d see on those cringe compilation videos. Absolutely horrible. Wish I could forget it all.

It hurts being rejected. Especially the first few times and yes they looked at me with disgust. Like they were insulted that I dare approach them. Some even laughed.
 
not PHYSICALLY but online so no
 
I approached 5 women and got rejected
I dont even count online ones. Approached 5 physically
 
  • Incel (Allowed): Person who wishes to be in a romantic relationship, but is unable to despite numerous attempts and a significant amount of time trying.
that's what the rules here are. if you haven't tried you are a fakecel and should not be here as per the rules
 
that's what the rules here are. if you haven't tried you are a fakecel and should not be here as per the rules
that's what the rules here are. if you haven't tried you are a fakecel and should not be here as per the rules
I cant approach a woman. Women are so mean to me. They have this look of total disgust if they see me. So they basically reject me before I can approach them.
They look at me like this:
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I've been daygaming since April this year and while it's not the normal "rejections" that hurt so much, it's more that look of "Wtf are you doing" which then turns to worry which is hurtful.

That look when they assume you are a mentalcel for even trying to approach them. I've had quite a few of them.

Approaching just seems so random and fruitless sometimes. You've got to make it into an automatic habit before it really becomes effective.

The environment has a lot to do with it, unless you are a chad, street approaching is probably the weirdest form of approach and if you're face doesn't fit, a woman has no idea what you are doing whereas with a chad she would know immediately.
 
40% are volcels. cool. about what i expected :feelsbaton::feelsbaton::feelsbaton:
 
The sting of rejection is unforgettable. The shame of another human being acknowledging you as genetic trash, in front of their friends and your peers.
 
You mean 60% are volcels. Real Incels get rejected by women before they can approach them.
If you approach women = fakecel

brah you're 6'3 & white you could get a jungle-gook with some effort no matter how fucked your face is.
 
Kek. Im actually ashamed to say what kind of bluepilled shit ive done to get with foids.

All that matters in the end is that its useless.

Chad will get your oneitis/crush/dreamfoid with minimal effort while you will never get anywhere close even if you did do all the effort in the world.
 
I´m posting here, what do you think?
I mean what was it like? Did you at least get a fake number or something? Or were the foids totally disgusted by you approaching them?
 
I mean what was it like? Did you at least get a fake number or something? Or were the foids totally disgusted by you approaching them?
I got a gazillion numbers, but they all flaked. Most women were totally disgusted when I approached them.
 
I've been daygaming since April this year and while it's not the normal "rejections" that hurt so much, it's more that look of "Wtf are you doing" which then turns to worry which is hurtful.

That look when they assume you are a mentalcel for even trying to approach them. I've had quite a few of them.

Approaching just seems so random and fruitless sometimes. You've got to make it into an automatic habit before it really becomes effective.

The environment has a lot to do with it, unless you are a chad, street approaching is probably the weirdest form of approach and if you're face doesn't fit, a woman has no idea what you are doing whereas with a chad she would know immediately.

yeah you have basically the same experience i did in cold approaching, the country/culture you are in has a big factor

daygaming just doesn't work for unattractive guys, going up to women when they are walking to work or on their lunch break or something and trying to talk to them about 99% of the time you just get looks of confusion/mild annoyance. PuA is such garbage

approaching only works for attractive guys, yet they don't need to because they have so much pussy being thrown their way already. When a attractive guy approaches a woman and talks to her as you said, she knows what he is trying to do so his job is basically 10 times easier for him
 
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Despite being high inhib I managed to force myself to approach. Never went well.
 
Yes, never went well. I used to be a beta cuck orbiter. No more. No more.
 
In which country can I get a jungle-gook? Vietnam or Cambodia?
thailand and philippines are the ones i hear about most, but yea, any are pretty good.

should be able to get one in your own country tho. also if english isn't their first language they will be less sensitive to your autism (that's if you are autistic).
 
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Told a girl I love her on whatsapp and she just send these smileys: :D and tried to play it over
 
IRL: the last foid I approached said "aww thank you" when I told her I thought she was pretty and funny and that I'd like to take her out on a date that weekend. she then gave me her phone number and proceeded to never answer any of my texts.

