Have any of you truly made peace with being a permavirgin incel?

[Manlet]

Has anyone truly made peace with being a permavirgin loser?
I know I would be a lot happier if I could so I could focus 100% on coping and experiencing the most I can out of life but thinking about how I will never experience human love and intimacy fills me with so much anger and rage that I can never fully except that this is really my life. At this point realistically I know it never began but I cant kill that little voice inside my head that says there's still a way everything can work out for me.
I just really dont want this to be my life but I dont see any way out, I would do anything to change my circumstances but when you are worth 0 it doesnt matter how much you improve because anything multiplied by 0 is still 0.

 

[fatass30000]

I don’t think believe that’s something you can ever come to terms with. With time, it just stings a bit less with each year.

 

[Soystein]

I have given up on changing my situation, but I have never made peace with it, it torments my mind every night.

 

[Manlet]

I don’t think believe that’s something you can ever come to terms with. With time, it just stings a bit less with each year.

Its getting worse for me. Discovering the blackpill just makes me more angry and sad, it didnt help me come to terms with anything and move on.

 

[Q. H. Cooks]

I didn't and I honestly think it's impossible. Maybe people who have serious hormonal or psychological problems that severely diminish their libidos and affectional needs can get close to it, but I don't think even them can do it 100%, let alone people with significant libidos and needs (the vast majority).

The drive towards reproduction is simply too strong. If we weren't tamed from birth by our cucked societies, we would probably risk death for a chance of pussy, because from a biological point of view, even high odds of death are worth risking for a significant chance of reproduction if you can't get any otherwise. Hell, even in our gigacucked societies, a lot of men become criminals and pussy is without a shadow of a doubt a major motivator for it. If every single guy was guaranteed pussy, criminality rates, particularly violent crime, would definitely sink massively.

Western civilizations are sacrificing everything to appease women. Safety, the well-being of children, the economy, etc. Above all, their very existence, since they'll all be replaced by Islam/chinks eventually in the current rate.

 

[Animecel2D]

Peace is a lie

There is only… suffering

 

[Just say NIGGER!]

Yes, pretty much.

 

[Wrath]

Embrace the Whitepill

 

[Zaraj11]

I tried to accept it, but secretly I hope that I can become a fakecel.

 

[fatass30000]

I didn't and I honestly think it's impossible. Maybe people who have serious hormonal or psychological problems that severely diminish their libidos and affectional needs can get close to it, but I don't think even them can do it 100%, let alone people with significant libidos and needs (the vast majority).

The drive towards reproduction is simply too strong. If we weren't tamed from birth by our cucked societies, we would probably risk death for a chance of pussy, because from a biological point of view, even high odds of death are worth risking for a significant chance of reproduction if you can't get any otherwise. Hell, even in our gigacucked societies, a lot of men become criminals and pussy is without a shadow of a doubt a major motivator for it. If every single guy was guaranteed pussy, criminality would probably sink by like 90%.

even if you have erectile dysfaction you will still feel a need for a companionship. If it was purely biological need then most of us would be happy with escorts. We have a deep need of being needed by someone and appreciated.

 

[WastedPotential]

There are periods in my life where I'm at peace with it and there are moments where I suffer a lot and think a lot about it.

I hope that eventually I'll become truly white pilled and can be at peace with it permanently but only time will tell

 

[all this time]

yes, gave up a while ago and jus cope now. sure theres days where it crawls back slightly, but i think deep down i always knew i would most likely end up alone even as a child. if i could never manage to hold down friendships how was i supposed to manage a girlfriend

 

[Q. H. Cooks]

even if you have erectile dysfaction you will still feel a need for a companionship. If it was purely biological need then most of us would be happy with escorts. We have a deep need of being needed by someone and appreciated.

True, I put it in terms of both sex and affection because "sex" without human contact (masturbation, dolls, etc) is not satisfactory and affection without sex isn't either.

 

[Manlet]

I tried to accept it, but secretly I hope that I can become a fakecel.

Its just over for me being 5'3. Even all the surgery in the world I would still be too short. I could probably improve my face a lot with surgery. But the thought of going through all this surgery just to maybe barely ascend and get the table scraps of what chad has been getting his whole life is just too depressing to me, even if I could afford surgery in the first place which I cant.

 

[Manlet]

There are periods in my life where I'm at peace with it and there are moments where I suffer a lot and think a lot about it.

