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Discussion Befriend old people, (especially women)

Shinichi

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If I had to give one good piece of advice, it would be this, if you're a lonely male under the age of 35, you should befriend older people and especially older women. Chances are even if you're ugly as shit, if you're not too autistic and are just kind of shy, elderly people gravitate towards you. They tend to be lonely and also tend to be more empathetic than other people since they can probably reject the same feelings they have for their children or grandchildren on you. This has always been a thing with me and it helps, especially since even though I'm 26, a lot of people think that I look 20 or even 19. Older people tend to be nicer than me in general and I actually tend to be nice just to older people since I was primarily raised by my grandparents (my parents are in the picture and aren't divorce or anything. I just was always around my grandparents more than anyone) One mistake I did make was when I was in high school. I tried to be nice to all the hot young female teachers since I was an all boy school and those are the only women we had contact with. Big mistake. Since there in their mid-twenties mentally, they're still at the level of a high schooler. All meaning they're going to act towards you in the same way that any other young. Stacy of your age is going to act. Completely dismissive. Where I work is a field of shit people but one of the lights of my work life right now is this older Dominican lady who treats me like her son. She says I look like him (I don't see the resemblance) and act like him. He also says he's kind of a "pussy", her words not mine. For a while just to be kind of a prick I would refer to him as pussy son before I actually learned his name.
That being said, she is always there for me and always bills me out of trouble when the boss is on my ass. If you can manage to find a relationship like that, it honestly is allergic coping mechanism cuz at least you're getting female affection just not the sexual kind.
 
not a single older person wanted to be friends with me
 
let alone old foids
 
fuck would i befriend old skeletons like @Emba who are gonna be in the grave in less than a decade?
 
Lots of my friends were born in the 1800s
 
Fair advice, but in most cases the older woman won't be worth the bother and can't help you in any way. All women are inherently selfish and clueless, they don't grow out of that.
 
Dude you’re disrespecting a Vietnam vet
fuck he do in vietnam? groom gooks? he probably already ascended over there too and he came to larp with us.
 
What would I get out of that?
 
If I had to give one good piece of advice, it would be this, if you're a lonely male under the age of 35, you should befriend older people and especially older women. Chances are even if you're ugly as shit, if you're not too autistic and are just kind of shy, elderly people gravitate towards you. They tend to be lonely and also tend to be more empathetic than other people since they can probably reject the same feelings they have for their children or grandchildren on you. This has always been a thing with me and it helps, especially since even though I'm 26, a lot of people think that I look 20 or even 19. Older people tend to be nicer than me in general and I actually tend to be nice just to older people since I was primarily raised by my grandparents (my parents are in the picture and aren't divorce or anything. I just was always around my grandparents more than anyone) One mistake I did make was when I was in high school. I tried to be nice to all the hot young female teachers since I was an all boy school and those are the only women we had contact with. Big mistake. Since there in their mid-twenties mentally, they're still at the level of a high schooler. All meaning they're going to act towards you in the same way that any other young. Stacy of your age is going to act. Completely dismissive. Where I work is a field of shit people but one of the lights of my work life right now is this older Dominican lady who treats me like her son. She says I look like him (I don't see the resemblance) and act like him. He also says he's kind of a "pussy", her words not mine. For a while just to be kind of a prick I would refer to him as pussy son before I actually learned his name.
That being said, she is always there for me and always bills me out of trouble when the boss is on my ass. If you can manage to find a relationship like that, it honestly is allergic coping mechanism cuz at least you're getting female affection just not the sexual kind.
:feelswhat:
What’s the point of befriending a foid if you’re not gonna have sex? You wanna just hang out with a foid and hear all the dumb shit they talk about? Befriending foids of any age is faggot trait. If you’re gonna befriend an old person, find an old man. He probably has some wisdom to share and may even have some cool stuff to leave you when he bombs off. Old men always have cool shit like guns, tools, and watches.
 
Nah i hate old cunts
 
they dont like me
 
Fair advice, but in most cases the older woman won't be worth the bother and can't help you in any way. All women are inherently selfish and clueless, they don't grow out of that.
 
Middle aged and old people are chill, they don't outright reject your freindship advances like zoomers do, but dam. I run out of things to talk about because i don't have normie's interests
 
I would like to be friends with an elderly man who had many millions and was abandoned and who, upon his death, would give me his fortune in his will. However, I am so unlucky that it will never happen to me.
 
This has always been a thing with me and it helps, especially since even though I'm 26, a lot of people think that I look 20 or even 19.
Literally me. As well as older people gravitating to me. Sorry we're in the same boat, brother.
 
older people would empathise but still try to bluepill you
 
OLD PEOPLE DONT WANT TO BE MY FRIENDS
 
Literally me. As well as older people gravitating to me. Sorry we're in the same boat, brother.
It's honestly not that bad. It's better be be younger looking if awkward/autistic since more people will think Its cute or sweet. Being old and Awkward is just disgusting to people.
 
If you are autistic you can kind of get by acting a bit childish, because due to our disability other people inherently see us as children mentally
 
:feelswhat:
What’s the point of befriending a foid if you’re not gonna have sex? You wanna just hang out with a foid and hear all the dumb shit they talk about? Befriending foids of any age is faggot trait. If you’re gonna befriend an old person, find an old man. He probably has some wisdom to share and may even have some cool stuff to leave you when he bombs off. Old men always have cool shit like guns, tools, and watches.
Exactly. Old dudes, who are preferrably alone.
They too need a friend and since most children don't visit their parents enough or at all, they might even view you as their son and their new project to raise.

The cool thing is that since you aren't related, the relationship will be a lot better.

I've had such relationship / friendships at work.

Learned a lot from them. Sadly I have learned from other men more than from my own father.
They actually wanted to teach me something properly and they were always so proud when I succeeded and got self-sufficient.
 
Whatever you say Captain Nemo
Emba, if I may ask, how old are you? I just can't really guess how old or young you might be.
 
Yeah, they are almost all bluepillers. That is the downside.
yup, I'm trying to embrace the fact that I'd never find someone who can understand my struggles atleast in real life, so yea. it's hard but should be doable in future
 
Emba, if I may ask, how old are you? I just can't really guess how old or young you might be.
OTOH, I my dearest bro, can use my psychic power to know that you are currently using a phone to visit is...

Simply,

Hold you're phone sideways and all will be reviled
 

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