Online: I've messaged about two dozen women on okcupid and not a single one ever replied back. i read all their profiles and actually typed up each message individually, i wasn't just mass sending messages.

from my experiences ive come to the conclusion that talking to foids is a complete waste of time if you're subhuman looking. you are literally invisible to females if you're ugly.
 
IRL: the last foid I approached said "aww thank you" when I told her I thought she was pretty and funny and that I'd like to take her out on a date that weekend. she then gave me her phone number and proceeded to never answer any of my texts.

Online: I've messaged about two dozen women on okcupid and not a single one ever replied back. i read all their profiles and actually typed up each message individually, i wasn't just mass sending messages.

from my experiences ive come to the conclusion that talking to foids is a complete waste of time if you're subhuman looking. you are literally invisible to females if you're ugly.

If you are answering with anything else besides "hey" to foids in dating apps you are wasting your time, if they are interested enought they will even send message first
 
No and i never will. I've been called ugly by them throughout my life. If i even tried to strike up a casual conversation with them they go cold. Fuck them.
 
You gotta at least try before giving up. If you haven't, get off this forum and come back once you've tried.
 
I've approached multiple women and some even approached me.
 
I've never cold approached with the intent to solicit a date. Every time I've naturally gotten to know a girl I'd find out she's in a relationship, about to get married, or a total slut.

Having a first date at my age would probably be the most autistic thing ever. :feelsautistic:
 
You gotta at least try before giving up. If you haven't, get off this forum and come back once you've tried.
It's useless. Foids always called me ugly, since puberty at least. So the only thing I will get if I approach a woman is the look of disgust.
It's over.
 
Only once in highschool, that sure scared off that bitch. Since then I haven't approached, since I know that I will get either rejected or used (cucked).
 
If you are answering with anything else besides "hey" to foids in dating apps you are wasting your time, if they are interested enought they will even send message first
you are correct. i didn't know any better back then but now it's obvious. i was wasting time and effort reading profiles/sending unique messages when millions of good looking guys just say "hey" and immediately get a date/booty call.

to this day foids will lie and say you should read profiles/send interesting messages etc. the lying cunts will then turn around and fuck the first chad who drops a 3 letter DM in her inbbox
 
Only once in highschool, that sure scared off that bitch. Since then I haven't approached, since I know that I will get either rejected or used (cucked).
Where are you from? Eastern Europe, Russia?
 
It's useless. Foids always called me ugly, since puberty at least. So the only thing I will get if I approach a woman is the look of disgust.
It's over.

Try a few times at least. You got nothing to lose.
 
Try a few times at least. You got nothing to lose.
I will get rejected, therefore I will even get more depressed and then I will kill myself.
In 2018 I was already rejected by two prostitutes. This is enough rejection for me.
 
It's useless. Foids always called me ugly, since puberty at least. So the only thing I will get if I approach a woman is the look of disgust.
It's over.
:feelsrope:
 
Yes

I have approached a whole village.
 
I will get rejected, therefore I will even get more depressed and then I will kill myself.
In 2018 I was already rejected by two prostitutes. This is enough rejection for me.

Okay you should have mentioned that beforehand.
 
No not yet. But next year, If I get more self-confident through my desired hairstyle and nose job, then I will try.
 
nah, i guaged interest with some that i saw frequently, and tried to find out if they are single by asking their friends or colleagues, they never were.

asking women randomly is a waste of time, you need to go where single women are likely to be, if you are unwanted you have to sell yourself at all the good markets like a travelling salesman, picking women at random for approach won't cut it, if i do it it will only be to feel 'alpha' nothing more
 
Yes I have made hundred approaches, all while drunk. I'm more met with rage than disgust, as if my approach offends them so much.
 
yep multiple times until the last time broke me and made me stop. havent tried in about 3 years now.
 
she then gave me her phone number and proceeded to never answer any of my texts.
And then normies ask why we hate everyone.

I dont get it why womens do this. You give you nunber and you dont replide back??? Fucking whore.
some even approached me.
This is Incels.is not volcels.is
 
Those who selected no should be banned.
 

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