I hope that eventually I'll become truly white pilled and can be at peace with it permanently but only time will tell

Yeah this is all of us I think. Depression comes in waves with periods of brief optimism so this makes sense most of us feel this way.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

No

 

[The Death Devil]

I wanted to leave a reply on Currycell's post that he made just earlier today about this, but I never got around to it.

I don't think one can ever truly be 'content' with his inceldom. You are literally the lowest of the low in society—a being that should not have been conceived. Nobody will ever treat you like a human being in any typical sense, so you may as well not be one.

You do, however, grow apathetic to it in time. I would hate to say that you 'accept who you are' because that sounds gay, but you know that you can't really change it and, therefore, you kind of grow into the identity. For instance, I don't really see being an incel as something particularly shameful—and I regularly tell people (online, at least) that I am one. I'm not 'proud' of being an incel, but that's just what I am. I am an unlikable virgin and will remain a unlikable virgin forever. It's just an aspect of my life I have to deal with. And, again, it's something that is endemic to my very identity as a person.

I cant kill that little voice inside my head that says there's still a way everything can work out for me.

Yes you can—and you should. There is nothing you can do to change your situation and you will remain here indefinitely. Aspiring for something that doesn't exist is a moronic ideal that will prove ultimately fruitless. When you strive for something impossible by telling yourself that it is merely improbable, you eventually become desperate and start settling for anything that even vaguely resembles your original ideal. Then you'll find yourself taken advantage of by some foid who strings you along with feigned displays of affection, and ultimately cons you out of something you possess.

'Twas the fate of many people on here, and you should know better than that.

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

In a sense; I don't try to improve, socialize or ascend anymore, humans are scum and I don't want to deal with them, I only focus on my copes and my evil masterplan.

 

[cafepeanuts]

not really, at certain times of the day i think i do but then i feel terrible about it later.

 

[ihatelife2]

I have no hope but I'm still angry about it and am not ok with it. I'm still bitter and despise sexhavers

 

[Shark]

It's impossible to fully make peace with it as long as you have a sex drive

 

[MokaWeed]

I’ve made as much peace as I can I suppose.

 

[fokusin]

I have given up on changing my situation, but I have never made peace with it, it torments my mind every night.

 

[iHaveEbola]

I don’t think peace is the right word and I wouldn’t know how to describe it. I know my situation wont change and it will only get worse as I get older but I cant accept how things are currently and i cant change it. just stick with it and forced to live this way

 

[Sportacus]

I have given up on changing my situation, but I have never made peace with it, it torments my mind every night.

 

[ULTRAMAN]

I will always regret being born

 

[Creamcel]

Not yet, I'm still going to try to ascend.

If I make peace with my inceldom, I won't have the motivation to try and ascend.

 

[psycho123]

I have given up on changing my situation, but I have never made peace with it, it torments my mind every night.

I will always regret being born

 

[itsovER99]

Nah

 

[TheIncredibleIncel]

I don’t think believe that’s something you can ever come to terms with. With time, it just stings a bit less with each year.

That's how virgins on 4chan describe it. They say it just slips from their mind little by little as they age. Oldest self-admitted virgin on 4chan was like in his 40s.

 

[OverLoner]

Incel yeah pretty much. Virgin nah I saw escorts and plan on seeing more.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

No, I hate females and want them to suffer.

 

[Rezecel]

Yes, i gave up

 

[Aspiegamercel]

I haven't made peace with it, I'm definitely angry and upset about my situation compared to almost everyone else that has had or will have sex and relationships. I just can't do anything about my situation.

 

[AutisticChad]

Has anyone truly made peace with being a permavirgin loser?
I know I would be a lot happier if I could so I could focus 100% on coping and experiencing the most I can out of life but thinking about how I will never experience human love and intimacy fills me with so much anger and rage that I can never fully except that this is really my life. At this point realistically I know it never began but I cant kill that little voice inside my head that says there's still a way everything can work out for me.
I just really dont want this to be my life but I dont see any way out, I would do anything to change my circumstances but when you are worth 0 it doesnt matter how much you improve because anything multiplied by 0 is still 0.

I tried to do it my whole life. But it seems I can only dissociate, which makes me feel absolutely nothing and it only works as long as there is something that completely captures my attention like a good game.

