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LDAR has anyone here tried lucid dreaming for coping/simulating sex etc.?

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I'm interested in lucid dreaming, primarily because I would be able to kiss, hug/cuddle, and fuck Megumin. I'm a little lonely, so I thought that it would be nice. But it seems like it could be difficult to do this, idk.

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Yes. But accidental.
 
I could never do it, tried for a few months.
 
High dosages of melatonin, preferably 30-50mg.
 
I had a lot of lucid dreams but they were usually short, I am not good enough yet to stabilise them and prolong them, and revolve around me being in my room touching/feeling stuff before the dream ends, it is indistinguishable from reality (the high level lucid dreams, there are various different levels too), it requires practice and consistency to get more of them (you can also take various supplements that would make your dreams more vivid and increase the chance of having lucid dreams). Reaching what you want to achieve which is summoning a character would require a lot of practice beforehand (by that I mean improving your dream recall by writing down your dreams everysingle night and getting used to the lucid state)
 
I’ve tried it but could never do it.

Seems like a forced meme anyway.
 
I feel sorry for people who try to lucid dream. My regular dreams are damn well good and trippy enough, although they almost never simulate sex etc. to be fair though...
 
Yeah, never worked. I still have really interesting dreams every night.
 
I want to get into it.
 
I feel sorry for people who try to lucid dream. My regular dreams are damn well good and trippy enough, although they almost never simulate sex etc. to be fair though...

I can’t even dream :feelsrope:
 
My sex dreams seem to come randomly, I can't lucid dream, however the problem I always encounter is that I wake up during them, I'm never allowed to just enjoy it. I can't tell if it's the arousal waking me up, or if it's because it's so unbelievable that I realize I'm dreaming.

Often I try to imagine something as innocuous as kissing or cuddling, but this is very difficult even when concentrating. Meditation seems to help me visualize a scene, but it can't tell me what a kiss actually feels like for instance.
 
Man,this is best thing ever. I see lucid dreams so often and I dont even try it.

Lifefuel but suifuel at the same time
 
Only got Lucid for like 30 sec after trying for months. Its really hard.
 
I've been lucid dreaming for about 15 years now. The sex is "mechanically speaking" superior to escorts, if anything, I deeply regret wasting my money on escorts just to do the comparison.
Dream sex is quite literally as good as your expectations of it are. Which is massive LifeFuel for people like us.

The problem is that you never quite get the validation from another human desiring you. After about 2 years the dream sex looses its novelty and you start really craving for a real human connection. That's the reason my name is Mik_TFL and not Mik_Incel.

As for having sex with 2D characters, that's waaay easier said than done, the human brain isn't really designed to emulate cartoonish / 2D worlds, whenever I tried it all just ended up becoming "normal 3D" if that makes any sense.

Honestly, sex isn't even the most enjoyable/fulfilling thing you can do while dreaming... to this day, flying hasn't lost its "high" for me.

Learning it isn't hard per se, but it requires a good amount of consistent dedication. It took me 2 weeks to get a 15 second lucid dream, I essentially got too excited and woke myself up. It may not seem like much, but once you get one where you are 100% lucid it really hooks you up, because you really can't tell the difference to being awake, it suddenly feels like anything is within reach. It took about a year to get more consistent dreams and to keep them stable in between dream stages.

Feel free to ask anything, I've helped a bunch of people to get into it.
 
I used to have loads of lucid dreams when I was like 7 years old but it was about shit like scaring dinosaurs and flying around...
Haven't had many lucid dreams I can remember since really...
 
I want to tulpamaxx, i dont know anything about tulpas though.
 
I have never ever had a lucid dream. I would like to and I think I started one a couple of times. But then woke up.
 
At this point I can't even fantasize about having sex, even with 2D characters. She would laugh at my limp dicklet or my pathetic body. I can only jerk off to images, my own humiliation, foid humiliation or fantasies of Chad slaying foids.
 
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As for having sex with 2D characters, that's waaay easier said than done, the human brain isn't really designed to emulate cartoonish / 2D worlds, whenever I tried it all just ended up becoming "normal 3D" if that makes any sense.
That's fine, I'm sure that I could find a compromise somewhere. Like making her 3D while looking 2D (maybe something similar to kemono friends at the best)
The problem is that you never quite get the validation from another human desiring you. After about 2 years the dream sex looses its novelty and you start really craving for a real human connection. That's the reason my name is Mik_TFL and not Mik_Incel.
That's true, I wouldn't expect it to make up for her not being real, but it's the closest that I can get at least. Even hard drugs does not make up for my loneliness.
 
I'm interested in lucid dreaming, primarily because I would be able to kiss, hug/cuddle, and fuck Megumin. I'm a little lonely, so I thought that it would be nice. But it seems like it could be difficult to do this, idk.

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I tried even with supplements (taking them in the middle of the night) but it didn't work. Over for luciddreamcels
 
That's true, I wouldn't expect it to make up for her not being real, but it's the closest that I can get at least. Even hard drugs does not make up for my loneliness.
While I can't lucid dream, at least intentionally anyway(I've had it happen unintentionally a few times as soon as I fell asleep, which would cause me to immediately wake up), damn I would if i could. You should try and see if you can, even consciously visualizing Clare has helped me immensely, especially when falling asleep. It makes me feel noticeably better.

After I started practicing meditation, it became easy to use similar techniques to create mental landscapes without losing focus.
 