I think it is impossible, because it is evolutionary instinct. Women are programmed to only like certain percentage of men, but men are programmed to suffer a lot as long as they fail, so that they have to keep trying. It's designed to not be overwritten.

If you ask me I think human race, or maybe even life was a mistake. If a portion of population is doomed to suffer for the sake of sexual selection, it would probably be better if the whole process stopped.

 

[Gilgamesh]

I don’t think believe that’s something you can ever come to terms with. With time, it just stings a bit less with each year.

 

[Skoga]

Just look at the average foid and you will realize you are not really missing out on much. I'd rather stay single my whole life than date some ran through roastie with 5 different STDs and a 30 yard dick stare from the hundreds of cocks she has taken.

 

[Stormfrontcel]

i dont think its possible to truly be "at peace" with such a thing

 

[coursehawk69]

I do feel at peace mostly. I think I can attribute it to the passage of time obliterating the potential sense of pride one might get from losing it. It's too late for me.

At this point, there are several things I'd be more satisfied by achieving. Something similar to being a permavirgin insofar as it brings a sense of shame is a dearth of intellectual development. There's plenty of math I would like to study that I always put off, and if I ever got around to it, I'd feel good, even a sense of belonging, like imagining myself as part of the relatively small group of people in the world who understand [insert advanced math topic]. But if I lost my virginity? Oh congrats on joining that group which is full of fatasses and retards and all sorts of disgusting normgroids, and congrats on being 20 years late to the party.

Another thing I'd be proud to achieve would be becoming a successful indie game developer. It is rare to succeed, and that ties into a point I want to make. There are some things that are very hard to do, that are comparable to an incel losing their virginity. But the difference is that those things are hard for everyone, whereas virginity is like a personal curse - it's easy for the normies, so much that they can't comprehend how hard it is for us. This makes me prefer to try to do something that is hard for everyone than try hard for something others get for free.

 

[andrej]

You can always change it by getting a prostitute

 

[Erenincel]

i dont think its possible to truly be "at peace" with such a thing

True. Even if you find a passion and pursue it, you'll always miss it. Passion doesn't cure anxiety or depression caused by inceldom, nor does therapy, and there's evidence to support this.

 

[BeanChud88]

Has anyone truly made peace with being a permavirgin loser?
I know I would be a lot happier if I could so I could focus 100% on coping and experiencing the most I can out of life but thinking about how I will never experience human love and intimacy fills me with so much anger and rage that I can never fully except that this is really my life. At this point realistically I know it never began but I cant kill that little voice inside my head that says there's still a way everything can work out for me.
I just really dont want this to be my life but I dont see any way out, I would do anything to change my circumstances but when you are worth 0 it doesnt matter how much you improve because anything multiplied by 0 is still 0.

No and I don’t think we should make peace with it, it’s literally impossible it’s hardwired in our biology

 

[Paladin]

I don't think so. I'll probably start coping and try to ascend again at some point in the future when the loneliness gets to me more.

 

[Wither]

I have given up but idk abt accepting

 

[cactusjuice]

yes, it’s giga over.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

"Coming to terms" with inceldom is like coming to terms with having some kind of horrific disease. Sure you can accept the reality and gravitas of the situation, but you can never really make peace with it. At best, you will only find better distractions and coping mechanisms ― but the pain and sense of emptiness will always be there.

 

[superpsycho]

I have not made peace with it, I never will. I’m still trying to ascend and overall just achieve a better life for myself in general before I get too old, but it seems more and more impossible as the days go by.

 

[DriveLikeNigger]

I've made peace with it since before i could consciously understand the BP or inceldom. But making peace with reality didn't give me peace of mind. Instead, i'm more pissed and jaded than ever , seeing reality for what it is, experiencing firsthand the unfairness of the world. It pisses me off to no end that there will never be a proper closure to my life story. Born alone, stood against the world alone and dead alone. I'll probably be buried alone too. The unjustness of it is what torments me , nothing else matters at this point.

 

[NIGGA BANBAN]

To some extend, yes.

I've always been aware that I was the "odd" kid. I never thought of myself as someone who will ever get married or have an actual relationship with the opposite sex. So even before blackpill, I knew it was over for me and no woman will ever love me. But I still feel bitter and jaded for all these whores who wish death upon me for being short and ugly.

I feel disgusted by their nature and find them repulsive as human beings. They are cockroaches with skin of a butterfly.

 

[Spice]

I’ve made as much peace as I can I suppose.