I tried even with supplements (taking them in the middle of the night) but it didn't work. Over for luciddreamcels
Have you tried any of the MILD techniques? How is your dream recall?
Even hard drugs does not make up for my loneliness.
This will keep you satisfied for about 7-10 years, the exploration stage is very long, it'll take you a while to figure out what you can and can't do. At first it did actually help with the loneliness, it is after some years that the loneliness came back, after all, being alone and being lonely are not the same thing at all.
I'd say it was the stark difference between the dream life and real life that that made it come back.
 
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Have you tried any of the MILD techniques? How is your dream recall?
I tried writing down my memories about dreams, waking up at 3 am and taking supplements then going back to sleep etc.
I managed to remember dreams better or to increase my senses and perception in dreams. Never managed to have a lucid dream tho
 
Tulpas sounds fake tbh
I think you need to already have identity and information processing problems to create one, but I'm not sure.
 
I think you need to already have identity and information processing problems to create one, but I'm not sure.
I wanted look at it on the internet but process sounds boring and fake
 
If you are a virgin I doubt it would ever work, because if you're a virgin you have nothing to draw or simulate the feeling of sex from.
 
If you are a virgin I doubt it would ever work, because if you're a virgin you have nothing to draw or simulate the feeling of sex from.
I had a dream the other day where I was having sex, granted it was a pretty weird dream, but it felt really good. Probably not what sex actually feels like, I have no idea, but my brain created something.

Of course not everyone is going to have the same experience I'm sure.
 
I need to look for a foid figure first as reference for the girl that I plan on having in my lucid dream
 
When I never fapped, I had lucid dreams a few times
 
I tried writing down my memories about dreams, waking up at 3 am and taking supplements then going back to sleep etc.
I managed to remember dreams better or to increase my senses and perception in dreams. Never managed to have a lucid dream tho
If you are already at the point where you can clearly remember more than 1 dream when waking up, I'd try the MILD (Mnemonic induced lucid dream) technique for one week. In a nutshell, you try to make doing a dream check into a habit in the hope that it'll randomly happen within a dream.
The brute-force method is to just set a vibrating alarm on your phone every 30 mins to force you to do the dream check all the time, there is also an alternative version to this that I've found works better though:
You set vibrating alarms every 30 mins and try to see if you can come with doing the dream check yourself naturally before the next one triggers, if you remember to do a check within 5 mins of the next alarm, then just skip the alarm.

As for the dream check itself, one might work better than the other depending on the person, so there is no one size fits all for it, my favorite is counting the fingers in your hand, more often than not I have extra fingers If I'm dreaming and not yet fully lucid. Common ones include:
-counting fingers
-reading the time in a clock twice and have it change
-reading text twice
-flipping a light switch and have it fail
-Jump and fall slowly
-close your nose and try to breathe
... a quick google search will come up with a bunch of tests, most of them have some actual basis as to why they work, e.g. breathing while closing your nose works because your actual body does breathe while asleep.

The other technique you were using (WBTB wake back to bed) could eventually work, but you need to try different times (try adding 10 min to the alarm every day until you find the right spot), no need to take supplements, you want to wake up exactly before entering one of the REM phases, and go back to sleep immediately afterwards. You could also set up a camera pointed at your face and record yourself while sleeping, then the next day just fast forward the video and note the timestamps of the REM phases.

If you are into electronics, you make a DIY mask that detects the REM stage and the flashes your eyes with some low power LED's. You'll be able to see the light within the dream and use that to trigger the lucid dream, there are a bunch of DIY tutorials online for those.
 
I don’t know what lucid dreaming really even is, and I highly doubt I can do it. I rarely dream but once I had a super realistic dream that this chad from my high school ran into me while driving and I got out my car and cracked his skull with my tire iron. Seemed so real man I almost felt high that entire day
 
I do it a lot. i can give you tips and whatnot if youd like
 
I've had a few and they're terrible. You'll never be closer to roping than when you wake up and realize it was all fake.
 
havent tried lucid dreaming because its hard to do where i live with the constant 24/7 noise tbh
ive noticed a while back ago eating bananas 15 min before sleeping will 8 of 10 trigger my dreaming, ive been close to dreaming about sex but because i have never experienced it the dream morphs into something bad or changes entirely when im about to jfl @ cant dream something youve never felt, its over
 
I have. Was breddy gud tbhtbh boyos.
 
and i hope that threads/posts of this nature (interest in loli 2D girl(s)) offends foids, soy cucks, and normies lurking tbh.
 
I routinely use lucid dream to do that, but at beginning it started as a way to evilmax and it was (much) simpler.

The switch to a sex oriented lucid dream requires me to mentally concentrate on what I want to fuck before sleeping, at least 10 minutes.

Then, while I'm falling asleep, I try to be aware I'm slipping into sleep. When I'm successful, it appears a blank scenario and I can fill it in a 3D editor style.

However, sometimes I lose control and the dream reverts back to a murdermaxing lucid dream. :feelshmm:
 
I just saw a video on lucid dreaming in my youtube recommended yesterday. The jews must be pushing this towards us so that we find a faucet of satisfaction. Honestly it sounds too good to be true, like the virtual reality within SAO. But if it does work I do want to get into it. I can't see how a dream would be indistinguishable from reality in sensation though. Does that mean you can simulate sex and even ejaculate?
 
Lucid dreaming is a legit cope. But you need to be very careful sometimes. Once in a lucid dreaming session, I felt an strong urge to shit, I went to bathroom and shat in the dream. It was an explosive diarrheal shit. But once I woke up, I found myself in the middle of the room, covered in shit, naked and all the walls and ceiling were smeared with liquid diarrheal shit stains. The dream was nice, but the reality was a nightmare.
 
I have a very hard time trying to induce a lucid dream, however when a dream presented me with the opportunity to have sex I went for it. The only problem was that it didn’t feel like anything
 

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